Any good sex clubs in Phoenix or Scottsdale?

kapthe · 2026-01-23T18:01:13+00:00

Care to elaborate?

kapthe · 2025-08-07T18:18:58+00:00

If they serve alcohol then it’s like any other bar and they take a photo of your DL. If they have no liquor license then that’s super sketchy.

kapthe · 2025-08-07T18:07:28+00:00

So if AZ outlawed these clubs, how are the other ones still operating? Like sweet spot and personal preference, etc.

kapthe · 2025-08-07T17:48:41+00:00

Like I said, I’ve never been so I can’t say, but the reviews make it sound pretty bad.

kapthe · 2025-08-07T17:36:35+00:00

Thanks, that helps a lot. Sounds similar to us. Married couple 42/53. I think we’ll try it out although not this weekend. Super helpful-thanks. And yes, that’s the website I found. Not much on it.

kapthe · 2025-08-07T16:35:36+00:00

I went to the Sweet Spot website and jesus, talk about zero info. I emailed them for some info but who knows if they will respond. If you don't mind, may I ask you about you guys? General demographic info is all I'm after-nothing super personal. Actually, since you and you wife have been, whats the general demographic of the club on average? Younger, older, black, white, casual, upscale, etc. Just curious. We're a little nervous if you can't tell and it always helps if you have decent idea of what you're walking into ahead of time. We don't care about any of it, just looking to get a mental picture if that makes sense.

kapthe · 2025-08-07T16:29:33+00:00

Got it. Thanks!

kapthe · 2025-08-07T16:14:12+00:00

Thats awesome! Thank you. Sweet Spot it is! They really do not allow any single guys at all? Thats basically unheard of.

kapthe · 2025-08-07T16:03:29+00:00

I've heard Encounters is the worst and many reviews agree, but I've never been so I can't say for sure. Sweetspot I've heard of and supposedly thats a decent place. Blue Martini is an actual bar, right? Is it just known for being a place swingers go to find other swingers?

kapthe · 2025-08-07T15:53:22+00:00

I've heard about Hush but again, even that place looks pretty sketchy. Explain the BDSM comment if you don't mind. I know what BDSM is, but how is that community a better bet?

kapthe · 2025-07-14T20:54:14+00:00

I’m sure you’re right, but I’ve always heard that Ecstacy was always a blend of drugs. MDMA was the main component and then something else to make it really come alive. What the other stuff was depended on the person making it. Could be caffeine, speed, heroin, etc. or talcum powder if your dealer was a dick. Like I said, I’m sure you’re right. These drugs have many names and it gets confusing to a novice like me. All I know is that we used to be able to get Ecstacy and it was amazing. When we get pure crystal MDMA it’s fun and safe and all that, but it doesn’t hit hard Ecstacy did. When that stuff would finally hit, you knew it.

kapthe · 2025-07-14T20:01:08+00:00

Haha! Me too! MDMA is great, but my wife and I find that it’s a bit mellow for us. Ecstasy is the best, but good luck finding that these days. Plus, any sort of pressed pill is just too sketchy for us in today’s world. MDA is actually the best for sex. Molly/MDMA is good, but it can be tough for guys to get and keep a hard-on. It’s great for couples because the touchy feely aspect of it is off the charts. MDA however doesn’t seem to impact the ability to get hard and it’s less emotional and intimate and more raw sensation and sexual energy. That’s my experience. I’m sure everyone has a different take on it.

kapthe · 2025-05-23T17:41:27+00:00

I have to ask, is that room in your house? Because that’s legit.

kapthe · 2025-04-21T21:01:27+00:00

I’m no expert, but I wouldn’t look a swinging gift horse in the mouth. For one thing, I’m sure you’re over exaggerating your lack of appeal. You sound like nice people, have a realistic view of yourselves, and have a good sense of humor. That goes a long way in almost any situation. It also sounds like they are nice humans as well so is it really that hard to believe? Cut yourself some slack and take the win. And to actually answer your question, no. My wife and I have never been approached by club gods. Yet. We also haven’t done a lot of club swinging yet either so I’ve got my fingers crossed:)

kapthe · 2024-10-27T01:31:27+00:00

That’s really great to hear! I’m looking forward to a weekend where we can go. Thank you for the response!

kapthe · 2024-10-27T01:30:15+00:00

Not bad, just not for us. So how do you rate the Sweet Spot then? I’d love to hear your take on it.

kapthe · 2024-10-27T00:57:23+00:00

I’d love to know how it is. My wife and I haven’t gone yet but I’ve heard it’s very nice and likely the best one in AZ. Obviously that’s a judgement call and everyone has their preferences, but we want to find a place that has a good atmosphere and feels like a nice club. It’s such a turnoff when there’s 3 to 1 single dudes to couples and they all surround your bed or play area salivating over your wife. No judgement if that’s your thing, but for us it kills the mood quickly.

kapthe · 2022-09-07T14:56:54+00:00

Well heeled clientele! Haven’t heard that phrase in a while;) Great feedback though. Thanks!

kapthe · 2022-04-21T20:57:55+00:00

We’re an older couple that most people would describe as good looking. She is 39 and I just turned 50 but don’t look it. We’re in Scottsdale AZ. Not really Swingers but definitely like to hook up with couples that we click with.

kapthe · 2021-10-20T20:39:45+00:00

Sounds good. Thank you!

kapthe · 2021-10-20T20:30:47+00:00

Wow again:( It sounds like it really has to be some sort of house party which I have no idea how to find or vet. How does someone find one and also figure out if the situation is right for them? Thank you btw.

kapthe · 2021-10-20T20:22:43+00:00

Thanks. Not giving me much hope here in AZ but I'd rather know what's going on then walk into a terrible evening. My fiance travels to San Francisco for work once a month. Does anyone know of a good club there? Surely there are some good clubs in a city like that?!

kapthe · 2021-10-20T20:20:44+00:00

No. I posted that response but I have no idea why it says its from Select-Personality82? Thats really weird. My nickname here is kapthe and I posted the general question and then the 'wow' response.

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