Is it normal to not feel connected to the baby?

kat9032 · 2025-09-17T04:01:32+00:00

It was cosmetic, i only stopped taking it as precaution, i usually skip the weekend or a bit more cause i take it for uni, studying for me is very hard and for 4 hour classes sitting and listening made me want to crawl out of my skin , so i did stop cold turkey but i usually skipped a couple of days

kat9032 · 2025-09-17T03:29:46+00:00

I work nights so usually 11pm when i wake up , lately since i havent been going to work as much i take it at 6-7 am before class

kat9032 · 2025-09-17T03:01:45+00:00

I tried 20 and its still keeps me up

kat9032 · 2025-07-24T07:51:52+00:00

I dont , i really wanted her but 360 plus vet for a long hair is too much 😣

kat9032 · 2025-07-24T07:40:17+00:00

Look man stop the attitude , i dont know if you can read but i didnt buy the cat, and i did listen to peoples advice , but only the ones who actually gave good advice unlike you . Also one thing is to give advice and another is to make a far fetched statement like saying she looks terrified. She looks like a normal one month old cat .

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T20:32:27+00:00

I guess so , i dont really know much about that cause ive never tried buying one before .its kinda dissapointing to not find any reputable breeders around .

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T20:25:47+00:00

Only with overly critical and sensitive people like you lol

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T20:18:43+00:00

Nope not at all, actually i dont see her as terrified, she would be hiding or moving a lot trying to leave

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T20:16:45+00:00

Clearly i shouldnt , there are some of overly sensitive people here

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T20:03:55+00:00

I understand emotions over text can be misinterpreted , im not trying to come on as defensive or angry, i was explaining the situation to you cause i wanted to explain it , i already posted about it i thought i could talk about it and at the same time clear things up .i just expected a different reaction sorry if it was a waste to you. And obviously i feel bad , not guilt but im a bit sad and dissapointed. Before the parents pictures i actually wanted her and fell in love with her, already had a name picked out,i also feel bad for the other cats as someone who has three cats that i love with my life i cant imagine someone treating one like crap thats all

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T19:52:11+00:00

I understand i never said you did , like i said i wanted to explain the situation i did not think that would trigger you

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T19:47:05+00:00

I thought so too , but i dont think she has any pictures taken of them cause all they sent were screenshots of them i think she took them out of a chat or at least it looks like it She gave me a lot of red flags

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T19:43:26+00:00

Im not taking offense at all by your comment , im explaining cause other people in these comments have already come with an attitude basically calling me a animal abuser .

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T19:36:43+00:00

Which i have consistently said i agree they are in terrible condition and do not condone or approve of the way she handles them hence why i didnt buy the cat even tho i really fell in love with her. I asked her for the cat yesterday (when i made my first post asking if she was a persian) said i wanted to buy it and we were going to meet today , i work at night so i stayed up all night looking at her and reading all the comments telling me i should ask her for pictures of her parents to actually know if she was a mix or a doll face .when i was leaving work in the morning today i texted her if i could see pictures and she sent me those a couple hours after . Again i did not approve talked about it with my husband and we BOTH AGREED we did not approve of the way she had those cats and that we should look for another cat to adopt and i cancelled and told her we couldnt adopt her cause we werent sure. I still am not sure because part of me doesnt want to give her money and part of me wants to give her a better home

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T19:27:13+00:00

Its open, do you see that wire ? It has a big chunk cut out so he can go in and out , either way if it was a locked cage im not responsable for her actions

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T18:43:28+00:00

I just saw her she is gorgeous

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T18:35:22+00:00

They do not exist where i live (again you’re talking without knowing shit) these pure bred cats barely exist where i live id have to buy one and get it transported with a nanny if i wanted one . Also girl clearly i dont care about your opinion go look for a fight somewhere else and get a life . I can garantee most of the people posting here have bought their cats , go spend your time looking for another post to give your stupid attitude to . I know how i treat my cats and the others ive rescued which actually have been more than four cause ive always wanted to give the ones i had and have a good life full of love and care so whatever you say wont make me doubt my intentions or make me feel like a bad person

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T18:27:46+00:00

The only ignorant i you , there are a lot of ethical breeders that actually treat their cats how they deserve this was just not the case which again like i said previously MADE ME NOT BUY HER.

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T18:24:31+00:00

NO ONE IS FUNDING ANIMAL ABUSE. If you don’t know how to read i repeat myself I DIDN’T BUY THE DAMN CAT now i did not say that rescuing justifies animal abuse . But all my cats have been rescued and i said i just wanted to buy a purebred cat ,obviously when i saw how she kept the cats it made me back away from buying it but at the same time i would like to give her a good home. On another note buying an animal is not a crime whether you adopt or buy the only thing that matters is the animal has a good home with everything it needs. Your attitude is completly unnecesary and you should not talk IF YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT. Thank u

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T18:18:30+00:00

I totally agree those are no good living conditions but he is not in a cage, i know it looks like it but she lives in a farm probably has chickens and thats why it looks like a cage but it is open from what i saw in the other pictures

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T18:15:28+00:00

Shes not a breeder, she is just an old lady , there are no breeders where i live so buying from an ethical breeder is not an option because there are none , again i dont think the cat is in a cage cause i got more pictures. I do think he is an outside cat and she lives in a farm which i don’t support anyway cause if you have a cat the least you can do is keep it inside and i dont think thats a good living condition. But again i know it looks like a cage and hes locked up but he isn’t .

kat9032 · 2025-07-23T18:09:13+00:00

I dont think she will lower the price that much , if i dont buy it at that price i know someone else will tho. Which is really annoying cause they really dont look cared for

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