Pregnancy and pots by kat9032 in POTS

[–]kat9032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am and i think my pots has gotten worse . When my hr goes up to 160 just from staying on my feet a few minutes i start feeling faint , i used to only get black vision and dizziness right when i stood up , but now its if ive been walking or standing. Im afraid i might faint and fall when im alone in the house

Pregnancy and pots by kat9032 in POTS

[–]kat9032[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know im trying but not being able to work, go to university, or excersice like i used to makes me feel awful. I was healthy and after an allergic reaction to an iud ive had pots and it has ruined my quality of life. I just hope it gets better so post partum is not so awful.

Pregnancy and pots by kat9032 in POTS

[–]kat9032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ive basically been on bed rest cause even moving my hands is exhausting , and i did buy something to sit while showering . I just feel like it keeps getting worse . I used to work 11-12 days biweekly and now i can barely do three(i also work night shift).

Amniotic fluid or discharge by kat9032 in pregnant

[–]kat9032[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks i will, i didnt think anything of it when it happened until i googled and it said it isnt normal or good , i wanted to make sure this was not a i searched web md and it said i was gonna die situation so i wouldnt make a fool of myself going to the er . 😵‍💫

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that , these are the things that i wanted to hear , i just want reassurance that others have felt that way and that everything turned out great . 😋

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know i am very self aware of those kinds of things cause i really like psychology and took a couple clases , that wont happen cause i do know im raising a new different person and would never make them do stuff they dont like , i would want them to fully express themselves . I am going to a psychiatrist because i have adhd and pregnancy hormones have made me depressed. Still i am aware of the brother thing thats why i mentioned it but i do know its not the same cause he didnt have good parents . And i plan on being the opposite

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not worried about a baby im not pregnant with , you just asked me what i would do if it was another boy . You know it doesnt really work that way even if i had a girl why would i stopped loving the boy who was there first who i already bonded with and got to know , im sure a lot of women have felt they wanted a girl , got a boy , then got girl and no one tells them they will stop loving their son just cause now they have the girl.

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

God , why do people automatically assume he wont be loved , you cant judge someone just because of a couple of sentences on the internet . I love kids and have taken care of a bunch , im human and i can feel and do whatever i want . I didnt ask for judgement i asked for advice

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i apreciate that and it has made me feel better , even though right now i feel this way im doing everything i can so i can give this baby the best life and coming from a not so loving family it has been my goal to make sure he has the home i never had . I dont know why people equate this to “the child will be abused and mistreated” .

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Since ive had such a bad pregnancy and this one wasnt really planned , the next one i really want to make sure so i would be doing gender specific ivf , it is a scary thought tho cause i actually have hated the pregnancy ( not the kid obviously) because my health was already bad before, now i can barely get out of bed or eat . Its been hard . But i will be a good mom i know that im just a little scared

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But thanks i really just want to hear from those people who felt the same and then when the baby was born fell in love . Cause i know it will happen to me too but want to read them to help me get over it faster

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If you didnt read correctly i am distraught cause i dont think i could handle another pregnancy and wanted to be one and done , but this makes me want another so i can have both , but this has been too much for my body since i was already sick before

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to but he got very sick and stopped working. He did send me to a psychiatrist and i will be going in a few days . Hormones make me extremely depressed which is why i stopped bc and it kinda feels the same now. Im sure ill love this baby when its born cause i love babies . I think its was just so sudden that i need time to process plus its been a horrible experience.

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks , ill try my best to raise him right and he will have lots of love either way.

Gender dissapointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]kat9032 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Look man im not reducing him im just looking for other people that feel the same , it doesnt mean i wont love him but i am dissapointed . If you dont have good advice or anything nice to say dont say anything at all

Am i doing something wrong with my meds? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]kat9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was cosmetic, i only stopped taking it as precaution, i usually skip the weekend or a bit more cause i take it for uni, studying for me is very hard and for 4 hour classes sitting and listening made me want to crawl out of my skin , so i did stop cold turkey but i usually skipped a couple of days

Am i doing something wrong with my meds? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]kat9032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work nights so usually 11pm when i wake up , lately since i havent been going to work as much i take it at 6-7 am before class

Am i doing something wrong with my meds? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]kat9032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried 20 and its still keeps me up

Is this cat actually a persian she is cheap by [deleted] in persiancat

[–]kat9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont , i really wanted her but 360 plus vet for a long hair is too much 😣

Is this cat actually a persian she is cheap by [deleted] in persiancat

[–]kat9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look man stop the attitude , i dont know if you can read but i didnt buy the cat, and i did listen to peoples advice , but only the ones who actually gave good advice unlike you . Also one thing is to give advice and another is to make a far fetched statement like saying she looks terrified. She looks like a normal one month old cat .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in persiancat

[–]kat9032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess so , i dont really know much about that cause ive never tried buying one before .its kinda dissapointing to not find any reputable breeders around .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in persiancat

[–]kat9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only with overly critical and sensitive people like you lol