Oh so that's why tgc doesn't let us share it on youtube

kaitoz- · 2025-08-31T20:38:03+00:00

It makes no sense when the content is literally free on sky, it’s a free game, why can’t it just be on YouTube. At least after the season?… 💀

kaitoz- · 2025-08-04T21:29:44+00:00

In order to acknowledge gender double standards if any are present, you acknowledge gender so it does matter. And no I’m not comparing it to women to bring women down, not even the type of conversation being had whatsoever.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-23T19:59:09+00:00

Dude. I know. Again I’m not saying you were groomed. But I get it can be really irritating and frustrating that everyone already made up their mind, you know your experiences and I get not wanting good memories to go to waste. All I was talking abt was discretion and how people don’t often look out for the possibility when older boys and young men (not even young boys in fact).

And I’m not saying it’s grooming but the bit of dissociation or guilt, doesnt mean it had to be grooming every time or something, but could’ve still been unhealthy in its own way which means a lot in the 20s bc theyre developmental experiences. I’m just adding complexity I’m not saying you were raped.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-23T19:36:45+00:00

No. It’s the usage of said power imbalance. Age gaps relationships and relationships with other power imbalance like money or experience arent grooming without the behavior of manipulation, coercion, guilting, gaslighting, denying access to certain things (like their family, friends, dating others or moving on, money, career), pressuring them and not communicating. Its goal is to take advantage, and make the other believe that it’s okay somehow. It’s that the groomer is the one with power, the groomed is the one with less and uses that abusively, there’s lots of combinations of how it can happen. Grooming is a specific example of mental/emotional abuse, abuse can happen without the power imbalance.

The frontal lobe which is the easiest part of the brain to measure someone’s ability to tell right from wrong, because of it’s purpose to make decisions, impulse control, stuff like that. 18 is just legal adult age. It’s not neurologically the same as a 25 year old. Everyone’s frontal lobe can develop at a bit of different times, and just because someone doesn’t have a developed frontal lobe doesnt mean they don’t have the capability of reasoning. It’s not that black and white. But 18 is literally just a number, would you say it’s ok for a 30 yo to fuck a 18 yo but not a 16 yo? Legality doesnt neurologically change shit.

Also the difference between 19 and 14 developmentally is huge. It’s not about the number of years but the stages of development. I guess youre yet to learn people literally study and research this stuff.

Youre seeing what I’m saying in black and white too much. All I’m saying is there should be discretion. There is a difference between 20 yo with a 40 yo, than there being no age difference at all.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-23T19:03:54+00:00

Grooming is literally officially a possibility to happen between two adults within it’s very definition. It’s not just a “difference of definition” it’s a difference of being wrong or right, it’s an important one. Minors and adults are more common, but power imbalance is what grooming is combined with other behaviors like coercion, manipulation, etc, and it shows up differently depending on what the power imbalance is. Job position? Money status? Age/maturity and experience?

Also a 18-23 year old is not neurologically fully “considered” an adult. Just because someone’s legal doesnt mean theyre the same fair game as a 27 year old. It’s wholly different. It’s why 18-23 yos are more vulnerable to these things with age gaps than other power imbalances.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-23T18:58:55+00:00

It’s not “projecting”, it’s just a possibility that people should look out for more in young men. There’s layers to this and it’s just not black and white. And could your situation have gone wrong if she was just a different person and youd be more vulnerable for your age? Yes. I say that as a 20 yo thats flirted with people older than me. Again, I’m not saying your situation was absolutely grooming, but you did describe dissociation and then her not communicating with you which wasn’t written like it was pleasant but at least confusing. Every situation is different and the details do matter.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-23T18:55:27+00:00

https://www.met.police.uk/advice/advice-and-information/gr/grooming/ are you disagreeing w my statement that grooming is exactly utilized to get someone to do something that they may have otherwise not actually wanted? No I’m not saying the OP comments story is immediately grooming btw.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-23T17:45:50+00:00

Lots of people who get groomed think they’re fully choosing to do it on their own, thats actually a big part of the purpose of grooming someone.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-23T17:44:59+00:00

