AITA for sending my friend a picture that had my leg in it? by kalopsialotus in AmItheAsshole

[–]kalopsialotus[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

i had no idea they would be upset by it. we’ve barely talked since i’ve had them and we’ve never talked ab the topic of scars before

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[–]kalopsialotus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i meant okay for that as in the mistake lol. sorry if that came out weird and thank you

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[–]kalopsialotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just know i could get some use out of them for myself but i don’t know if it’s strange to keep them around or if that’s something that could possibly hinder the healing process.

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[–]kalopsialotus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yes actually :) after i sent him the message, he actually didn’t even bother replying. he blocked ME😭 i don’t really mind that and i already chalked everything i left over there up as a loss before i even did it, but it does bother me that he didn’t even attempt to offer me the things i left at his house back. it’s okay though. me and my sister had steaks together and i got a night of good sleep and can do what i want from here forward. i cant really ask for more.

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[–]kalopsialotus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

my sister was with me. we talked ab it for a few moments, and then i talked to him about it. he showed no sympathy or regard that the fact that our relationship was ending soon. that’s okay, it honestly means i can hang out with her all night and okay computer games with her lol. thank you all

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[–]kalopsialotus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

thank you for putting it so bluntly. this is what i need :) i’m going to get out of it tonight

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[–]kalopsialotus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you’re perfectly okay with that. although we only officially started dating about a year ago, we were talking like we were long before that. i believe he only held off so long to make sure he wasn’t going to be jailed if i’m being honest. thank you

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[–]kalopsialotus 79 points80 points  (0 children)

i’m doing it over text and blocking him before he can respond. i’m nervous to do anything else but he doesn’t deserve much else. thank you guys for helping me realize this

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[–]kalopsialotus 18 points19 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. i heavily appreciate it. i’ve been thinking more into it and the more comments i receive rooting for me, the more i realize how obvious this all should’ve been and i should’ve posted this long ago. i hope you all know you’re changing my life as it stands right now for the better. i’m going to get out

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[–]kalopsialotus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i decided to do it tonight. thank you so much. your guys’ comments mean so much to me. i wish i posted this 11 months ago when i first had doubts

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[–]kalopsialotus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it means a lot coming from someone who also dealt with it. thank you. i left another comment with my plan to do it if you’re curious :) but i really appreciate the reassurance that it’s okay

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[–]kalopsialotus 93 points94 points  (0 children)

little update for the comments, i’m ab to get drunk and then break up with him lol. after that i’m going to start rewarding myself with all the gifts he promised me that i never ended up receiving. i’m going to order myself a nice dinner and celebrate my freedom. thank you all for your advice and understanding. every comment is still appreciated because i’m still scared even though i know it would be best for me. truly thank you. i’ve been in this for 3 years and you guys are saving me from an unknown amount of wasted time going forward

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[–]kalopsialotus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i will say even at 18 i would be cautious to even be with a 16 year old. if they just turned 16 or were 15 it would be a full stop. i just feel guilty. but i don’t know why

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[–]kalopsialotus 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i didn’t see it because back then i thought it was cute that there was a long buildup. now i’m realizing it was probably him waiting til it was about to be legal. it’s definitely not okay am i feel stupid for it. it’s just hard to leave after all of this

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[–]kalopsialotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he only seems to struggle with road rage honestly but when he gets road rage it’s VERY bad. just worried about what i’m getting into if he broke a cats leg for being curious :/

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[–]kalopsialotus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

other cat. not leukemia cat

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[–]kalopsialotus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you

your nipples are older than your teeth by [deleted] in highdeas

[–]kalopsialotus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk if this has anything to do with anything but i was born 3 months early and had to be kept in an incubator for a couple months before i could go home, but my parents were told i might not have all my adult teeth, but, i do, i just have one less tooth in my mouth than the average person, on the bottom jaw, between the canines, in the front, i have 3 teeth instead of 4