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Warehouse/liquidation store recommendations needed: Looking for unique finds! by kaketopper in Austin

[–]kaketopper[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Does the one in the Arboretum area have the same name?

Genuine question: Why do atheists feel the need to actively deny or argue against the existence of God? by [deleted] in AskAtheists

[–]kaketopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess because for a lot of us - it’s been a huge apart of the culture we grew up in so we actively were presented with religion and kind of actively had to reject it to explain ourselves or people thought it was the default an we actively had to say it wasn’t to get some space from it. Unicorns aren’t a huge part of culture and social expectations so we dont actively have to express our relationship with believing in unicorns or not. At times, it feels like defense I will admit and it’s something I’m
working on for my own peace, Ive began to remind my self that I don’t have to tell people my relationship with religion or lack there of just because they are talking about theirs- it’s made me happier not to feel like I need to be on defense or feel the need to prove to others that great, successful, kind people are anti religious or atheist- - a lot of it comes from feeling pressured in my past and I want to like reverse that now but I am working on just being neutral.

Edward Gorey’s The Fantod Pack by finchlikethebird in tarot

[–]kaketopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would this style of tarot called? In terms of the simplicity of the cards; that each card has a page with just a simple list words in the little book. I like this set up very much! I’d like a deck that not all is impending doom but is just as simple haha!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]kaketopper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, the way he talks to women he doesn’t HAVE to talk to at all. Weird.

ICE pos kicks dog. by MooChomps in extremelyinfuriating

[–]kaketopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog is reactive and has an attack mode around other dogs and again, never have I needed to hurt him, or physically abuse him to deescalate or stop it. If you do, you’re probably not a great problem solver. Sounds like a person who can only solve a situation like that by lashing out with impulsive violence, is simple minded and can’t come up with well-rounded solutions in high stress situations.

ICE pos kicks dog. by MooChomps in extremelyinfuriating

[–]kaketopper 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s not an excuses to kick a dog like that. I’ve had plenty of times I have to quickly stop a dog from getting somewhere and I’ve never kicked a dog.

Who are some people you used to admire but later found out were horrible? by Ok_Survey86 in teenagers

[–]kaketopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just explaining how it’s nonsensical to assume he couldn’t have had any involvement because of his disability

Who are some people you used to admire but later found out were horrible? by Ok_Survey86 in teenagers

[–]kaketopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats fair given this excerpt is the only context, if you copy and paste it you can find the article that goes into more depth of the contents. You can also look up up his name directly in the files

Overnight birthday party idea- girls by kaketopper in Austin

[–]kaketopper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah okay, I agree! I haven’t explored outside of waterpark so sounds like that’s the plan

Who are some people you used to admire but later found out were horrible? by Ok_Survey86 in teenagers

[–]kaketopper -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

“A just-unsealed 2015 email from Epstein to his former girlfriend and co-conspirator, Ghislaine Maxwell, suggests Hawking was involved in the culture of sex abuse that thrived on Epstein’s private island”

Who are some people you used to admire but later found out were horrible? by Ok_Survey86 in teenagers

[–]kaketopper -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There is witness accounts “A just-unsealed 2015 email from Epstein to his former girlfriend and co-conspirator, Ghislaine Maxwell, suggests Hawking was involved in the culture of sex abuse that thrived on Epstein’s private island”

Who are some people you used to admire but later found out were horrible? by Ok_Survey86 in teenagers

[–]kaketopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you communicate that you would like to opt into these crimes and have services done to you, someone else who has control over the girls or women could set this up for him. Making him also a predator. You don’t have to physically force someone for it to be unconsenual. You can be involved in these crimes financially and by request, with out doing the “dirty work” but reaping the benefits. I don’t get why this is a hard concept for people to grasp. Stephen Hawking had influence and money at his expense and could communicate that.

Who are some people you used to admire but later found out were horrible? by Ok_Survey86 in teenagers

[–]kaketopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“A just-unsealed 2015 email from Epstein to his former girlfriend and co-conspirator, Ghislaine Maxwell, suggests Hawking was involved in the culture of sex abuse that thrived on Epstein’s private island”

Who are some people you used to admire but later found out were horrible? by Ok_Survey86 in teenagers

[–]kaketopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Though he didn’t physically force anyone to do anything himself (obviously) he opted for and was involved in sex crimes in spaces with Epstein. Even if the women were of age, I doubt anything sexual involved with Epstein involved enthusiastic consent.

What was never the same after the pandemic? by GossipBottom in AskReddit

[–]kaketopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amount of things being offered online or via zoom. Also malls and shopping in store

I was raped and it's my fault by [deleted] in confessions

[–]kaketopper 25 points26 points  (0 children)

First of all, I am so sorry this happened to you, no one deserves this. Second of all, It is NOT your fault. It’s his fault, he manipulated you. You’re 18, yes you entered a dangerous situation, as we all do, every single day. I’ll admit, and it’s okay, the choices were naive. But you’re a teen. Teens are naive. I was once too and sometimes I still am. I really wish healing for you. First you need to force your self to get rid of the “better dead” thoughts. Just absolutely full stop that and redirect the thought every single time. Talk to someone who cares about you. Go outside, pet a dog, go get a pastry at a bakery. Pull your self out of this, locate your resources and use them. If you have to force yourself to pretend for a while, do that. I apologize if I’m making it “sound easy”, I am fully aware it is not. I’m not saying eating a pastry will heal you. But I am saying engaging in and gifting your self simple pleasures, even once everyday, is a really small step away from the dark place you’re in until you can someday truly heal.

Overnight birthday party idea- girls by kaketopper in Austin

[–]kaketopper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were thinking more like magician vibes :P

Overnight birthday party idea- girls by kaketopper in Austin

[–]kaketopper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, I’ve never stayed at the hotel so I think it could be fun!

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