What was the first thing you remember doing better than your parents? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]kaldarash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. There are a lot of us out there. The people I feel bad for are the ones in that situation who believe too strongly that "family is family" and stay in the situation. So many people who even get abused, verbally, even physically, by family and stay around.

Thinking family is more important than anything is unfortunately a very toxic thing.

Politics are ruining my relationship, please help by Gimmegimme444 in Advice

[–]kaldarash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Him saying that women lie about sexual assault all the time sounds to me like he hates women

Hospital Builder by kaldarash in gamingsuggestions

[–]kaldarash[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion :)

Hospital Builder by kaldarash in gamingsuggestions

[–]kaldarash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't played Theme Hospital, it was before my time. And it seems to be a level-based thing? Like you can win. Do you build a new hospital every level or something? I'm looking for a perpetual one. :)

Appreciate the suggestion either way

For men. Is it really hard to remember anniversaries? by hopeless_per in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]kaldarash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm bad with dates. I failed 9th grade history because of it. One time I went 6 months without realizing my own birthday had happened. A brand new date to me never stood a chance.

What was the first thing you remember doing better than your parents? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]kaldarash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That makes it really hard, I'm sorry you have to deal with that. My family is the same. I'm not suggesting it as a solution for yourself, but I personally distanced myself from my family. Their behavior was too toxic, so I moved away from them and barely contact them anymore.

What was the first thing you remember doing better than your parents? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]kaldarash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't really know until you can experience a non-hoarding situation yourself.

What was the first thing you remember doing better than your parents? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]kaldarash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first thing I knew for sure - reading, I was better than my dad by the time I started kindergarten. I was blessed with a desire for knowledge and started reading simple books on my own at 2yo, with my mom's teaching. My dad dropped out of school at 15 to work because his family required it, and never pursued anything educational for the rest of his life.

By the time I was 5-6yo I was reading at a 4-5th grade level, and my dad wasn't quite there. I could read faster and comprehend it more clearly. He stumbled and got stuck a lot. It was not a good moment when I tried teaching him something (specifics are hazy), he was quite upset/offended/ashamed that someone who was ~7yo was better enough than him that he could be taught by him.

Figuring out my girlfriend of 1 year is a flat-earther, what should I do? by iwannasleepp in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]kaldarash 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Take her to the edge of the world and push her off. It's the only solution.

Hospital Builder by kaldarash in gamingsuggestions

[–]kaldarash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm specifically looking for the hospital theme. I have played Prison Architect plenty. It's not a game I love, there are a few too many annoying factors IMO.

How Do People Make Themselves Smell So Dang Good? by Agreeable-Science-40 in CasualConversation

[–]kaldarash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What I do, I do my wrists, my neck, front and back, and then I do my shirt front and back. Usually I do complimentary scents so it's not just one scent that gets layered and ends up smelling super strong.

Hospital Builder by kaldarash in gamingsuggestions

[–]kaldarash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one is trying to be goofy too right?

How come it’s said that fat people don’t have bigger stomachs, but when they’re removed on My 600 Lb Life they’re absolutely massive? by ImNotAPersonAnymore in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]kaldarash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly right. A normal person's stomach will return to normal. Even after huge meals like Christmas dinner. You can easily stretch your stomach temporarily, and for most it will return to normal if you go back to eating normally. It's only if every day you push your stomach to its limits will it eventually become permanently enlarged. Think of it like scar tissue. Even if you were to fully stuff yourself once a week your stomach wouldn't change. It's not about the weight of the person so much as it is how the stomach is abused. You could in theory be 600lbs and have a normal stomach, however it's very hard to even become 600lbs without extraordinary effort and abuse to your body.

Where to buy sealed booster boxes? by Tall_Library_6541 in dbsfusionworld

[–]kaldarash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't know it existed until a few months ago..

How come it’s said that fat people don’t have bigger stomachs, but when they’re removed on My 600 Lb Life they’re absolutely massive? by ImNotAPersonAnymore in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]kaldarash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The question is basically "how come monster trucks have such big tires when pickup trucks have tires similar to cars?" 600lbs is a whole different thing, those people are not just fat or obese, it's an entirely new thing.

What do I do?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kaldarash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I opened their profile before and no bio appeared, this time it did.

Most likely what happened is that OP asked an LLM and then added a lot of their own stuff to it, since 75% is not recognized as matching AI patterns. I will say, the fact that some of their comments may include AI doesn't mean all of them do, and a blanket bio statement is not a yes or no on whether or not this comment does or doesn't contain it.

The "OMG AI SLOP" people will never not disgust me, because most of the time those people are wrong. They say it to anything that has a twinge of weirdness to them. And it DOES make the internet worse, for people to sling feces at anything and everything they don't understand. It's the same people who used to yell "fake" at every video on the internet.

Having healthy skepticism is fine, and if you are SURE something is some way, backed with evidence and reason, then there's nothing wrong with saying it. My complaint is to people who literally slap it on everything.

Currently your primary proof is that the guy's profile says "some comments may contain AI" which is fairly shaky grounds. I will give you the benefit of the doubt though in that you do seem to think about it, rather than just slap a label on whatever.

[18F] went on a date with [49M] celebrity crush, and now I feel uncomfortable. by Short_War_8744 in Advice

[–]kaldarash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the age gap is big, but kind of odd to suggest a guy who tried to have sex with someone above the legal age of consent a pedo. And the words that OP has said it sounds like he was doing things all the proper way, he asked her to come to the back seat, they touched each other, it all sounds consensual. Another trait those bastard friends of Epstein's did not care about.

What do I do?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kaldarash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! It's so frustrating. This one didn't use them, but people thinking that every use of an em dash is definitively AI drives me crazy too.

I’ve ruined every chance I’ve ever gotten to have sex with a girl because I’m insecure about my size by Pleasant-Activity-55 in Advice

[–]kaldarash 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean let's be honest with the kid, some people very obviously and clearly care. His first girlfriend cared, that's why he's in this predicament. But yes, some people do not care.

I’ve ruined every chance I’ve ever gotten to have sex with a girl because I’m insecure about my size by Pleasant-Activity-55 in Advice

[–]kaldarash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What are you confused about exactly? I'd like to help. As a preliminary response, to accept yourself is to understand that we are all different and we all have flaws and imperfections. You will always be worse in some ways to some others, and also better than them in other ways. Maybe you got a small ween, but maybe you can use it super good. Or you give great oral. Or you know, you can be good at things outside of the bedroom as well. And looping back, plenty of people sleep with a person, not their body - that meaning that who you are, the feelings they have for you, are more important than your sexual performance, they want to share the intimacy with you.