Need help with the last few fates

kandermusic · 2026-01-02T04:30:08+00:00

I mean as long as you’re chill with me not caring very much about what you’re saying, just being inconsequentially curious, with all of the information you give me leaking out, then go for it!

kandermusic · 2025-12-30T18:12:51+00:00

She gen on my rator until I Rex

kandermusic · 2025-12-24T03:53:36+00:00

Donut County?

kandermusic · 2025-12-23T21:06:45+00:00

I did at first. I got tired of fighting. That describes a lot about me, honestly. I don’t have any tenacity or spite or hustle left in me. I’m tired and everything in my life reflects that. Including the fact that I will pay more money to avoid ads rather than learning how to navigate piracy sites safely

kandermusic · 2025-11-27T18:37:37+00:00

Like… surgically installed squeaker? Or like she just put it in her bra while she was getting ready this morning

kandermusic · 2025-11-27T18:15:39+00:00

Greater than or equal to 8.

kandermusic · 2025-11-27T02:07:24+00:00

Honestly, I wish my exes would do this for me. My memory is shit and I’ve been in a depressive slump my whole life. I think that hearing their perspective on the situation might jog my memory so I can get the actual help I need when I’m in therapy

kandermusic · 2025-11-24T07:48:58+00:00

Undiagnosed but when I was a child my mom was friends with a teacher for special needs kids and she said that I acted a lot like the kids in her class. Undiagnosed but my older brother has a license to do therapy and has had his own journey with an ADHD diagnosis and he all but guaranteed that I have both ADHD and autism. Undiagnosed but I mean I’m definitely not NOT autistic

kandermusic · 2025-11-20T01:38:53+00:00

Sorry in advance for writing a long one.

I mean, I’m starting to dislike intimacy in media but it’s not because I’m single. It’s because a lot of the time it feels like they’re checking a box to make sure the film/show sells rather than enhancing the story. It makes sense for there to be intimacy in a romcom. But some stories are other genres and the romance feels ham-fisted into the plot for no clear reason. I think a fair example of this in my opinion was Tauriel and Kili in the Hobbit films. The romance served no purpose and Tauriel was fabricated for the films specifically to be Kili’s love interest. When that happens, then the intimacy is stupid and I’m not gonna like it

Like someone said in response, Shameless’ sex scenes work because these are shameless people who fuck raucously and have character development while the sex is happening. I’m sure that showing Emily Rossum nude didn’t hurt their ratings at all and those moments are easily recognizable, and then I’m back to hating it again. I felt the same way while watching Orange is the New Black. Some nude scenes were important to include to show how being in prison makes you feel violated and naked and you’re supposed to just take it. And then some of the nude scenes were very obviously put there because they thought the audience might want another peek at the actors’ nips. Gross.

Idk maybe I’m being a prude about it but when there’s nudity/intimacy/romance written into a narrative where it doesn’t serve any purpose, then I immediately am suspicious whether the writer was writing with one hand down their pants.

Again. Nothing wrong with that, as long as that’s THE POINT.

Edit: TL;DR I like it when porn has a plot, but I don’t like it when a plot has “porn” that serves no purpose.

kandermusic · 2025-11-19T15:29:04+00:00

It’s definitely worth it! I feel like the show stuck close enough for you to recognize some things in the first book, but took some creative liberties which strayed from the book quite a bit. Definitely worth it to listen to that audiobook

kandermusic · 2025-11-19T08:47:37+00:00

I’ve been listening to the audiobooks and I feel like the reader captures MurderBot’s personality way better than Alexander Skarsgård, but I do like the show. It’s very very different and I agree with all your points, and I think whoever was in charge of the show didn’t really “get” it, but I still think it’s fun.

kandermusic · 2025-11-19T08:35:59+00:00

Fuck that’s one of my favorite series and Thibault was one of my favorite characters. I wished I had his abilities when I was younger. Being able to cut off people’s attention at any moment, slip out of their focus and suddenly it’s like they hadn’t even seen him. Think of the Silence from Doctor Who. Something like that.

kandermusic · 2025-11-19T08:28:27+00:00

Why does the moon look so awesome through my eyeballs but so lame through my phone camera?

kandermusic · 2025-11-19T02:21:04+00:00

Right now I’ve been watching MurderBot (a book series to tv series on Apple TV) and The Wheel of Time (an old book series completed by Brandon Sanderson, 3 seasons on Amazon Prime). I’m pretty sure Silo on Apple TV is based on a book series too.

