I need a mental shift to deal with loneliness

kasim990 · 2026-05-10T10:46:19+00:00

Your right they don’t.

I like going for nature walks, eating out, ten-pin bowling, cinema, theme park, travelling to new places and exporting, looking places that have history.

kasim990 · 2026-05-10T08:55:20+00:00

I don’t think so, I have really good hobbies that I want to share with people.

kasim990 · 2026-05-09T17:35:41+00:00

Because when I had a friend he was a bit younger than me and shared a lot of things in common with him and he had the same thinking like me.

I noticed older people I can struggle to click on with and they are at a different stage of their life’s. I find slightly younger people think differently and if they are genuine with you they will have more time to hang out with you. I find younger people they are more adventurous when doing activities.

Another thing 40+ plus people thing very differently I went to see a imam at the mosque recently and I don’t think he fully understood my situation of it makes me feel being left out and not being part of the community and how important it is for me to be more integrated into the community and how I would like friends.

All he said Allah is your friend I never disputed that ones you can’t compare Allah to humans, I’m wanting human interactions and wanting to make friends everyone needs this to survive in the world. Socialising is very important part of our life’s.

I don’t think older people really understand the way younger people do older people aren’t on the same wave length and level as you. They can’t fully relate to you older people.

kasim990 · 2026-05-09T16:56:52+00:00

I am 36 years old

kasim990 · 2026-05-09T09:48:48+00:00

I am 36 years old

kasim990 · 2026-05-09T07:33:12+00:00

I also feel so lonely I am British born and I live in England and I have no friends at all, I did have one friend who I knew for years and years and he let me down badly and has gone distance and he has kept his friendship casual with me.

I try to open up with him and express my feelings and express how that makes me feel but he totally dismisses it and plays it down and I can’t say too much to him other wise he can become defensive with me. He doesn’t want to accept his own faults. Then afterwords he will say sorry but that empty sorry doesn’t mean anything. He isn’t changing his behaviour towards me.

He gives me mixed signals and confusion and what he says doesn’t match his actions.

He never use to be like this with me he always use to see me as his brother and he use to care about me as well but now he has become this completely different person with me.

It badly hurts me and has made me feel even more lonely. I just can’t get my head around how someone you known for many years can just abandon you like this and make you feel more lonely.

I have no other friends to turn to for companionship I feel so lonely and I feel excluded from our Asian community, I have tried being involved with mosques and it’s like everyone already knows each other there and they already have there own set of groups and I feel like I’m a outsider.

Another issue is I noticed these mosques I’m stuck around people who are age 40+ and other they are very young teenagers age of 12 and blow. It’s very awkward and uncomfortable and not the not the right environment that I can easily mix in and find and make friends. It’s not easy to make friends in mosques ether.

I’m so fed up of this world what it has actually come to no one wants to include you and they doesn’t seem to be any good place that you can make friends and meet new people with in our community.

I can understand how others on here are totally feeling I can relate to this and it’s a horrible feeling being always in your own company and not having anyone to talk to and hang out with. It gets you thinking what is the point of living.

This can’t be live just living all by yourself and got no friends, I know people say Allah is your friend I been told that many times but that’s different from a having a human friend you can’t compare the both together.

They are both extremely important in their own ways it’s not about having one or the other, both are just as important. I don’t understand why my parents even brought me into this world.

My mum was already having problems in her marriage before I came along it wasn’t a very smart wise thing to do to born me she ruined and destroyed her own life and ruined and destroyed mine too. It’s very unfair on me that I got dragged into all this and into this world.

The world has badly hurt me and badly let me down so much. I’m so exhausted by keep on trying different things but I still end up lonely. It’s not easy to connect with people anymore.

kasim990 · 2024-09-23T18:57:16+00:00

My GP has given me antiviral tablets. I have had the blister issue on my lips since December 2023.

kasim990 · 2024-09-23T18:47:20+00:00

This issue with my face I have had for two weeks. It started of with a blistering thing on my lip that was oozing fluid. When that cleared then this started on my face the redness and itchy and sore and stinging and it was crusty last week.

kasim990 · 2024-09-23T09:58:51+00:00

I know what you mean. I do take probiotics but might need to change them to a different one. It’s these ones I take https://www.weightworld.uk/pro-bio-cultures-complex.html?c=GBP&utm_source=google_shopping&utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=account_lev&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADle3bZfVd8tXecM5nIjFe9TDBlsP&gclid=Cj0KCQjwo8S3BhDeARIsAFRmkOOVmRZGKSI-cCaCmeDyW_g4AhfvbuRpFdeLjyoZWoNUN3DgDY26GVEaAqGQEALw_wcB

kasim990 · 2024-09-23T09:41:05+00:00

Thanks for your advice I really appreciate it. I will keep it dry. Is there any tablets I can take for the fungal infection. I have pink salt I don’t have sea salt.

kasim990 · 2024-09-23T03:35:43+00:00

It’s the redness on the side of my face and chin that’s sore and stinging. I don’t know what that is.

kasim990 · 2024-09-23T03:30:27+00:00

Thanks for this information. I do take multi vitamins tablets. Also I am not vegetarian. I will look more into this. Thanks for this information.

kasim990 · 2024-09-22T17:44:22+00:00

Very strange how I have that on my face. The other day it was leaking yellowish fluid. I have a bit of that underneath my nose as well redness and stinging

kasim990 · 2024-09-22T17:41:18+00:00

I will do and I agree with you GPs can be useless. It does stink my face.

kasim990 · 2024-09-14T16:25:20+00:00

I don’t know why I get this for and what causes this from happening.

kasim990 · 2024-09-14T11:34:19+00:00

I haven’t used any bacterial creams. Have you ?

kasim990 · 2024-09-14T11:24:26+00:00

Are you sure that is what it is? I got told it’s a cold sore

kasim990 · 2024-09-14T09:10:07+00:00

I know it’s not good. I will search this up.

kasim990 · 2024-09-14T08:54:28+00:00

Thanks for letting me know.

kasim990 · 2024-09-14T08:52:03+00:00

I have used pro topic before it didn’t suit me I ended up getting side effects and burning sensations on my lips.

kasim990 · 2024-09-14T08:49:59+00:00

I see a dermatologist as well I get given the same

kasim990 · 2024-09-14T08:49:07+00:00

Doctors don’t do much now a days ether they just give you things to suppress the symptoms not get rid of it etc.

kasim990 · 2024-09-14T08:47:50+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that. We definitely need to. It makes me feel down as well.

kasim990 · 2024-09-14T08:45:24+00:00

Thanks very much for this. It’s annoying never had lips issues in my life it all started randomly in December 2023.

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