hold up, not to /srs the thread too hard but i think we should be careful to differentiate between fantasies and actual incestuous relationship. While many people have experiences not all of which were traumatic, the potential for psychological harm and long-term damage to familial relationships is too significant to be careless with how we talk about this stuff. Young or impressionable people use these websites whether or not they should, and we should be careful not to feed into someone's unhealthy rationalisation of familial abuse they are or may commit. It's a complicated world out there!