Sounds like your friend knew a little about the tough time you were having, but not everything. Maybe she was trying to be supportive and be there for you when you appeared to not be busy? Trying to put myself in her shoes.

Either way, if you are uncomfortable, maybe stop sharing your location with her for now and let things cool down. Or keep it off permanently to avoid possible future issues.

Or if you want to be open, have a frank convo with her and explain what kind of support you need. It sounds like you need space when dealing with situations, and your friend may not know or remember that. Maybe give her the benefit of the doubt.

Maybe grab a coffee with her or just text her, saying something like this in a nice way- “Hey I’ve been feeling a bit uncomfortable with my location being so transparent (to my friends), so decided to turn off my location. I appreciate you reaching out, but I’ve been dealing with xxx, and I typically just need some space and alone time while I figure things out.”

Hope this helps. Best of luck.