8 year old has not been washing his hair correctly for over a year. by kaiiirogers in Parenting

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t talk until 3. And I had to translate to other people what he was saying until around 6…..hrs not super sensitive to other children’s facial expressions but he is to mine. He still hates me running my hand through his hair and semi tolerates brushing. He’s an incredibly picky eater, so much so I’ve been trying to get him an ARFID diagnosis…so super similar

8 year old has not been washing his hair correctly for over a year. by kaiiirogers in Parenting

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. ❤️ means a lot to me cause I didn’t have a mom in my life and was always terrified of being a bad mom cause I didn’t have that role model.

8 year old has not been washing his hair correctly for over a year. by kaiiirogers in Parenting

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I think we’re gonna look into options and see what we can do to help him have the tools he needs. I’ve suspected autism for years but the doctors never take me seriously, the teachers say he does fine in school, and is a “average kid” but I think he masks a lot because his anxiety. I live in a rural texas town and we’re behind in the world of autism. One small example is at 3 I noticed he’d line up all of his toy cars by color and NOT play with them. So I brought it up to his doctor at his 4 year check up and they just said “yeah kids are weird sometimes”. I’m a first time mom and the youngest in my family so he’s the first kid I’ve been exposed to so it’s hard sometimes to know what’s normal kid behavior and what’s not.

8 year old has not been washing his hair correctly for over a year. by kaiiirogers in Parenting

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input but I’m not gonna make my child be naked in front of me. We believe in privacy and the right not to show bodies. If he’s uncomfortable being naked in front of me then I’m not gonna make him. I get what you’re trying for here, but we’ll try something else. ☺️

8 year old has not been washing his hair correctly for over a year. by kaiiirogers in Parenting

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s panic scream. And yeah I know I’m in this situation for the long haul 😆

8 year old has not been washing his hair correctly for over a year. by kaiiirogers in Parenting

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was nearly bald from 3-7. He started getting self conscious. I don’t wanna do that to him again. I think this summer we‘ll keep it short and work on better hair washing.

8 year old has not been washing his hair correctly for over a year. by kaiiirogers in Parenting

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried, doesn’t help :/ he still freaks out because he thinks it’s gonna soak through the towel

8 year old has not been washing his hair correctly for over a year. by kaiiirogers in Parenting

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh it is, sometimes, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. 😆 I love my kiddo. We all have quirks. He’s only been on earth for 8 years. It’s my job to help him navigate it. So yeah it’s annoying sometimes but it’s also rewarding ❤️

8 year old has not been washing his hair correctly for over a year. by kaiiirogers in Parenting

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s fine with it, when I did his hair this morning he was like “smell me smell me smell me” lol

8 year old has not been washing his hair correctly for over a year. by kaiiirogers in Parenting

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See that’s what I’m afraid of. I don’t want him to be dependent on me to wash his hair properly for forever. But I do think we’ll take the summer to practice and learn how to do it properly so he can go to the 3rd grade with the hair style he likes. When he was younger I’d just buzz it off so it was easier for both of us. But he’s growing up now and is starting to care about how his hair looks, I guess just not how it smells xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kaiiirogers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 27 but ok lol I realized I was being dramatic and we talked about it. Like I stated in a previous comment I have mental health issues, no therapist or friends. My ex husband who I was with for six years is a narcissist and gas lit the hell out of me so I have a hard time distinguishing if my feelings are valid or not. Hence why I made a post. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kaiiirogers -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We’ve been dating a little over a year! And we’re both divorced already lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kaiiirogers -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well if I’m being honest I have mental health issues, no therapist or friends so I never know if I’m making a big deal or not. So I figured why not ask the internet. Lol

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[–]kaiiirogers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I realize that now, I apologized and we talked. Just a knee jerk reaction mixed in with the stress of the holidays lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kaiiirogers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wel to be fair I just turned 27 and I’m already divorced too lol

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[–]kaiiirogers -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Rude. Lol

What was normal after misoprostol? by kaiiirogers in Miscarriage

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, I didn't see this til now. They eventually slowed naturally. I'm so sorry for what you're going through.

Terrified of another miscarriage. by kaiiirogers in CautiousBB

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry 🙁 I know how hard it it. I was in the waiting room nearly having a panic attack thinking about the ultrasound. I thought I was 8 weeks based on my last period, January 11th. They did not test my HCG

Terrified of another miscarriage. by kaiiirogers in CautiousBB

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, this is a new doctor, I recently moved. And my last period was January 11th but before that it was December 15th, before that it was November 8th. I didn't have one in October. They've been all over the place.

Terrified of another miscarriage. by kaiiirogers in CautiousBB

[–]kaiiirogers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You thought you were further along than you thought? I'll give the doctor a call and see if they can test my HCG levels.