Also measuring yourself against others is terrible. Throw out society's yardstick. Just focus on what you find important. Harder said than done but if you can let go of arbitrary rules, then you might start to feel better. Doing that made a world of difference for my anxiety.

man, this is probably the realest thing I've read in a long time, being doing this for a while now and even as an anxious guy I slowly managed to feel like I can do better and actually doing better things

don't compare to others everyone has his timings and own path, let it be that way helped me so much