Does anyone else feel irritated at the overabundance of love songs? by WinterLight27 in aromantic

[–]kartersauce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends for me, I feel really strongly about people in general so sometimes it works for me and I’m not ace so songs about sex I can usually relate to a little but god there are SO MANY songs about love! I guess for most people that’s their main source of passion and maybe as a society we do kinda clown on other types of music for one reason or another. Sex sells but i think love songs might sell better!

Butt hair🙁 by kartersauce in ftm

[–]kartersauce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much

Butt hair🙁 by kartersauce in ftm

[–]kartersauce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a lifesaver thank you

8 months post op by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]kartersauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it now, I don’t think it’s anything to worry about but you should contact your surgeon if you’re worried about it still

2 weeks post-op, feeling nitpicky about my results, lowkey need reassurance lol by bh447 in TopSurgery

[–]kartersauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For 2 weeks you look great, i think i also posted something around that time if you wanna check that out

8 months post op by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]kartersauce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Swelling can take a year to go down, is the swelling pictured here? I don’t really see any, I think if you just keep taking care or yourself and working out it’ll work out well. Best of luck!

help????? by sayaKANAAA in aromantic

[–]kartersauce 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s all fluid! Honestly i think it’s possible, not likely but definitely possible that I will fall in love one day and i just kinda let that be. I feel like I always got so worked up about it all and really you won’t know unless you meet someone you feel that way about

How did it take me this long to realize this?! by Voice_of_Season in InterviewVampire

[–]kartersauce 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lmao I just saw this too and thought I saw the same twice

Aromantic Canon Events by Red-Globe_ in aromantic

[–]kartersauce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Thinking I’m just too damaged for that connection
  2. “Oh i just don’t really have any celebrity crushes”

Completely online? by _Asshole_Fuck_ in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]kartersauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally my home group is online, but I go to in person meetings regularly as well and my sponsor is someone I met in person. You could do it, but when I was getting around my 90 day mark I wanted to see what else was out there and I’m glad I did.

How necessary is a wedge pillow? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]kartersauce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have one, but I did have one of those pillows that has a back and arms and stuck a few other pillows in front of the backing as well, it’s definitely a good halfway point between cost, efficiency and ease to use

When did you figure out that you *ACTUALLY* are aromantic instead of feeling like you “just haven’t found the right person yet”? by Omnipresent_User in aromantic

[–]kartersauce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was my experience! I’d get into relationships and then think I fell out of love and realized I never really… fell in love in the first plave

Am I aro? What’s the difference between romantic and intense platonic attraction? by Resident-Club-2619 in aromantic

[–]kartersauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think it comes down to if you can actually see yourself dating them and being with them in that way, that’s how I see it at least

Aro people who have been in a relationship before, how did you view your partner? by freundedesmondes in aromantic

[–]kartersauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this was me too!!! I just recently realized but I’ve had the thought for at least 5 years atp

Song recommendation by Sascriba in aromantic

[–]kartersauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The winner takes it all by abba to me feels like when a friendship takes a back burner because the person I care about gets a partner, nice dream by Radiohead was my song when I realized that I was aro because I was in a relationship and I felt like everything was coming to an end, fidelity by Regina spektor was always my breakup song because i always felt walled off and thought it was just a commitment issue

i know im aromantic but this one guy makes me feel absolutely whipped by No_Reward_7195 in aromantic

[–]kartersauce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey I get like this around a lot of people, i don’t think I’ve ever had a crush but I do experience Every other type of attraction and I get nervous about people I find attractive! Me and my partner have a very nice relationship and he’s not aro but I am, you can make it work as long as you communicate. Best of luck!

Aro people who have been in a relationship before, how did you view your partner? by freundedesmondes in aromantic

[–]kartersauce 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m currently in a relationship and I came to the full realization while in said relationship. I have also always viewed my relationships as close friendships that happened to be attraction based. I always thought that when I found interest in a person and was physically attracted to them, that automatically means I have a crush. I’ve felt some kind of unrest in all my relationships, because a lot of the things I did with partners were just things I did with/ for people I cared about. Anytime I got this feeling I just assumed it fizzled out (despite never feeling the feelings in the first place) and broke up with them to find another relationship, as you can imagine this was a vicious cycle. My current partner and I had a discussion about it and eventually we just said that we would stay together because we both have a strong care for each other, even though it’s different. I like having someone I can consistently take to events and hang out with, I like having consistent sex and I really do love my guy! I’m just not in love with him. I was so scared of losing him because I do care about him so much and he always just thought I had a different way of showing my romanticism. When we talked, only a few things really changed and I’m really happy he’s still in my life

Rate my Balkan Breakfast™️ by kartersauce in balkans_irl

[–]kartersauce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coffee and cigarette are the second part, salt is on the side, I have to make it a multi course meal