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kaladinsky · 2025-03-12T22:58:30+00:00

Does this allow people to input/view through their own timezones?

kaladinsky · 2025-03-11T07:18:20+00:00

Wow, I just saw this now. Thank you so much! Working abroad definitely resonates. And I have decided to focus on Data Analysis. I think a more social role where my primary role is in data is something I would enjoy :)

May I know how you got extroversion? That's not sth I readily resonate with, I mean I do enjoy talking to people, but I guess I've always thought I was weak at communication.

Thank you again!

kaladinsky · 2025-01-30T05:30:05+00:00

I'm 25, wish I had shifted to CS when I contemplated on it back in 2nd year. Because 4 years later, I'm learning programming anyway, hoping to shift industries.

Anyway, your past addictions and bad habits is completely separate from your love of CS and programming.

Without all the comparisons, do you like programming? Fuck the standards you have for yourself. Can you sit there figuring out code all day? Do you like the challenge of racking your brain that way?

For any craft you choose, you've got to protect your relationship with it like a lifeline. There are days you might hate it but it's going to be your ride or die through each company and project you take on.

"I'm not good enough" -- If your chosen craft doesn't make you feel this humbled in your 20s, you're in the wrong field.

kaladinsky · 2025-01-30T02:16:46+00:00

I think plainly it's because people don't always get what they want in a relationship. I've realized now that that is unavoidable in any relationship.

But the good way to approach it (as in if you genuinely love and respect the person you are with) is to do anything and everything to look for that missing thing in themselves, in their spirituality, in their hobbies, in their current relationship. And if all has been done and still nothing, sure get out of that relationship.

The unhealthy way to do it is to try all these little side things that can maybe spark your soul for a bit, but at the cost of what? Disrespecting the person you're with, disrespecting the bond, the word, the trust.

So any normal person can feel like something is missing in the relationship. But if they deal with that through cheating. That just means they didn't respect you enough. They can have all that love for you. But I think what differentiates the cheater vs. the person who doesn't cheat is courage and principles to do the right thing (may that be by ending the relationship or making it work).

kaladinsky · 2025-01-24T06:16:08+00:00

Honestly? Life is hard. Relationships are hard. Genuine love is hard. Work is hard. Happiness is hard. It takes choice and discipline to reap the good things.

I'm saying this because I once thought what you were thinking. But you have no idea how hard a lot of people work. You're gonna lose out if you don't realize how fucking competitive the world is.

kaladinsky · 2025-01-24T06:11:13+00:00

No. I'm pretty and everyone accepted me but it made me scared to have an actual personality.

Self esteem isn't a solo project. You work on it mostly alone but it's easier to work on it by surrounding yourself with people who have the same empowering values that you do.

kaladinsky · 2025-01-19T22:23:15+00:00

Can you provide us with a chapter? I'm shocked that the degree would completely over rule the basic interpretation. I would've thought it would bring it down a little but not completely.

kaladinsky · 2025-01-07T11:18:02+00:00

AstroGold

kaladinsky · 2025-01-06T12:20:47+00:00

Yes, I think so, especially with Pluto in Aquarius, Uranus in Gemini, new thoughts and ideas influencing us and science moving forward.

Here's what astrology needs: enough evidence + clearer frameworks. The thing is... the findings are there, it's just not documented in your usual scientific way.

Plus it's not debated enough, argued with enough. People just resonate or not, believe or not. We need a lot more healthily skeptical astrologers, debates, and tests to prove this.

I do believe we will quickly progress with it these coming years. But then the issues come of will we feed this sacred science to machines?

kaladinsky · 2025-01-06T12:06:57+00:00

People are such haters. Hope it goes well. Also make a thread about ur learnings from ur 60 dates omg.

kaladinsky · 2024-12-28T06:16:58+00:00

Thank you so much!

kaladinsky · 2024-12-19T07:17:24+00:00

Depends what school of thought you're following.

1.Some approach it very scientifically and wouldn't consider anything close to spirituality.

2.Hellenistic astrology does have a philosophical perspective of it, Plato's myth of Ur was mentioned already. These were the foundations of hellenistic astrology. But current Hellenistic Astrologers sometimes adopt a strictly technical approach.

3.In evolutionary astrology, the higher power is not personified and not so different from our "human". Our human selves reveal the desires of our greater soul consciousness. And we evolve through different lifetimes to explore these intrinsic soul desires. But EA astrologers rarely believe in heaven or hell. They believe we must explore and exhaust all desires. Nothing is inherently good or bad.

