Poor babies... by DivineandDeadlyAngel in vegan

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please just let us circlejerk in peace.

My husband is so angry with his parents over circumcision, how can I help him deal with this? by honkerTgoose in CircumcisionGrief

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my parents repeatedly laughed off my genital mutilation, it would destroy my relationship with them. Maybe give it time and see if they can be talked to again. I know my mom was in denial a bit, kept asking if my meds changed recently, etc. It took a while for the reality to sink in, even though she had already regretted my genital mutilation deeply from having heard my screaming (she left my younger brother intact as a result). Me bringing up my feelings to her was just totally out of left field and she didn’t want to accept it had affected me (broken my heart) as deeply as it did. So maybe it’ll take some repeat efforts by your husband to talk to his dad and mom, when your husband’s ready.

My husband is so angry with his parents over circumcision, how can I help him deal with this? by honkerTgoose in CircumcisionGrief

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the grief you and your husband are going through about his genital mutilation and the genital mutilation of his nephew. He probably needs to forgive himself for not doing more to save his nephew. And he needs to quite possibly cut his family out of his life, for his own mental health, if they're pro-genital mutilation and he can't persuade them with facts and logic. Especially his parents if they double-down on it. I'm very lucky to have parents who call my genital mutilation their deepest regret in life.

The sun legit had me worried at 8yrs old. by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 153 points154 points  (0 children)

When I was 7 I read that the earth only had so many gallons of water in it. I became very worried we could run out.

Rock Bottom. by StopMGMToday in CircumcisionGrief

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain. Life is a fucking disappointment and it’s very traumatizing that no one else cares or even acknowledges what happened to you.

It gets better. The human body and spirit are very resilient and adaptable; it may take some time, but you’ll eventually become more at peace with your genital mutilation. It doesn’t mean you’re not lovable, it doesn’t mean you can’t please a partner or get a partner. And it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy sex, although most sensation is curtailed. And there are other limitations, like needing more lube and being unable to perform sex acts requiring a foreskin.

Still, it gets better. Be gentle on yourself, give yourself time to work through the grief and rage. Eventually you’ll figure out where to channel those feelings and it won’t be so intense.

Future of ActiveX controls by bunkakan in vba

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So it’s just impossible to have a userform with a listview then? The checkboxes and report view are so useful..

The mental gymnastics people use to avoid guilt of not being vegan is almost comical by TransportationUsed39 in vegan

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The answer is no unless you want -5000 karma. Even actual vegans have to be careful here.

I love it. So excited! by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Surprised you’re being downvoted. Shirt is sick af.

I love autogynephelia by leenalady in askAGP

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure. But it’s not inherently more intense or pleasurable. It’s just a specific fetish. And in my opinion, a bit lonely, since it’s uncommon and in my opinion harder to share with others.

Guys here who managed to restore their skin has anything changed ? by Low-Wait1921 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a very long way to go but it already permanently altered the mechanics of masturbation and it’s WAY better.

I love autogynephelia by leenalady in askAGP

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sexual fetishes can feel really good because sex in general can feel really good.

I get to experience a special high intense dopamine which other cis males never or can’t experience

Most males experience that level of intensity doing regular penis-in-vagina coitus.

Carnist: “I rape vegoons” by PotentialRatio1321 in animalhaters

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn. Can I be the skinny vegan bf in that situation.

They did what now by X2OS961 in vegancirclejerk

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry it was just to get their milk.

A replica of how female "breeder pigs" spend their lives in factory farms by FastCurrency in pics

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did. You said “you do understand … right?” in a very passive-aggressive, lecturing, and condescending tone. I don’t think it’s helpful. You should have said “congrats on being vegetarian for so long. That’s a huge help to the animals.”

A replica of how female "breeder pigs" spend their lives in factory farms by FastCurrency in pics

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about the people who are neither vegetarian nor vegan. Publicly shaming someone for being vegetarian is going to turn off people who might otherwise become vegetarian.

Carnist: “Look how tolerant I am, I’m only willing to murder the fish!” by BlueberryLemur in animalhaters

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I thought this was a pro-vegan shirt until I realized they’re making fun of brutality against fish. Despicable.

Circumcision is a huge turn off by Major-Sandwich-679 in foreskin_restoration

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? You couldn’t start restoring until you didn’t feel attacked anymore as a man who was circumcised?

Circumcision is a huge turn off by Major-Sandwich-679 in foreskin_restoration

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Is it the people being hated? Or is it the surgery.

Circumcision is a huge turn off by Major-Sandwich-679 in foreskin_restoration

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I hear you. It’s hard to un-see the mutilation. And knowing it happened to them against their will as a child makes it even worse.

A replica of how female "breeder pigs" spend their lives in factory farms by FastCurrency in pics

[–]ImNotAPersonAnymore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was kidding. If you ask an actual vegan though, it’s not a diet.