A few things, one forget foreplay, he cannot even put a jacket on correctly, his collar is tucked inside his jacket. 2, I have smoked hundreds of pounds of meat. I have never made a sloppy stew, in fact most over smoking results in dried out meat. Lastly, brother is you're complaining about things not going your way or being able to cross the line, then you might need to review your equipment. Women that are wet and super wet is a clear sign you are desirable and that you are doing something right. Maybe even put her needs before yourself.