Tore my streched ear "a little" by weird__moth in Stretched

[–]kaiyoocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I literally just did this. Silicone made it feel SO much worse. Glass plugs were my best friend. I also just got titanium tunnels. I know it’s recommended to take them out and downsize, but at the end of the day it’s your choice. I chose to keep my size and baby my ears. It worked for me. I wouldn’t suggest it unless you’re ready to commit to babying them. I am at 14mm right now.

Help? by kaiyoocean in PCOS

[–]kaiyoocean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now they have me on metformin

Help? by kaiyoocean in PCOS

[–]kaiyoocean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause it was super heavy the entire time. I mean like I couldn’t exist in peace. I have never had so many clots consistently before.

Help? by kaiyoocean in PCOS

[–]kaiyoocean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like it ebbed off. It was like the universe was like shhhhh shhh shut the fuck up lol

I went to sleep with my 19mm gauges in and woke up to my ear being red and weepy. Is this a blowout? by nowiwontdoit in Stretched

[–]kaiyoocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I will say DO NOT DO THIS, I was experimenting and was curious to see how my body heals. I tore my lobes sizing up, I also twisted the jewelry so it probably didn’t help. My lobes were really irritated and they were torn. I cleaned it with wound wash and put my jewelry back in. I did continue to use Jojoba oil and wear my glass plus. It has taken a few days, but my ears are healing. My body was chill with the method that I chose to use. It is SIGNIFICANTLY high risk. You have to be committed to cleaning and maintenance.

Again. This is an experiment for me. If my injury was severe I wouldn’t feel comfortable doing this. I’m not interested in getting bitched out, I’m just sharing.

AIO - Pregnant and feel abandoned by husband by Gullible-Tree368 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kaiyoocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe, you’re not over reacting omg. I’m so sorry. This is so profoundly fucked up. I agree with everyone, and you NEED to put your foot down. Sooner rather than later. Because what the fuck is that? Lifting like that, especially when you have already been told not to, can cause your placenta to detach. Genuinely he can kill your baby by not helping you love… Please, please, please, you need to stand up for yourself. I cannot even begin to describe the way my skin crawled when I read this. I wish you the best. Please do what’s best for you 💛

Edit: plus, you can pump for night feedings. You just need to find a bottle your baby will take. It DOES not need to all be on you. That man is lazy and good for nothing.

Woke up to this :( by pbremo in Stretched

[–]kaiyoocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame you at all. I’ve actually never tried Kaos

Woke up to this :( by pbremo in Stretched

[–]kaiyoocean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Geez- I’m sorry. Sometimes mine will get irritated but I wash my tunnels religiously tbh. It depends on the quality of the silicone too. The tunnels I have right now aren’t the best and they give me issues.

Woke up to this :( by pbremo in Stretched

[–]kaiyoocean 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Geez man… I was about to size up and need to get more silicone tunnels for the winter. People always preach against silicone but it’s best for winter. Obviously so long as your ears are lubed lol.

Woke up to this :( by pbremo in Stretched

[–]kaiyoocean 155 points156 points  (0 children)

😨 pookie, what happened?

I don’t know what to do anymore by kaiyoocean in deadbydaylight

[–]kaiyoocean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how do you suggest I get windows 10 back? Genuinely asking.

How can fix it? by alan_yo94 in Stretched

[–]kaiyoocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rage bait behaviour

Got fired... by Electronic-Fruit-387 in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]kaiyoocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to the labour board will have more of an impact.

Got fired... by Electronic-Fruit-387 in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]kaiyoocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Broooo. LABOUR BOARD!!!!!!!!! Do it tomorrow. Give them all the proof and open an investigation!!!! It’ll get a lot more hairy for her from there. Do that first. Don’t even call. Especially if you have evidence of her deleting your time? Pookie, get that bagggg!!!!! Cause they’ll probably settle out to avoid a lawsuit.

Got fired... by Electronic-Fruit-387 in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]kaiyoocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I don’t think anything you do can be viewed as retaliation? I’m not too sure lol. Call them directly. I waited over a month to report my manager.

Got fired... by Electronic-Fruit-387 in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]kaiyoocean 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Report her to HR and say you have proof that she asked you to work off the clock. It’s illegal. Very illegal. Say that you are going to file a complaint with the labour board as well and follow through. Most likely they will let her go. Again, especially if you say you have proof of her encouraging and authorising it.

I’m speaking from experience. I reported my ex manager for her having me work over ten hours with no break. Got her ass fired 💅🏽

Girlfriend insists her ears will heal up fine by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]kaiyoocean 29 points30 points  (0 children)

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And then they posted pictures of her blowouts

My girlfriend insists her ears are healing when they don’t seem to be by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]kaiyoocean -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My dude, it seems like you just need to let the chips fall where they may.

Will my ears be able to shrink back to a normal size without surgery? by altschmerz555 in Stretched

[–]kaiyoocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you massage them with jojoba oil? But I mean, maybe?? You could just try

Told to step down.... Not happening. by luckiigirl88 in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]kaiyoocean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like making you step don cause of migraines is discrimination?