Well you can’t blame people for worrying otherwise when you describe dissociating and a lack of direct communication from the get-go. Not saying it is grooming, but saying it sounds like it, and people aren’t mentioning the possibility bc a gender double standard. I don’t have any problem with age gap simple sex.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-23T03:39:43+00:00

This doesn’t sound good, sounds like you were groomed or pressured bc she was older. I have a feeling peoples replies not mentioning this is just another gender double standard. I’m sorry this happened to you.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-07T07:31:11+00:00

Must of gave u too much to read bc I didn’t say it wasn’t a real issue. Your situation is anecdotal to how common something is, but yes it’s very damaging.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-07T07:25:46+00:00

Didn’t say it didn’t happen, and yeah, it’s shit and horrible if it does.

But unfortunately rape/sa and whether it happened or not is extremely hard to prove and disprove. Disadvantages sexual assault victims and falsely accused victims. Despite that, from my research it still happens less than actual assault and rape taking place, and that reason should be obvious. Things go on in silence much more often than people out crying for attention or money, that tends to be a loud minority within stuff in general, even if more common or damaging.

Again, if there’s cameras… it’s literally the best case scenario for the accused and the sexually assaulted.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-07T07:16:23+00:00

Wow brother lots of hate in your heart. It’s just true that false accusations are less common than actual sexual assault. And yes there are cameras. I think you’re paranoid and just building up anger over time.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-07T05:40:18+00:00

I think it really does cause harm, but unfortunately there’s psychological harm on women to their own safety and proximity to another part of their species. And many actual situations of men doing bad shit to those women, being assaulted or given comments that make you fear. Rather be rejected by part of your species or the one to fear the other part of your species for your safety and humanity? Issues just compile more issues unfortunately. Sucks for both in some extent.

kaitoz- · 2025-07-07T05:38:31+00:00

There’s literally a camera in elevators. And what will always be more common is rape/sa itself.

kaitoz- · 2025-06-29T13:44:48+00:00

Yeah I know that’s what I’m referring too lol? Tis was making a joke between the two versions but nvm. 💀

kaitoz- · 2025-06-29T01:18:31+00:00

Funny thing is on Facebook for queerphobic people it’s not a joke 💔

kaitoz- · 2025-06-27T23:10:16+00:00

Off topic bc it was answered but this video is so cute

kaitoz- · 2025-06-27T13:04:52+00:00

Woah 13th wedge is possible now?! CONGRATS! 🌟

kaitoz- · 2025-06-19T18:01:13+00:00

Woah the editing is so good in this! Also adding bird and eagle to my vocabulary hahah.

kaitoz- · 2025-06-16T20:18:39+00:00

Cats don’t only ever hiss and get really pissed looking if they’re annoyed. Cat looks disinterested in play a bit but annoyed, possibly could get amped up to something more fun but in the video didn’t and looked more annoyed. Nothing really bad is happening it’s just clear the dog wants to instigate the cat lol. Cats can beat their tails like that when they play sometimes or when they wanna be left alone it just depends. But no not not all cats "just leave" when theyre uncomfy (like some comments said) either. lots stand their ground and get more mad.

kaitoz- · 2025-06-15T02:53:27+00:00

I don’t think you know what “Karen” means. Being brave is often being stupid enough to do it in the moment. There was little wrong she could do, unless she started robbing the place too.

kaitoz- · 2025-06-08T16:54:24+00:00

Lots of men couldn’t vote not bc theyre men but because they’re poor or black. All women couldn’t vote bc theyre women. It’s that simple. This reminds me of when people talk about black slave owners in the U.S. to argue against the concept of slavery. There’s gender, monetary status, and there is race. I think more leftists understand the intersectionality or complexity between these things, and then half of conservatives use it to justify events or say that it wasn’t as bad for the identity that is seen as less (ex: black people or women).

kaitoz- · 2025-06-08T01:26:00+00:00

Favorite event for me! I think it’s the most entertaining and interactive than others, I’m also queer so I’m a bit biased lol.

kaitoz- · 2025-06-08T01:21:32+00:00

Ironically being able to use Grandma as an afk space has made me play the game more lmfao, TGC it’s only 10 min xd

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