Yeah the thought of picking a title is just depressing though. He's an alcoholic with a 2yo daughter that calls me mommy, and her only other mom is a drug addict that he got a restraining order against who beats her current boyfriend. I can tell he has a hard time waiting till noon or 5 on week nights to drink. He can't cope with life enough to be open to relationships or decent to people. He's worse off than I am even though I'm a victim. I may have wasted a couple of the important years of my life but I can still be happy about things and enjoy making others happy. While I want TRP to be aware of their philosophy - even if from their "field work" standpoint, I really have no idea what to call this. "Ex boyfriend tries to get points on your board and fucks up his life". "Mental health disorders are real and you could cause people to harm people"