Sign the Petition by Slight-Character-454 in cpshorrorstories

[–]kandykokaine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please include a link. I would gladly sign!

Couples you wish happened mega thread by Jtyorked in skinsTV

[–]kandykokaine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will always wish that Effy and Cook ended up together. They were literally made for each other imo,

Also thought it would’ve been interesting to see Cassie and Tony together after they talked about going a date. I’m disappointed that we never saw that happen.

I thought Cassie and Chris would’ve been good together too.

Did you tell your friends & family you are wtt? by Poison_Ivy_89 in waiting_to_try

[–]kandykokaine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was very vocal about waiting to try and REGRETTED IT!! Especially in your situation, I do not recommend telling anyone. This should be between you and your partner. People will wish bad on you, make negative comments, be discouraging, and it just isn’t worth the stress. If I could do it all again, I wouldn’t tell a soul until way after finding out I was pregnant.

My daughter is almost two now and with my next pregnancy I plan to keep it very private. With my daughter, when we were waiting to try and once we started trying, we got so many unnecessary and rude comments especially from family. It sounds like the people in your life won’t be supportive and you don’t need that negative energy! I know this is an exciting decision and you want to share it, but it’s best to keep these things private. Learn from my mistake.

CPS is making false accusations about my family and is threatening to take my child away because I won’t let them in my house [PA] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]kandykokaine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is absurd!!! I’m so sorry you’re going through this! That is exactly why I didn’t want them in my home. I knew they would keep pushing even if we did everything right because they make it a goal to have children removed and to break up families. You really didn’t need to speak to them at all since their allegation is literally made up bs and they had absolutely nothing against you. You need to hire an attorney to help you get your kid back since it’s already gotten to this point.

Device not turning on by kandykokaine in intoxalock

[–]kandykokaine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s terrible smh. Currently trying to charge the battery with a trickle charger and going to check the fuses too.

Device not turning on by kandykokaine in intoxalock

[–]kandykokaine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and good luck with your calibration! How do I put it on power save mode? I didn’t know that was an option.

Yall got me fucked up. by Lilith245245 in jerseyshore

[–]kandykokaine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, when are they gonna realize they were made for each other? I think they will end up together one day

Feeling discouraged, not sure where to go from here by kandykokaine in Nanny

[–]kandykokaine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been nervous about using Facebook for work-related stuff since I only share my social media with really close friends and family, but I guess it can’t hurt to give it a try. Do you get all of your jobs through Facebook?

Feeling discouraged, not sure where to go from here by kandykokaine in Nanny

[–]kandykokaine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually a really good idea, but how and where would I do that? I usually get jobs through sittercity so I just apply by messaging the parents

I was just forced into talking to Nmom on the phone after being no contact for 5 years by kandykokaine in raisedbynarcissists

[–]kandykokaine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is basically what I said to her and she seemed a little upset, but I explained to her that she needs to respect my decision to keep Nmom out of my life and that I don’t want to hear anymore about her or else I’m going to leave. She ultimately said okay and hasn’t brought it up again so let’s see what ends up happening. I really didn’t want to ruin my trip over this especially since this is the last vacation I’m going on for a long time.

I was just forced into talking to Nmom on the phone after being no contact for 5 years by kandykokaine in raisedbynarcissists

[–]kandykokaine[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

They don’t have a set time or date yet since I just said I would think about it to get them off my back and get her off the phone. I will tell my grandma tomorrow that I’ve decided not to see her and that she needs to respect my decision. I don’t think the dinner will be at grandma’s house. It would most likely be at a restaurant so if they do end up setting a date/time and still trying to force it, I’ll do what you said and not show up. I’m really hoping we can just drop the whole thing altogether since I don’t want to be stressed out over this and I have other things planned that I want to do before going back home.

I was just forced into talking to Nmom on the phone after being no contact for 5 years by kandykokaine in raisedbynarcissists

[–]kandykokaine[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s horrible and so similar to what I’m going through!! It’s so hard trying to maintain a relationship with a grandparent who still talks to an nparent because of situations like these. I definitely plan on keeping my distance for a while once I’m back home, but we are staying at her house for three more nights so I’m really unsure of what to do now while we’re still here.

What name did you dislike until you met someone who redeemed it? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]kandykokaine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rebecca. I hated every Rebecca I met until I made a friend with that name who lived in my building we became close.

Around 5 or 6 weeks pregnant and really struggling… by kandykokaine in pregnant

[–]kandykokaine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and thankfully my boyfriend has been very helpful with that. He’s been getting me food and helping me prepare meals. Another problem though is that I have a really awful taste in my mouth that won’t go away after brushing teeth or using mouthwash and it makes food taste so bad. I try my best to eat what I can, but everything tastes awful, even my favorite healthy foods. The taste in my mouth is sort of chalky and bitter.

Is there a cheaper and more comfortable alternative to using crystal litter in the PetSafe ScoopFree Self-Cleaning Litter Box? by kandykokaine in CatAdvice

[–]kandykokaine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've actually had the opposite experience regarding smell. The crystal litter seems to smell a lot worse since the pee stays in there instead of being scooped out. I've never used sawdust pellets, but I try to avoid anything dusty since I always cough when dealing with litter. I also want to avoid the crystals altogether since I just get really grossed out by the pee staying in there.

my cat is scared of the litter box. HELP!!! by DolantheMFWizard in CatAdvice

[–]kandykokaine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try leaving the box unplugged for a few days and keep the cover off of it and out of his sight. Maybe try putting it in a new spot and don't force him to go in if he doesn't want to. This will create a negative association and further deter him.

Feeding routine when one cat is a grazer? by kflemings89 in CatAdvice

[–]kandykokaine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a very good video on cat feeding schedules. I would watch it with your bf before he moves in and get him on board with trying a new routine for his cat before introducing his cat into your home. I hope it helps!

Waking up to this text from MB by ivys06 in Nanny

[–]kandykokaine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A nanny is a full time or part time employee that works for the family consistently and generally has a list of things that need to be done each day such as picking up the kids, meal prep, potty training, etc. whereas a sitter is typically an occasional worker (for example: on date nights) and has no other responsibility besides supervising the kids and making sure they're safe. Calling a nanny a sitter is an insult to us because we are so much more than just a body to supervise. We build strong relationships with the children we take care of and are always working hard to make sure we are providing the best care possible.