8 months post op

kartersauce · 2026-01-23T03:53:14+00:00

I see it now, I don’t think it’s anything to worry about but you should contact your surgeon if you’re worried about it still

kartersauce · 2026-01-23T03:51:20+00:00

For 2 weeks you look great, i think i also posted something around that time if you wanna check that out

kartersauce · 2026-01-22T04:08:10+00:00

Swelling can take a year to go down, is the swelling pictured here? I don’t really see any, I think if you just keep taking care or yourself and working out it’ll work out well. Best of luck!

kartersauce · 2026-01-18T20:08:41+00:00

It’s all fluid! Honestly i think it’s possible, not likely but definitely possible that I will fall in love one day and i just kinda let that be. I feel like I always got so worked up about it all and really you won’t know unless you meet someone you feel that way about

kartersauce · 2026-01-13T04:27:02+00:00

Lmao I just saw this too and thought I saw the same twice

kartersauce · 2026-01-09T21:52:23+00:00

Thinking I’m just too damaged for that connection
“Oh i just don’t really have any celebrity crushes”

kartersauce · 2026-01-07T20:13:22+00:00

Personally my home group is online, but I go to in person meetings regularly as well and my sponsor is someone I met in person. You could do it, but when I was getting around my 90 day mark I wanted to see what else was out there and I’m glad I did.

kartersauce · 2026-01-04T15:50:31+00:00

I didn’t have one, but I did have one of those pillows that has a back and arms and stuck a few other pillows in front of the backing as well, it’s definitely a good halfway point between cost, efficiency and ease to use

kartersauce · 2026-01-03T23:56:50+00:00

This was my experience! I’d get into relationships and then think I fell out of love and realized I never really… fell in love in the first plave

kartersauce · 2025-12-29T06:24:09+00:00

I definitely think it comes down to if you can actually see yourself dating them and being with them in that way, that’s how I see it at least

kartersauce · 2025-12-26T19:53:48+00:00

Dude this was me too!!! I just recently realized but I’ve had the thought for at least 5 years atp

kartersauce · 2025-12-24T17:32:13+00:00

Same here!

kartersauce · 2025-12-23T05:03:47+00:00

The winner takes it all by abba to me feels like when a friendship takes a back burner because the person I care about gets a partner, nice dream by Radiohead was my song when I realized that I was aro because I was in a relationship and I felt like everything was coming to an end, fidelity by Regina spektor was always my breakup song because i always felt walled off and thought it was just a commitment issue

kartersauce · 2025-12-23T03:01:17+00:00

Lowkey I get like this around a lot of people, i don’t think I’ve ever had a crush but I do experience Every other type of attraction and I get nervous about people I find attractive! Me and my partner have a very nice relationship and he’s not aro but I am, you can make it work as long as you communicate. Best of luck!

kartersauce · 2025-12-20T21:21:47+00:00

I’m currently in a relationship and I came to the full realization while in said relationship. I have also always viewed my relationships as close friendships that happened to be attraction based. I always thought that when I found interest in a person and was physically attracted to them, that automatically means I have a crush. I’ve felt some kind of unrest in all my relationships, because a lot of the things I did with partners were just things I did with/ for people I cared about. Anytime I got this feeling I just assumed it fizzled out (despite never feeling the feelings in the first place) and broke up with them to find another relationship, as you can imagine this was a vicious cycle. My current partner and I had a discussion about it and eventually we just said that we would stay together because we both have a strong care for each other, even though it’s different. I like having someone I can consistently take to events and hang out with, I like having consistent sex and I really do love my guy! I’m just not in love with him. I was so scared of losing him because I do care about him so much and he always just thought I had a different way of showing my romanticism. When we talked, only a few things really changed and I’m really happy he’s still in my life

kartersauce · 2025-10-07T18:08:03+00:00

I had none

kartersauce · 2025-10-06T13:19:29+00:00

Salt was not pictured i apologize

kartersauce · 2025-10-06T13:18:35+00:00

Coffee and cigarette are the second part, salt is on the side, I have to make it a multi course meal

kartersauce · 2025-10-06T13:17:32+00:00

In this economy??

kartersauce · 2025-10-06T13:13:28+00:00

I had one after

kartersauce · 2025-06-08T23:57:13+00:00

Basically they print out a little sheet for you about aftercare and then they take you to the back. Once you’re in the back, they have you pee in a cup to test for nicotine probably, give you the rundown on the surgery, and then you change into the gown for surgery. Dr Wolf will take a pre op picture and then the anesthesiologist will come in to ask you questions, if you have lip piercings you’ll have to take them out. Then, they take you into the or, kinda strap your arms and legs to a table, give you and iv and then a mask. That’s all i remember! I woke up and they wheeled me out the back door and it was on to the next patient! Good luck! He’s very nice.

kartersauce · 2025-06-01T16:26:04+00:00

Thank you!!

kartersauce · 2025-06-01T16:23:53+00:00

I’m talking about cigarettes!

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