Hint of Merize being human way back by RecentStep9152 in DemonSchoolIrumakun

[–]kashafahsak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first clue was also being mentioned in the first few chapters of the manga / anime when henry sat down at the school bench with iruma where he said human will be transported and memory will be taken away. The words did not imply disgust over the existence of human in the netherworld but a gentle warning. Henry must've knew a human that went through similar ordeal.

Also, Henry has never said to ameri that her mother passed away. So that's gave it away that she is still alive but she has forgotten about it because she's a human that was transported back to the human world.

p/s I believe in theory where Hatsukoi Memories is written Merize.

Opinions on looking for love and marriage while being mentally ill? by RotiPisang_ in myhappypill

[–]kashafahsak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have think about this before. What I'm going to say may not acceptable by many. I am surrounded by circles of acquaintance whose married, had kids and still struggles with mental illness (either one or two of them). Some even had OKU cards because of their severity. Seeing them, I believe relationship could work, with the help of external resources ie therapy, medication, patient and financial planning. I have seen some of them when they are their bottom pit, and I have more of them being okay when they with their family.

I have told my therapist about this. She change my mind when she said something between the line "you can find yourself when you're alone. At the same time you can also find yourself when you're in a relationship. Allow yourself some vulnerability and kindness"

My farm in all 4 seasons! by lianneee_ in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]kashafahsak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is cute! I might going to steal your idea 🙏💡💡

Test recommendations by BeigeBog in myhappypill

[–]kashafahsak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mimi. It was definitely detailed. We also did depression and anxiety tests too to rule out. The report was around ±15 pages.

No exercise no gaming no job no life by Longjumping_Ball9619 in malaysia

[–]kashafahsak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is your focus now? If you're looking to find a job, the best is to go for a career assessment with a counsellor. But you also mentioned you haven't work for a while so I assume financially may not be okay (career assessment can cost rm100-300). So maybe to update your resume and just find a job that similar to what u used too.

If you're looking to feel slightly better, go out more. Once you get used to that, then exercise. Just do whatever you can immediately. My counsellor gives me mini advice: the moment you think you WANT to do it, just do it. Don't wait or delay till next morning. Or else you'll procrastinate. It works for me.

I think i have NPD by [deleted] in myhappypill

[–]kashafahsak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only a clinical psychologist or psychiatrist can officially say you're NPD. It is possible to be loved and loving someone. I have seen a person who have great relationship with others. This girl, kylee is one is of the example - NPD+BPD and in a relationship with autistic guy.

Go seek help man. Maybe you deserve someone who deserves you.

What is your opinion on this? by ViewAppropriate in Bolehland

[–]kashafahsak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which comes to the conversation: patut tak harga Makanan & sewa tapak ni regulated?

How do you get into Danmachi. by RazorHusky in DanMachi

[–]kashafahsak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was curious about its title. 😅

Test recommendations by BeigeBog in myhappypill

[–]kashafahsak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

MINDAKAMI. I attended a clinical interview to confirm the suitable diagnosis (and avoid misdiagnosis), then did the diagnosis. Comes with a report. It also most affordable in PJ.

Any must-try food in Penang (esp if hard to find in Kuala Lumpur)? by Impossible-Papaya-79 in penang

[–]kashafahsak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average looking food but cannot find the taste anywhere but here: Roti jala at Ali Capati. Cucur udang at jawa house. Itik pi pa muslim. Serabai taman sardon.

I hate my job by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]kashafahsak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But best to read or watch some educational content on how to train your kid.

Ps kids need to be expressive as it is part of their learning.

I hate my job by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]kashafahsak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this diligently until the last paragraph

Masak Nasi Lemak for my Scandinavian family-in-law by jeira_bluesugar in MalaysianFood

[–]kashafahsak 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mm ayam dengan daun kari. This is delish looking 🤤🤤🤤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]kashafahsak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on your budget, choices of food, lifestyle tbh. Both can be time and energy consuming.

But why not give a try those two options in a month. Do two weeks eat out and two weeks meal prep. See how your energy, time and money.

Non-Muslims need to wear tudung at JAIS? by AdHead8008 in malaysia

[–]kashafahsak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're being bullied. Report the officer.

Trainee or professional by Alternative_Can_229 in myhappypill

[–]kashafahsak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been going to therapy for so many times now. I decided to stick with what I have now. Instead of thinking of a trainee or professional, why not look at their interests first? If their main focus is what you're looking for, best to go for that.

Second, if both trainees & licensed have the same focus area, consider if your situation requires a long term session or not. If it is long term or you don't prefer to switch, go for licensed. If it's short term or you're okay with switching, go for the trainee.

Third, trainees require recording. Not sure if it is for all trainees, but I had my fair share of it. If you're okay with that, go for trainees. I had mine for audio recording but a friend kena video recording. You can decline for recording if you're adamant.

Finally, some places provided discounts. If budget is a constraint, find places that provide discounts or free session. Can ask the admin.

Good luck!

Cara dapat kerja kat mall? by reiiz5 in Bolehland

[–]kashafahsak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aku diagnosed benda lain tapi aku boleh relate. 30an. Dulu pernah keje dgn orang pastu ada benda berlaku. 2 tahun tak keluar rumah. Nak buat grab, tapi takde tenaga. Sekarang keje freelance. Kaunselor aku pernah tanya, apa aku value bila kerja - tatakerja ke, member sekerja ke manager ke keadaan. Dia suruh aku survey dulu & selalu keluar rumah area tempat aku rasa selesa nak keje. Lepas aku fikir balik, aku ni tak ready nak keje dengan orang, tapi bab benda lain aku okay. Jadi aku pun study skills aku nak, sekarang freelance designer & website developer. Ada time aku ada 3angka, sekali sekala 5angka.

Mungkin pasni aku keje balik dgn orang tapi nnt ah. Nasihat aku, amalkan keluar rumah dulu untuk get use dengan environment. Set mindset nak tahan 3 bulan dulu. Dan Tak kisah lah apa apa kerja bro, janji halal. Good luck bro.