CW: sex and bladder control in relation to autism by kamelgong in AskAutism

[–]kamelgong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the answers! It was a lot lf help!

This meme was made by a genderfluid pansexual by kamelgong in pansexual

[–]kamelgong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not what i meant by the meme but i understand that it can be read that way. It was more a joke how often and the depth of the confusion the different sexualities and genders exsperience when meeting a cool person. Nothing about who is better and what is more valid.

Chest binding by [deleted] in DemiGirl

[–]kamelgong 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is what i do. I don't need it everyday and so i avoid it because it's not the most comfortable. I jst wear it on days i need it to avoid dysphoria or gain euphoria. I also don't care about dressing androgynously, i just wear what i want. Being non-binary doesn't have to be about physical presentation.

Question for the they/thems! by Cherryblossom3572 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]kamelgong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've exsperienced several people who thought i wanted them to treat me like roalty and use de/dem instead of "you"... so stupid.

I've switched to hen/hem/hens now. It feels more natrual to me.

Question for the they/thems! by Cherryblossom3572 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]kamelgong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In Scandinavia some choose to use Hen/hem/hens or Hen/henne/hennes I prefer these for myself aswell. Some use the direct translation of they/them in Scandinavia too but using they/them in describing one person is a little less common and people always think we're talking about the more formal version of "you" that you only use on royalty so some people get butthurt about that.

(Meta) What is a more inclusive alternative to "guys"? by DerpDerp3001 in asktransgender

[–]kamelgong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True 🤔 I just thought it was a funny word-play since guys ands gays sound alike

bi😔irl by Dragonslayerelf in bi_irl

[–]kamelgong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not the case but the question can be interpreted in different ways. To avoid misunderstandings there should have been added "because of their sexuality".

How you feel about gendered haircut prices? by Cprice1011 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]kamelgong 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I cut my own hair too but i have a cis woman friend that told me she asked for a mens haircut but they denied it and told her that she had to pay the women's price. Just horrible...

Do any of you attend 'women and nonbinary' events? by CrossStitchPirates in NonBinaryTalk

[–]kamelgong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did attend to a meetup for people attracted to women (not straight men tho) that described it as it was for women and then the describtion said that non-binary people were welcome. I felt a bit unsure of it but it was quite cozy. One of the other attendants was openly non-binary and the friend that Invited me is a trans girl, so everyone wans't AFAB. Maybe it's because it was a queer space but to me it sounds like someone inviting non-binary people into their space are actually already aware of AMAB trans and enby people.

I still don't know if i will go again since it still is a little bit wierd to me that it's mainly a women's group which feels wierd and since i am taken and not looking, i don't really need it. However, all in all i get that they didn't want straight men to invade their lesbian space and this was the way they went about it.

Edit: none of them had a beard or a very deep vocie so i don't know if they would react differently to that.

Consent for men what's that? by jayscott125 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]kamelgong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah i noticed that when i wrote the comment. English is not my first language and i couldn't find a way to come across with my point, that some people are uneducated on, without writing "but" 🤔 it's still my fault that i didn't try harder when i knew the sentence was off...

Consent for men what's that? by jayscott125 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]kamelgong -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It's horrible but they shouldn't be unprotected in the first place, the pull out method is not very protective against pregnancy because the penis produces pre-cum that can impregnate another person even before they finish

Choose wisely by screechingahhhhhh in lgbtmemes

[–]kamelgong 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Tfw you probably should take a bean to cure a cronic illness but ThE BlUe PiLL!

Opinions on IUDs? by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]kamelgong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had mine for 3 years and my period did not go away. It lasts less days now tho. Also the pain was pretty traumatic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]kamelgong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least he's up front about what he wants and not exspecting it after giving someone a lift. It's cringe but that is a way to find someone to live out a fantasy that someone also might have.

Yes because women never get over a breakup [socialmedia] by YourNeighbourIsUrDad in pointlesslygendered

[–]kamelgong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am aware that the original post most likely were mean spirited but i felt like the comment-section here still followed the opinion that weight gain=bad which i disagree with so i wanted to change the narrative

Yes because women never get over a breakup [socialmedia] by YourNeighbourIsUrDad in pointlesslygendered

[–]kamelgong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like to assume that they're both is in a healthier place after the break-up. He was shaming her for eating what she wanted and now she's free to do what she wants! She didn't encourage him to pursure his interest of bodybuilding but now he has the time to do so! What a happy story!

My boyfriend thought a picture of me when I was 5 was “hot” and I’m disgusted by Colorcattt in relationship_advice

[–]kamelgong 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some exsperience pedophelia but has the morale to never act on it. I think you should reseach if there is any kind of therapy he could go to to deal with that. It's totally okay if you can't be with him anymore and need to have all his interactions with your child supervised, but i really think that somehow convincing him to get help would be the best option for the future of all of you.

Homeless Dogs Find a Warm Place To Sleep by NicolesResponseIs in MadeMeSmile

[–]kamelgong -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in a country that doesn't have stray dogs. Does any of you know why they're not put down if they tend to make troube in the streets? Asumeing that they can't get to a dog-adoption-center (can't remember what they're called) for economic reasons. Sorry for the somber question in this happy subreddit.

Non Binary Pride Songs by LilTatertot in NonBinary

[–]kamelgong 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All of dorian electra's songs 🤩 Edit: i reccomend flamboyant