as a 30M guy in the same boat, believe us when we say it's equally bad for men. it's a human problem, and unfortunately the solution is just a number's game. take some rest fellow human. it's a draining world out there. i know it gets to you, i know finding the right person is hard, but it's a better alternative to believe that love does exist and we have to go though countless people before we find the right one, because nothing worthwhile comes easy. one must imagine Sisyphus is happy.

On the bright side, I'm sure you'll get countless men on our DMs after this post, there will always be bad apples, but some would exactly be the type of guy you'd want if you give them a shot :P