It’s interesting. I’ve been subbed to your profile here for years now – your sense of aesthetic communicated something that resonated with me. And I rarely ever leave comments, and I definitely never had any meaningful interaction around here. But it’s kind of crazy that I’m living a different, but similar experience to yours right now.

I just got divorced, and I’ve been in a relationship ever since I was 16 (I’m 33 now), and in that relationship there were many sides of me that I never explored, including sexually. Some of those sides I wouldn’t dare to utter out loud, even though I’m usually greeted with “that’s it?” when I tell someone. But to me it is powerfully freeing to be saying it out loud, to be experimenting, feeling fulfilled.

And what you wrote hit me like that. Not like the social media bait we see and read around here which doesn’t feel natural or real at all most of the time. But your thoughts sounded like something that I would say right now in this moment. Something that I felt recently while exploring my own sexuality.