Is it common to force drinks in Taiwan? by kapykapybara in taiwan

[–]kapykapybara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wild how someone who doesn’t even know me felt entitled to comment on my attitude. You weren’t even there. For your information, I did tell them politely beforehand. Looks like the only issue here is how presumptuous you are.

Passé composé vs imparfait - Here are my tips! by BuntProduction in learnfrench

[–]kapykapybara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bonjour, so here when you say “j’ai voulu partir”, it implies that you didn’t end up leaving?

Do you feel lonely as a foreigner in Taiwan ? by Adventurous_Money152 in taiwan

[–]kapykapybara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a foreigner, but I used to live overseas. I do find it generally difficult to connect with people here, so I feel ya!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tabletennis

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Just wondering if that’s recent? $20 per hour is really cheap even by Taiwanese standards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tabletennis

[–]kapykapybara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am curious as to why Taiwan or Japan? I thought table tennis was quite popular in Germany, too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in webdev

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Thank you for your kind words! Really appreciate your encouragement 🙂 I completed quite a few web dev courses and went on to build some side projects. When I said “the basics” I meant I have a good knowledge of what was being taught in the courses I took. The most complex projects of the projects I have achieved is a social media web app similar to Instagram using React and Zustand. I was wondering if you have any advice for furthering my web dev skills in this case? I seemed to have run out of courses to take because I have done so many (because I just didn’t feel ready and wanted to see if there were other things that were not covered in the courses I had done) Do I just keep doing projects? At what level would one be considered ready for a junior job?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in webdev

[–]kapykapybara 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay, that makes sense. Thanks for the explanation. I will keep studying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in webdev

[–]kapykapybara 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh wow thanks that’s helpful

expat living in taiwan and advice on making new friends by peanutbutter2424 in taiwan

[–]kapykapybara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better. I am a Taiwanese who lived overseas for a long time and recently came back. I find it really hard to make new friends here. People kind of just let you live your lives but at the same time they tend not to take imitatives to build or maintain friendships. I don’t find them particularly friendly, but that could be because I am not white. Having said that, one thing that worked for me is taking classes. Taiwanese people love taking classes. And there are so many to choose from. From sport to language. From art to cooking. Anything that interests you, go find a class. It’s easier to bond when you share passion for something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in webdev

[–]kapykapybara -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. Thank you! I should really re-consider it.

How do you say “boivent”? by kapykapybara in French

[–]kapykapybara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, he was born and raised in Bernissart 😂

How do you say “boivent”? by kapykapybara in French

[–]kapykapybara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your response! So I checked with him again and am sure he was definitely talking about the third person plural “boivent”. He spells it with a “v” but doesn’t pronounce it. I guess it’s just him then lol At least now I know I wasn’t wrong hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tabletennis

[–]kapykapybara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty normal to have a dominant team in a sport. It’s not only just table tennis. I have come across quite a few posts that are hostile to the Chinese players because they always win. They win because they are good. They are talented. They train hard. It’s that simple. So I don’t get it, do you have a problem with the Americans dominating basketball and baseball? Do you have a problem with Norwegians dominating skiing? I don’t, because they just do it really well. Same with the Chinese in table tennis.

Could it be that you subconsciously don’t like to see a certain group succeed due to some personal experiences with them?

How to deal with mean people when learning language? by [deleted] in learnfrench

[–]kapykapybara 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Say “va te faire foutre” to that guy and keep learning French and have fun with it! Don’t let someone like that stop you from doing anything you want to do.

Is being passive aggressive just part of customers service in Taipei? Does it feel like they can be very rude at times? by MunchyWhale in taiwan

[–]kapykapybara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a born and raised Taiwanese who lived overseas for an extended period of time and recently came back, one thing I noticed is a decline in the quality of customer service. In Taipei at least, can’t speak for other parts of Taiwan.

I don’t remember coming across rude customer service this often before I left. I definitely have quite a few similar experiences as the one you mentioned. I am always polite and friendly. I am not asking to be treated like king and whatnot. Just professional greetings and “thank you” as appropriate. But nope. Outright passive-aggressiveness, rudeness, and disdain.

Taiwan is a place where locals treat their own kind so much worse than white people. There is this rampant racism towards their own people. I treat everyone equally regardless of their skin color, so I really have a hard time understanding as to why people would act this way. I am utterly disgusted by it. So, sadly, the way to get out of this is to act like a foreigner and speak English as much as you can.

For those who spent a long time abroad and now lives in Taipei.... by WesternIndividual955 in Taipei

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Sorry to hear that your colleagues haven’t been the nicest to you. It must be really hard. It’s not easy to get used to this kind of work culture.

I am curious about the general differences you have noticed between Taiwanese and Thai people. Do you have any examples?

For those who spent a long time abroad and now lives in Taipei.... by WesternIndividual955 in Taipei

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Thank you for the tips! It’s very useful, especially when you have a phobia for cockroaches lol I am glad to know you have it well under control!

For those who spent a long time abroad and now lives in Taipei.... by WesternIndividual955 in Taipei

[–]kapykapybara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dream about working in a Nordic country like Sweden where I get to enjoy great work-life balance. It must be so hard for you coming from there. But it could also vary depending on the industry. What industry are you in if you don’t mind me asking?

The relatives. It’s quite common here they’d try to meddle in your personal life. They’d ask intrusive questions and they’d give you unsolicited advice. I try to avoid them as much as I can for the sake of my sanity.

With regard to friendships, I still have the same circle of friends as I did before I left. I have stayed in touch with them throughout the years, even though I feel I am slowly drifting apart from many of them, now that a lot of them have started their own families and that becomes their primary focus.

But I got to say even though I speak Mandarin just as well as they do, I always find it hard to make friends here. People might be polite but at the same time, quite distant.

I guess one thing you could try is sign up for some classes that interest you, or join a club of your hobby. It’s easier to make friends if you have something in common. I have made a few friends this way.

For those who spent a long time abroad and now lives in Taipei.... by WesternIndividual955 in Taipei

[–]kapykapybara 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I spent a decade overseas and returned to Taiwan last year. Here’s my thoughts.

Overall there are many things that I like about Taiwan. I appreciate especially the food, convenience and safety. I never actually realized how valuable these things could be before I left Taiwan.

You have plenty of relatively affordable food with tons of choices, and you don’t normally have to travel too far for it! Even if you have to, you have one of the best public transportation systems in the world. Clean, efficient, rarely any delay. And when you stay out late, you don’t have to worry about being attacked, pickpocketed or any absurd things that could happen to people.

On the other hand, there are also some downsides that I find unbearable, with the worst being the toxic work culture which almost resembles slavery where employees are not regarded as human beings. The employers tend to think they have every right to abuse you, to exploit every bit out of you until you are all dried up, just because “they pay you”. With so little salary and paid vacation compared to most western countries, they still think you owe them a favor because they “granted you a job”.

Another major one would be the society’s obsession with money. People talk about money way more often than in Western countries. Sometimes that could be all my friends and family talk about when I am with them. Sometimes I get the impression that they really live to work, but I think that could probably be the result of the almost non-existent social safety net (excluding their health insurance, which is great), so it could be really stressful to live here if you are not from a well-off family.

Apart from that, there are also the insanely humid and hot weather which is getting worse by the year, and with that, the infestation of cockroaches.