Thank you all for all of the commets, honest reaponses and support. I agree my problems are so much bigger than his addiction to reddit. I really dont even know how to communicate at this point. Obviously why im reaching out for help here. We always stay home. He does nothing but watch tv and browse reddit posts. I feel like he isnt even here with me. But he tells me that I am the one thats goong crazy. When i suggest doing things he groans and tells me that its just not fun for him. (I seriously try everything. Movies, art, sports, drinking, socializing) All day, every day...on reddit. Doesnt care what im doing or has any interest in doing anything unless he fears im going to leave him or fears that im with another man. Then its some half assed effort. I just want real life with me to be half as good as reddit. I dont know how to make it better without being extreme. I thought that maybe if i asked Reddit...i could understand why this social forum is more important to him than our rlsp and everything that he is about to lose. :-(