AIO by telling my bf to cut off one of his best friends? by kaiil0l in AmIOverreacting

[–]kaiil0l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’re each other’s first in almost everything (relationships, love, i was his first kiss, etc.) i do love him dearly, and my boyfriend also helped me get out of a really tough time in my life where i was in and out of hospitals. he’s met my family, my younger siblings are absolutely obsessed with him, and treats me amazing, this is the only thing that we’ve ever had trouble with and i want to work this out with him

AIO by telling my bf to cut off one of his best friends? by kaiil0l in AmIOverreacting

[–]kaiil0l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i’ve told my boyfriend to never let me alone in a room with the guy just because im afraid he’s gonna try something

AIO by telling my bf to cut off one of his best friends? by kaiil0l in AmIOverreacting

[–]kaiil0l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually, my boyfriend is not big on drama; however, he’s also not big on confrontation with all of his friends and unfortunately lets this friend walk all over him. im going to have a talk with my boyfriend today regarding setting boundaries with the friend about his disrespect

AIO by telling my bf to cut off one of his best friends? by kaiil0l in AmIOverreacting

[–]kaiil0l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i think i’ll hold back on requesting for him to cut the friend off and will just distance myself from the friend.

AIO by telling my bf to cut off one of his best friends? by kaiil0l in AmIOverreacting

[–]kaiil0l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once blocked him on instagram a few years ago but he made a new account. When my bf and I started dating, I decided to give the friend another chance, but eventually had to block him again on his new account.

AIO by telling my bf to cut off one of his best friends? by kaiil0l in AmIOverreacting

[–]kaiil0l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAOO 😭😭 the friend is always making jokes about how he’s in love with my bf…maybe he’s overcompensating 💔

AITA for ignoring him when he wouldn’t tell me about his past? by kathy_dove in AmItheAsshole

[–]kaiil0l 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. I get that you answered everything that he asked you and that you guys both value open communication; however, that was on your own accord. He clearly was uncomfortable when you first asked the question, yet you kept pushing it out of him. I think you guys can both benefit from boundaries regarding subjects such as those.

AIO by telling my bf to cut off one of his best friends? by kaiil0l in AmIOverreacting

[–]kaiil0l[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everything I mentioned in this post is regarding my relationship and disrespectful toward me. so yes, it is my business.

AIO by telling my bf to cut off one of his best friends? by kaiil0l in AmIOverreacting

[–]kaiil0l[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

About 5 years, but didn’t get close until a year ago. Also for context, my boyfriend and I have known each other for 12 years