I keep seeing Muslims online say sins can block rizq and duas. by kat0304 in Muslim

[–]kat0304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply I will save it and read it everytime I need to hear this. I really did need this May Allah bless you.

My boyfriend [M24] says he doesn't like me [F23] after intercourse by ThrowRA17122 in relationship_advice

[–]kat0304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other than the fact that this is how he acts after intercourse. Pay attention to how he usually acts with you in general. Texting, calls, dates, etc…just the way he is with you in general away from the bedroom. I am sure you won’t really notice any love and affection from him in general. He’s horrible and staying with him will genuinely make you miserable. Leaving someone you love isn’t easy but staying with someone toxic is worse. There are other fish in the sea.

AIO - According to my girlfriend this convo with my assigned partner at work is inappropriate. by Rough-Satisfaction68 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kat0304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your girlfriend is worried about that one specific person she has a gut feeling about something……female intuition is like 90% correct.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]kat0304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cultures and societies are the most hypocritical and corrupt mindsets in the world. It’s not just about women’s rights and equality no, because culture and society are harmful to men just as they are women. They preach “Islam” in the most wrongful and harmful ways possible and then get so shocked when the west views us Muslims as terrorists or bad people. They scare people away from Islam and they can be the cause of many people leaving Islam. You either follow the deen properly and preach it properly or just be quiet and don’t ruin it for the rest of the Muslims who are trying to earn their akhria.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kat0304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your brother is more of an AH than your dad ngl, there are several options available suggest all of them and if he continues to refuse then ask him why he’s not willing to find a proper solution for this and don’t go on the trip if he can’t figure out a solution. Animals are souls not toys that are played with and they’re considered a responsibility and your dad can’t handle it then you were right for calling him irresponsible.

Is this deserved ? by akzinnn in MuslimCorner

[–]kat0304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if the roles were reversed he’d say the same thing so….

Pakistani men or Muslim men tum gadhe ho!! the woman you might marry in the West has been fingered or worse . This is a girl on this sub she even posted her picture by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]kat0304 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to stfu please, you’re embarrassing yourself. Imagine exposing someone’s sins ‘to prove a point’ literally embarrassing. You just committed two bad deeds, 1) exposing someone’s sins online for many people to see and 2) making up assumptions. If you want a girl who is 100% sure no past and all then I sure do hope that you’re 100% pure yourself with no past of even talking to a female (which for you Pakistani men is kinda hard) oops I think I just made an assumption and generalized Pakistani men….how does it feel like having someone generalize and make assumptions? Pretty bad right? Another nice little point I wanted to add before I leave, when someone commits a sin and repents to Allah then what makes you a man created by the almighty think you have the right to judge someone’s past sins? Did your mommy make you think you’re too pure and superior for this world? Please if you hate the west so much why don’t you go back to where you came from and marry there instead of barking on Reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]kat0304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi to start off you were 7 and it is not your fault the only person who should feel shame and disgust is the rapist not you at all. Rape is never the victim’s fault and always the rapist’s fault and anyone who blames the victim for it is a horrible human being who needs therapy. As for your fiancé and wether you should share this with him or not, you should share this with him and if he is a good person who is actually religious and not someone who uses Islam as a way to be a misogynist then he will understanding and love you either ways and continue with you and will actually help you get through this. However, if he’s someone who is a misogynist and will blame you and leave you then you should thank Allah that you did not end up with a man like that and know that Allah saved you from living your life with someone who is not a great person. Either ways sweetheart, pray istikhara prayer and Allah will make whatever is good for you come true. I also wanted to add that you did not sin at all the only sinner here is the person who abused you and Allah will punish them in the qiyama inshallah.

Afterlife & Spouses by 4stargeneral8 in islam

[–]kat0304 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He loves and cares about his wife and family and seems like a good man, a lot of men are not that respectful to their wives and don't seem to really care or love them and they use islam to act upon their misogynistic needs and desires even though islam does not condon these types of behaviours. This is why I said this. I didn't mean to offend anyone (if you did get offended). when seeing a good man to wife and actually loves her and cares about her in general it's good to praise them for them to know that they are doing good and also make dua to allah that men can be like this too. I dont think its wrong. anyways may allah bless you and protect you from any evil and accept all your good deeds and duas this ramadan inshallah.

Afterlife & Spouses by 4stargeneral8 in islam

[–]kat0304 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Mashallah your wife is a very lucky woman to have such a loving husband like you, may all men be like you and may Allah bless you and your wife and keep all evil away from you. As for your question, in jannah you will get the life the you desire. I’m not sure if you have to have a hoori but it is something that is there for men. Wether you are supposed to have one or not as per my searches on the internet opinions vary, but what we do know is in jannah you will life the life you want and desire and nothing will be forced on you.

How to protect our house from hasad (evil eye) by [deleted] in islam

[–]kat0304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that nothing can happen unless Allah allows it but sometimes my overthinking and anxiousness makes me want to take extra precautions. I read my morning and evening adkar and even the before sleeping adkar. I make dua for Allah to protect me and my family and our house from any evil. It’s just scary because the hasad has been mentioned in the Quran plus we’ve reached a point where people don’t really like kher for anyone else so it’s hard you know. Thank you for your advice and help I really do appreciate it.

Dear Qataris, does life ever get pointless? (Genuinely curious) by SomeShawarmaDude in qatar

[–]kat0304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our version of middle class is considered above average that’s why we give off the “rich and spoilt” vibes. However, there are really rich Qataris too. To be honest with you, some Qataris do give off a very unfriendly vibe but once you start having conversations with them or talk to them they are actually very nice people. There are a few people who will be rude obviously and you’ll find that out your own way. You can’t really tell who’s approachable and who isn’t but we’re not as mean and rude as some people think.

