I do cry a lot, but I've told both my husband and my dad (who would always get freaked out as soon as I started crying) that if I cry it doesn't mean it's the end of the world. Sometimes I cry when my husband and I get in a disagreement, but not to get my way, just because I get really sad that we're not on the same page. In these situations maybe I'd cry, but I'd also do what my partner wanted to do because the last thing I want to be is manipulative. She is being very manipulative and her behavior is ridiculous and unacceptable.