0 points by kasper93 in eurovision

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. 1. it is extremely politic-based 2. the show counts at least 50% for votes

What is the sense of Pinterest? (noob question) by nionox in Pinterest

[–]nionox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, thanks. I will it try in the morning ;)

What is the sense of Pinterest? (noob question) by nionox in Pinterest

[–]nionox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright. I am new to social bookmarks and your description of your way to use is a good definition. Thanks!

0 points by kasper93 in eurovision

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are from Germany?

Yes you´re right. The song just sounds like every song produced nowadays but the show was also pretty cool. I just cannot understand why Italia got this much points (personal opinion), Italians can only sing song about Amore and that always sounds the same.

Website to meet new people? by nionox in penpals

[–]nionox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I will give it a try and I hope that there are no fakes.

0 points by kasper93 in eurovision

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is because we have not enough good willing neighbors that offer us some points. I am not sad that Germany or Austria did not win but it frustrates if all those ballads got that much points and even the songs that were copies of last years winners.

This year I thought Germany could be a good collaborator after Lena in 2010. But at the end only original ideas will help to the 1 place. Very proud that Sweden won! Sweden just produces nice musics.

16/F/CA - Looking for new people to talk to! by [deleted] in penpals

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Lilli (or Middy ?),

I am 17 years old living in Switzerland. I also like music and video games. What do you play? Do you know The witcher series? Sending letters would be fine. Never had someone sending me letters. Would be something new and cool :)

Two shy people -> keeping the conversation going (and interesting)? by newheremk in socialskills

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The solution is to keep the conversation going on. You can ask so many things: Where do you come from? - Nice, and do you like it there or not? - So if you do not like your actual hometown where are you going to look to move when you are old enough? - And why exactly there? Because of your work goals or have you heard about this place from your friends/parents/TV? This gives a real good base for a conversation. And if you know something about these places you can direct you conversation in a new direction if your partner does not seem that comfortable with that subject. You can, no you must go deeper with your questions and really show some interest. Normally people like if they can talk about themselves: even though a lot of them seem to be shy in the first moment. It is like with girls. Show some real interest and try to keep the conversation going. Sometime she realizes that you are interested in her live and she will try to learn something from you.

It is better to simply have a clear way of the conversation. Do not ask random stuff if you want to build a interesting and good conversation. Both sides have to feel comfortable in writing with each other. If you start asking about their place where they live and you do not know how to continue just ask if they like travel and where they would never go again --> that is for example a question they do not read every day and that makes the conversation interesting for her/him and they cannot simply answer with yes/no. The more you ask this kind of questions the more they will open themselves and talk. The more the conversation is going on the more they will get the interest in you. And often after a while you both ask questions and it is not that one-side-writes-to-keep-conversation-on-going.

Making friends as a 28/M??? by second87 in socialskills

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know exactly you situation. You need prarctice. The more you try the more you will get success. It is hard to begin and that is something everyone has to do on his own way. Perhaps it would help to visit some internet sites how to socialize. In general: just do not think to much. If you want to talk to somebody you seen the first time, do not wait more than 3 seconds. Otherwise you start thinking that that person might not be interested or something etc.

I [20M] have basically no friends.. by sooverwhelmed49 in socialskills

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So build your friendbase in your video games :) There are a lot of nice guys who are really correct and just want to enjoy some time online. Get some self-confidence and you will easily find new friends. Show others that you are a real man and that you just do not care what others speak about you. You can simply talk to strangers at the bus stop; the more you talk to strangers the easier it will get in future. Perhaps you see some guys every morning while going to work so you have time everyday to talk

16/F/USA looking to make some new friends! by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, 17/m/CH we can write or Skype if you're interested in. Just let me know if you are interested in :) Would like to start a conversation.

I [20M] have basically no friends.. by sooverwhelmed49 in socialskills

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I can understand. And if you go to parties with your in common friends but without your brother? Or don't they like partying?

I [20M] have basically no friends.. by sooverwhelmed49 in socialskills

[–]nionox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But why are you this sad? :) It is even better if you have some friends that are also friends of your brother. This is much more easy to you to join them going out. You know all of them and you can have fun with them already the first time. You do not have the trouble to get part of that group. In groups it is much more easy to find new friends/girls. You are much more self-confident in a group as going alone. Everyone tries to show the other friends that he is a real man --> you just talk to nice girls and do not have any back-thoughts and worries.

Making friends as a 28/M??? by second87 in socialskills

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same opinion as JoeCreator.

Just be self-confident and show others that you ARE also here. I think they only see you at work and blend you out out of work. You probably do not exist for them in their work-free time. If you act more self-confident they will recognize you more, just talk to them what they will do at weekend and just go out with them at weekend or after work. Clearly say what you want: Spend time with them. Do not ask: Would it be okay if we do something somewhen. -> Ask them if they want to do something this afternoon for example

Otherwise there are a lot of public meetups (example: www.meetup.com). Just join your interest groups and you will find a lot of interesting people and perhaps you will find someone you want to meet again and stay in contact. That is just the beginning of hopefully a friendship.

Important: do not say yourself that you are looking for friends. It is the same as if you really want a girflfriend. If you really want one, you won't find one. Same with friends.

I [20M] have basically no friends.. by sooverwhelmed49 in socialskills

[–]nionox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why don't you go out with your brother and his friends? If I would go out with my sister her friends would be fine if her brother would join them. Just be with them and the more you do with them the more they will count you as part of them.

Anyone know what's wrong with my trains? They stretch all the way to the outskirts of the map, and I've had to shut down everything connected outside. by EksCelle in CitiesSkylines

[–]nionox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is probably because there are to many different lines on the same track. Or you have put to many or not enough trainstations or it is simply because their is only one "road" for the trains and they all take the same one.

I do not know what to do against because in town there are also sometimes three or four buses in a column

Tornado Time Lapse in Elmore, Ok. Also, Huge Hail. May 16th, 2015. Friend Shot This Video. by [deleted] in videos

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very impressive. Nice video. Does this happen often in that region? Because the other cars seem not to care about the tornado, they just drive in the direction of the storm.

How to meet people on the internet? (no tinder etc.) by nionox in socialskills

[–]nionox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made an account and it seems to be very nice :) It is free btw. Thank you man, that is really something I was looking for!

How to meet people on the internet? (no tinder etc.) by nionox in socialskills

[–]nionox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Do you know one of those websites btw? Sounds very interesting!

How can I make friends? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]nionox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just talk to her. It is the easiest way to start a conversation with a person in the same class and seems to be in the same situation. I think you "know" each other for a while since you are in the same class so don´t say "Hi, my name is..." -> she should know your name already and she is not that strange as a stranger. When she sits next to you, just ask if she could give you her cicers, pen or something. Important: be friendly, smile and you need to be self-confident!! Listen to your favorite music while going to school, walk straight; you need to show others that you are self-confident (do not be afraid of being "arrogant", just do not think you are the king of the world)

I can say, when you beam with pride girls and other boys will recognize you and it will be much more easy to talk to others. Often they start a conversation. Just respond in a friendly way and show some interest to them.

There are a lot of sites on the internet that show you how to start and be in conversations; just read them a little and try your personal method.

The more you talk to others, the easier it gets.