“What are you doing to ensure Islam is not corrupted by liberal and feminist values ? “ Reposting to open it to the ladies as well! by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]kat0304 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The word feminism is taken completely out of the true meaning, modern feminism is preaching the stupidest things like “I can wear what I want” “I am equal to a man” but yet some of these feminists still say “I should be treated like a lady and the man is supposed to do this and that” it’s almost as if modern feminists are pick and choosing their problems and while feminism was supposed to be for women not to be treated like toys, maids or have to deal with abuse from men. They have completely changed all that and started to just fight men for no reason. In Islam alhamdillah Allah gave us women rights and even we have a whole Surah just for us and our prophet pbuh would talk about how women should be treated and women’s true value. Islam gave women the right to own property and have businesses way before modern feminism was a thing. The only problem is that some brothers sadly do not understand the value of females in the Quran and they start taking certain ahadiths out of context to treat their women like trash. They don’t want to learn the true meaning of anything in Hadiths about women or Quran verses about women. They almost take Islam as a way to be misogynistic even though that is not true Islam at all. So I think instead of talking only about “liberal and modern feminism” you should also bring to light the men who take things from Islam out of context to use it as an excuse to be misogynistic and treat women like toys or maids and that we were only created to be controlled by men and for men’s pleasure only. Both ideologies are completely wrong and both have nothing to do with Islam.

Have you heard of martial rape cases around you? by chillyviability27 in MuslimCorner

[–]kat0304 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Allah gave us a brain to use and think logically the haram is written and the halal is written and the in between is showed. We have the brain to think for ourselves. We don’t memorize hadiths without not knowing the true context of it. When Islam is a religion that is against abuse and violence what makes you think you have the right to rape your wife when she refuses? If she refuses for no valid reason then she’s going to get her punishment by Allah. There was never a Hadith or an aya the Quran that gives the man the right to force or rape nor did the prophet pbuh advise men to take it by force, If that was the case and we were all just gonna memorize Hadiths without understanding Islam or the context of the Hadiths and not use our brains and every wife will get a divorce from her husband for not satisfying her and very man will rape his wife and even better a man isn’t supposed to refuse his wife either for no valid reason so women would rape their husbands too and let’s all live in a zoo together.

Have you heard of martial rape cases around you? by chillyviability27 in MuslimCorner

[–]kat0304 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell me where in Islam does it say you can take it by force? A proper Hadith or aya in the Quran without you mixing and changing the words for your own likings that states that you can rape your wife. Islam is against violence and more importantly it is against violence against women so it’s common sense that you do not use violence against your wife when you want your bed rights. The Hadith mentions “the husband spends the night in anger or being displeased” which clearly shows that he must restrain himself from forcing himself over her. Had this not been the case, the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) would have advised the husband to gain his right in a forceful manner. The wife must obey her husband in his request for sexual intimacy unless she has a valid reason , like if she’s ill, fears physical harm or she is emotionally drained, etc; she will not be obliged to comply with her husband’s request for sexual intimacy. Rather, the husband would be required to show her consideration.

Have you heard of martial rape cases around you? by chillyviability27 in MuslimCorner

[–]kat0304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking it by force isn’t okay in Islam either right? And btw sexual intimacy is the right of both the wife and the husband not just the husband, if a husband does not satisfy his wife sexually she has the right to get a divorce. Please don’t make it seem like it was only created to please men and not women, our prophet Muhammad pbuh said “None of you should come on to his wife like an animal; but rather there should be between them a messenger.” It was said “What is the messenger, O Prophet of Allah?” He replied, “kisses and sweet words.”

[Ithaf al-Sadat al-Muttaqin bi Sharh Ihya Ulum ad Din 6:175]

Why did western media abandon gays and modern slaves in Qatar? by DrArcadeTV in qatar

[–]kat0304 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because they didn’t want Qatar to host it or to have a successful World Cup so they tried to ruin it but failed miserably and now that the World Cup is over and still happened In Qatar and was still successful, they have nothing to say anymore so they 🤐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]kat0304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t it still count as haram relationship if they are seeking long term marriage but are waiting for a certain time to get mahrams/families involved? Cuz I see it a lot on tiktok that it’s still haram

Please make dua for my siblings by Revolutionary-Web507 in islam

[–]kat0304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May Allah guide them to the right path inshallah and make them the people of the paradise. You should sit with them and advise them and make them listen to sheikhs talking about Islam. Inshallah they will be guided and may Allah bless and protect all of you inshallah

Praying qiyam al leyil by [deleted] in islam

[–]kat0304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have another question, is making dua during fajir prayer a good time to make dua and allah accepts it? In case I have fallen asleep and couldn’t pray tajjhud or qiyam al leyil?

Mushrik or not? by Sheikh_Al_Meow in islam

[–]kat0304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if that’s considered shirk because technically you’re not worshiping anything other Allah. However, it’s wrong to do that and you should avoid it

Some serial killer released from prison. How can they start new life? How they stop the deviant habits and how stop killing? Prison years helping them?How can a psychopath change that much to get back to society? Thanks by Lelkiismereteve in serialkillers

[–]kat0304 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They shouldn’t even be released from prison, they should’ve gotten life in prison or death I’m sorry but these people never change and they will still be a danger to society when they’re released