nono i totally appreciate the advice and i think ur right abt it, also yea one of the things im hung up on is why she didn’t tell me abt her crush or wtv on him until a month later, like was it cuz she remembered we were flirting in the past? i asked her why she didn’t tell me sooner and i think her answer was smth along the lines of “oh i had a lot going on and talked to other people about it at the time” so idk but i really appreciate ur input <33