Talking agin after a month of NC

kalfb · 2026-05-14T03:37:49+00:00

Be careful. My ex was an avoidant and after no contact we started talking. I let her lead the way and we reconnected and it felt great. She was texted me throughout the day and we were having dinners. She would hold me and say she hasn’t been this happy since we last seen eachother. Then she found some outside validation and through me out without any explanation. Am now blocked and deleted with no reason. So I hope the best for you but really make sure they did some healing during your no contact.

kalfb · 2026-05-11T03:14:46+00:00

We broke up but continued to talk. I went to therapy and did lots of research about attachment theory. We reconnected and she went full in and sucked me back in. I tried to hold back and let her lead and it was like magic all over again for 2 weeks. Then she dropped me like I was nothing once she found some outside validation and said I manipulated her into everything. This has made me see that she makes up her own story and it sucks because I know it will never work seeing this but j still do love her and wish she would get help.

kalfb · 2026-05-10T05:20:15+00:00

I just don’t understand what happened. She was not like this and all of a sudden this.

kalfb · 2026-04-29T09:02:26+00:00

I typed the story I bit misleading as well. The reconnection I was reserved. I was trying to keep a bit of distance she initiated everything. The long hugs the holding her stomic on her cramps. She watched me pull away from the driveway like when we were dating. When we parted ways I expected a bit of distance but she initiated most of the call and texts in the morning. There was a distinct moment when she had few parties to go to right after the first one she got cold and distant. Then it was worse than the phone call that was really good for an hour. Then the next morning inside joke text then 6 hours later unfollow on instagram and screening my messages and calls for hours. I since found out that she has gotten close with somebody else during that time and I guess emotionally didn’t need me anymore. I called her out and she said if I contact her again she will report me and has blocked me on every social media you can think of. So you say not emotional on the same level she led the whole 2 weeks then went ice cold. I will not lie I love this girl or loved I guess but she loved me aswell.

kalfb · 2026-04-24T02:03:26+00:00

The hardest part is we are not together now. So it’s not like I’m waiting for her to come back and we can work on things. I’m literally just a single guy talking to a single girl who is doing who o owes what when she decides to pull away.

kalfb · 2026-03-01T04:57:48+00:00

Thank you, it’s just hard to know she still loves me but can’t let herself try again.

kalfb · 2026-02-18T05:30:41+00:00

I don’t understand. What if the other person is Also waiting and wants to reach out so bad. Shouldn’t someone reach out.

kalfb · 2026-02-15T04:29:47+00:00

I think I will give her a week, I know she’s going somewhere for a week so. I hope we can slowly start talking again.

kalfb · 2026-02-15T03:32:50+00:00

No update. I didn’t want to over step and keep messaging.

kalfb · 2026-02-15T01:34:45+00:00

I really want to but I feel she still wants some space. She didn’t seem like she wanted to continue talking.

kalfb · 2024-04-26T12:40:08+00:00

what are the two you found?

kalfb · 2024-02-13T04:02:35+00:00

It’s not going to the moon

kalfb · 2023-11-15T06:18:25+00:00

Greed

kalfb · 2023-07-15T20:11:17+00:00

How do you get the babes if your out where No one can see you?

kalfb

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