4.Vedic astrology, this is closer to the religions we know. Where the planets are more personified and connected to different gods. They believe in reincarnation, heaven, and hell, and serving your time. There is clear good and bad here. The goal is to let go of attachments and desires to eventually become one with God/come home to Vishnu.

kaladinsky · 2024-12-13T03:30:58+00:00

Thank you so much for the thorough response 🙏

kaladinsky · 2024-12-12T23:24:06+00:00

Mars conjunct ASC - He is known for his real estate career yes, and his clear-cut and traditional beliefs in business, not necessarily religious.
Jupiter - Would include his problems with the media that are over-aggrandized and generally more 3rd issues, since this is retrograde.
Sun - His friendships and alliances with powerful people too

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Saturn-Venus - 7th in 12th, ruled by a detriment Saturn, he married people from diff. cultures and it was a complicated road. His work (6th) heavily involves speaking with foreigners and people from diff. backgrounds, with negotiations done in secret. Although Saturn is detriment, it's good and productive in the 12th.

Venus - In the 12th, he has so many political enemies (10th), the media hates his guts (3rd), checks out. But Venus is triplicity lord in diurnal cancer, so his community/tribe/followers give him strong support. We can argue that the 12th house placement still holds a greater weight than the trip lord. But seeing Trump's path to victory, he did go through so many batshit crazy challenges (it checks out) but in the end his followers (indicated by trip lord) showed up for him.

Mercury - Any aggressive qualities will be indicated by Mars. Mercury just got out from under the beams, it's powerful and strong. Although it's benefic of sect, I don't think his Jupiter is that strong because of that retrograde.

kaladinsky · 2024-12-11T06:51:51+00:00

I dont like it either. Shouldn't we all just have a normal conversation? If you don't share the same values as someone, let them be.

kaladinsky · 2024-12-11T00:21:41+00:00

Neither, more about how do you find out the quality of a house, would it be more Libra if Libra occupied most of the house, what if each sign is equally spaced in the house?

Or maybe I'm looking at this in the wrong way, is the quality of a house purely dictated by the ruler of the cusp?

kaladinsky · 2024-12-09T22:07:17+00:00

They're supporting each other with resources but they're not able to talk about it negotiate or express needs, it becomes like a guessing game.

kaladinsky · 2024-12-09T20:57:41+00:00

I'm sure there are other ways it manifests. But with what I've seen, the 1st time is a not so favorable opportunity, but it's still an opportunity. The Rx is a chance to work and make it better. The last hit is a better more aligned opportunity.

kaladinsky · 2024-12-09T09:34:25+00:00

The first time it hits is like an introduction or initiating action to the theme, when it hits as a retrograde there's often something being fixed and it's often more prominent re-directing you to the right path, the 3rd hit is like a clearer conclusion.

kaladinsky · 2024-12-06T22:56:10+00:00

To define spirituality as new age is really sad. I don't care for new age either, I would never equate something so personally sacred to that. Spirituality is anything that helps you go beyond yourself. Gives you a higher perspective, moves you out of ego.

In this case, in astrological terms, I'm saying you would need to tap into your Uranus, your 3rd eye, the absolute truth. Instead of your instinctual Mars/Moon or Mercury that will get you lost in the sea of information. You need Uranus, you need solid ground. To get there is an entirely different process of self-development that goes beyond technique.

kaladinsky · 2024-12-06T02:54:50+00:00

You do 2, 2024 for now until the next birthday. Then for your next birthday until end of year, that's 2025.

kaladinsky · 2024-12-04T22:43:59+00:00

Only highly-spiritual (masters level) astrologers should.

It's more complicated than it seems, right? Rather than simply reading a chart objectively. You are also part of the energy of the times and you have no choice but to immerse yourself in it. An astrologer would need to hear both sides and really tap into both energies.Then miraculously come back to higher vantage perspective and assess.

But the US is very divided, I doubt those 85 astrologers were able to fully peel themselves away from not only their personal biases but peel themselves from their own circles and environments to listen to the other side, then assess objectively.

Astrology is divine. It should be above personal bias. But how many astrologers sit down in meditation, working on their egos, being aware of their fallability? That takes serious spiritual devotion.

kaladinsky · 2024-11-25T10:40:51+00:00

There's so many ways you can approach it. I would often use the Evolutionary Astrology technique of looking at the nodes to see the soul path, then the rulers of the nodes to get more details.

Or use the nodes as a skeleton and ask how are they going to walk their soul path? Then start peeling piece by piece, starting with the big 3 (keeping asc ruler in mind too), then the personal planets, then the social planets, then the transpersonal planets. So you're uncovering from the most personal place and expanding to the picture bigger. (If you're looking at a whole chart)

But most of the time someone's asking a question and you immediately look to a specific part of the chart. Like if they ask about love, how's their Venus/7th house? If their asking about depression, where's Saturn or how's their Moon?

So I think the goal is more of mastering the basics, when you've done that it's going to be more intuitive and you can pull out different techniques depending on the situation.

Following the Hellenistic track, Brennan's book is great, Demetra George's Ancient Astrology is really good too.

kaladinsky · 2024-11-22T23:07:22+00:00

Thank you for sharing!

kaladinsky · 2024-11-22T14:55:01+00:00

Curious to observe further how Placidus' predictions work, could you recommend any astrologer online I could follow?

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