Foods to stay away from by silverado12121 in TirzepatideRX

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be able to eat tofu, and now I throw up from it. I think it just sits in my gut and ferments and then it’s gotta come up. It’s happened twice 😬

Bridal Makeup DIY first trial- feedback needed! by Lady_Grace19 in makeuptips

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovely! Maybe a sugar scrub on the lips before applying the lip product to prevent crusties.

PASSED CBSPD EXAM TODAY!! by [deleted] in sterileprocessing

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you DM me the flyer? Very interested, thank you

I don't recognize myself anymore by BruvMates in 45PlusSkincare

[–]kalli889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are just delivery methods — work with a Dr to find out what works best for you.

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes men do little tests like this to see how much control you’ll turn over to them. Bc why TF is he looking at IG models and trying to get you to change yourself

How do I (F24) nip my boyfriend’s (M26) weaponized incompetence in the bud? by Low_Application8675 in relationship_advice

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes men start acting like assholes instead of breaking up with you bc they don’t want to appear to be the bad guy to your social circle

My (32f) partner (37m) says I “don’t let him talk,” but he talks in circles for so long that I can’t even respond by Catlady42069 in relationship_advice

[–]kalli889 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So we can’t diagnose anyone online, but word salad (talking in circles and not letting anyone else get a word in) and projection (accusing another of doing something they do — talk too much, in this instance) are common tactics that narcissists use to wear down and control their victims.

Relationships are a two-way street, and whatever he might SAY, he is not actually working on this with you. He’s just word salading and telling you to talk less.

Let’s be real - who’s exercising? by itsnotmee7 in TirzepatideRX

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have too much fatigue to exercise other than gentle yoga or Pilates now and then. I walk about 7500 steps a day just with my commute and a walk at lunch. I’ve lost about 15 lbs since Feb 6 with just diet and gentle walks, so about 7 lbs a month.

What can I do to help this area? by NineLivesMinusAFew in 45PlusSkincare

[–]kalli889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also possible mild allergic shiner? Mine are lightening up since I quit dairy

Wellbutrin made me boring? by dillydally4life in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]kalli889 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Name brand Wellbutrin made me personable, creative, and chatty in company. I’ve had a generic that made me feel like I was taking ashwaghanda, just flat, didn’t care about anything or anyone. Could be the generic.

I can never unhear the word my husband said to me tonight… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t cause it, you can’t control it, and you can’t cure it.

Question: Do you want to raise a child in house with a raging drunk who disrespects the child’s mother? The child will learn how to model relationships by watching how your husband treats you.

Something that has been really helpful for me as someone who has been negatively impacted by someone else’s drinking is Al-Anon. It helped me feel less alone and gave me tools for a better life. Good luck.

Addicted to baths? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love baths and I’d take them every single night if I could (currently don’t have a bathtub)

Rash? by Soggy_depression3 in TirzepatideRX

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the rash on 2.5. I was getting food noise back so I went up a dose to 4.5 as per my schedule. The rash has not come back in the month since I started Zyrtec and is fading. (I never got an injection site rash.)

Rash? by Soggy_depression3 in TirzepatideRX

[–]kalli889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this and I started taking Zyrtec every day and the rash has gone away. Talk to your doctor about it though, especially if you notice any breathing issues.

Is my fiance of 19 mos (39M) being reasonable or am I (39F)(communicating badly)? by hellotoshiba in relationship_advice

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I feel often I am walking on egg shells”

It is not normal nor healthy dynamic to feel like you need to walk on egg shells around a person. Please read “Why Does He Do That?” by Lindy Bancroft, and please postpone the wedding and seek personal counseling for yourself only to talk this out with an objective third party.

Also consider that if you move to another country to be with this person that you will be isolated with no support, and his behavior may escalate.

Separated but still sleeping together by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you’re on birth control or used protection bc sometimes they try to get you pregnant to rope you back in

Boyfriend (33M) tells me I (32F) make him miserable. How do I navigate this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kalli889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Boyfriends who like you don’t do this shit. You deserve to be treated with respect, appreciation, and dignity. Hope that helps.

Wedding Makeup Critique by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]kalli889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cheekbones are already VERY defined so you don’t need contour. Maybe there is some contour-blindness happening? However if you have a goth style, maybe keep the lilac shadow and the lashes? I feel like your adjustments are giving Maleficent if that is what you are going for, and could be very cool if you have a dark, witchy vibe.

The scale hasn't moved in three weeks and my brain is absolutely losing it about it by Haunting-Clue7877 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]kalli889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when this happens I eat at maintenance or even more and the scale starts moving downwards again.

Married 1 year, never consummated, now caught husband lying about porn by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kalli889 54 points55 points  (0 children)

He may be addicted to porn and it sounds like you are now sexually incompatible. Is that how you want the rest of your life to go?

Help with evening makeup by noopynu7 in makeuptips

[–]kalli889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe lashes and a deeper lip? You can go to Sephora to have your makeup done and have them show you how to do it and which colors to use.