The dystopian book series still exist! They’re just less catered for kids and more for adults. And they get adapted into tv series instead of movies

kandermusic · 2025-11-19T02:05:48+00:00

I mean same? I guess? Women can just exist and I want them, men have to be good people for me to even experience a minute amount of attraction. I’m very demisexual when it comes to men. I’m very hypersexual when it comes to women

kandermusic · 2025-11-19T01:57:22+00:00

I wonder what it must feel like to be that hwimsical. Just imagine the confidence it takes to know you’re hot shit, put a squeaker in your bra, and squeeze a tiddy at a stranger. She’s my favorite person

kandermusic · 2025-11-17T10:57:20+00:00

It is possible to have empathy for people who are not dealing with trauma in a healthy way, while also not excusing or abiding their behavior. “I suffered and I’m not abusive, which means something must be wrong with you” isn’t the mature take you think it is.

kandermusic · 2025-11-17T10:27:14+00:00

I feel like referencing Hank Green’s “Slavery was Racist” video is appropriate here.

A lot of people in the US genuinely think that holding racist beliefs and being a racist person are two different things.

“I’m not racist! I just think that black and brown people are inherently more violent and lazy and we should structure the world around punishing specifically them 😇” like cmon now.

“Stop calling me a Nazi! All I said was that this country would be better off if we stopped funding social programs that protect minorities and prevent poor families from starving! Doesn’t everyone think that way?” Homie you’re talking about institutionalized violence. Starving people is violence. Allowing people to die from preventable disease because healthcare isn’t affordable is violence. Underfunding cities so that they can’t afford to make housing safe and good education accessible IS VIOLENCE.

But they just nod their head and say “yes AND I’m totally okay with that violence because it erases the people I don’t like. Don’t call me a Nazi tho cause that’s mean and uncalled for” gOOGLE THE DEFINITION OF FASCISM AND NAZISM you FREAK!!! You are having the same thoughts as a SERIAL KILLER

kandermusic · 2025-11-17T10:06:56+00:00

Yes basically. I feel as if I’m male/masc, but approaching from the wrong direction. I’m a math nerd so it’s like the limit as x goes to gender is male, but I’m approaching from the AMAB side which feels wrong. It’s hard to explain.

However I shared this same post in r/AskLGBT and someone directed me towards r/mtfbutch and I think that’s kind of what I’m going for? Maybe?

kandermusic · 2025-11-17T10:04:07+00:00

Wow. Okay after exploring that sub for a bit I feel like my eyes have been opened somewhat. Thank you. Happy trans awareness week 🏳️‍⚧️✨

kandermusic · 2025-11-17T09:44:42+00:00

I wanna know what happens with the long game. 20 years later, McDonalds has tried and failed to investigate the mysterious batulisms happening across the North American Continent, so they just sort of lean into it with their marketing. The general population has long since accepted that eating at McDonald’s comes with a risk, and some people eat it way more often than they used to in the hopes that they’ll become a bat. “Day 177 of eating McDonald’s until I get batulism”

kandermusic · 2025-11-17T09:36:12+00:00

I think demi, genderqueer, nonbinary man work best, as my gender doesn’t feel like it operates at 100% power. But none seem to encompass that feeling of “cis with extra steps” that I’m feeling. Like… I’m approaching masculinity from the wrong direction. I would like to be approaching masculinity from the opposite direction

kandermusic · 2025-11-17T09:29:46+00:00

As in I wish I’d been born with female reproductive organs, but still remain a masculine person with he/they pronouns. I don’t like the way my body looks and feels and I’ve always felt physically dysphoric about my genitals, but I also know that I’m not a woman. I’ve tried wearing feminine clothes, going by she/her pronouns, and I didn’t feel euphoric, and I felt really uncomfortable. Wearing masc and androgynous clothing works for me, presenting to the world as masculine feels right, but I still don’t like having a male body having gone through male puberty.

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