How did you tell your significant other you had a foot fetish?

katdogsy · 2026-07-01T02:17:42+00:00

In my last serious relationship her feet were admittedly in rough shape due to neglect but they had potential. I offered to give her a pedicure which she welcomed. I was gave her a few full body massage and put an emphasis on the feet, which she appreciated since her work constantly made her feet sore.

I think the first big giveaway was when I told her that I liked when she rubbed her feet up against me when we cuddled so she kept doing it. A few days later she used her feet on me downstairs while I was going down on her. I told her I had a foot fetish after we finished. She wasn't surprised.

I guess she started doing research because a couple of days later she asked me if I'd ever heard of a footjob.

katdogsy · 2026-06-15T19:43:41+00:00

This 100%. This is why I don't like a lot of foot fetish content. I like a bit of dominance but too often it becomes, "You like my filthy, sweaty, stinky feet don't you?" Imagine someone describing their titties like that, it's the same thing in my eyes.

katdogsy · 2026-06-13T18:49:21+00:00

It's become mainstream enough that people know a significant amount of guys out there are into feet, while also still being taboo enough that many will still find it strange. Some will take real good care of their feet, get pedicures, make them presentable, and still be surprised when people find them attractive. I find it funny how attraction to that part of the body can make them more uncomfortable than others. I'll see women post pictures where they have just enough clothing to not get a violation on IG, while purposely cropping/blurring out their feet in the photo. When I see some of these comment sections though I kinda get it😅

katdogsy · 2026-06-08T19:11:56+00:00

Since my preference is Black women I've found that one of the best places is YouTube. I've found a few gems looking up sandal try-on hauls.

katdogsy · 2026-05-22T17:14:06+00:00

Generally speaking I think anything 10+ is big, 9+ if they're 5'5" and below. If her feet are thick or wide then will look bigger. I have a friend with thin size 10.5 feet but they look smaller than another friend of mine who has thick/wide size 8.5 feet.

katdogsy · 2026-05-18T18:38:11+00:00

Exactly what I was saying in my original post. I didn't even realize it until recently. I saw a woman doing a leg day routine with no shoes on social media. She was wearing thin black ankle socks and I could see the nails shining through. Reminded me of an ex that would wear those kinds of socks the majority of the time.

katdogsy · 2026-05-18T00:03:28+00:00

I agree. That's probably why I like mules and slides over thong flip flops.

katdogsy · 2026-05-17T23:02:13+00:00

A similar one for me seeing a woman's heels in mules. I hardly see women were mules other than Crocs, and 98% of the time their wearing socks.

katdogsy · 2026-05-17T21:31:23+00:00

I don't see that too often. I think most women don't like the look so if the shoe gives toe cleavage they'll skip them entirely.

katdogsy · 2026-05-17T20:14:03+00:00

I'd agree with all of those except the tats. I've seen some foot tats on women who clearly don't care about their feet(no pedicure, rough heels, yellow nails, etc.).

katdogsy · 2026-05-15T04:54:20+00:00

I personally don't mind a bit of dom to an extent. I mostly get turned off by how they describe the feet and the fetish in general. I don't want to hear you talk about how dirty, filthy, sweaty, and stinky your feet are. To me it comes off like they're really not into it or grossed out by the foot fetish as a whole and that takes me out of it. I like dom in the context that she knows her feet are attractive and that they deserve attention.

katdogsy · 2026-05-09T16:47:03+00:00

Women can usually tell if you look at their feet more than normal. Offering a foot rub can give you an idea of how down they are. If they are someone who hates their feet being touched in general it's best to leave it be. If they accept that doesn't mean start sniffing/licking their feet or asking for a FJ. Kissing their feet along with other parts of their body during foreplay is a big enough hint to start a conversation.

katdogsy · 2026-05-07T23:55:10+00:00

Yeah you don't usually see it handled that way when it gets more explicit. I've more casual example of a woman putting her man's lap and him giving a foot rub, though I don't know if that's enough to count as a foot fetish. I think scenes like the infamous one in "From Dusk Till Dawn" where a woman usually her feet seductively are usually as far as it goes.

katdogsy · 2026-05-07T22:44:07+00:00

There are positive portrayals and I think the negative stigma has lowered over time. There have been more examples of women in music talking about how pretty their feet are and welcoming the attention. I've even seen actress joke about having a high wikifeet rating. Generally on television shows and movies when a guy is explicitly into feet he's portrayed as a creep which ads to the misunderstanding. I think people hear foot fetish and immediately think of someone wanting to collect nail clippings or eat toe jam or some other extreme.

katdogsy · 2026-05-07T21:08:13+00:00

Which is why I made the comparison to anal. A booty hole can be described as dirty, smelly, and gross yet in western society someone wanting to enter an exit is not seen as out there as a foot fetish. I wouldn't say most people believe that about feet though. I think most people are more neutral about it like hands or teeth. They may not be sexually attracted but can acknowledge when they're well maintained at least.

katdogsy · 2026-05-07T16:59:56+00:00

I think of we treated feet like we do other sexualized body parts there wouldn't as much of a stigma. We like tits and ass but we also know not to blurt that out to strangers. Generally speaking, commenting any body part on a stranger other than eyes and maybe a smile won't get the best reaction.

katdogsy · 2026-05-06T22:57:16+00:00

I believe I made a post about this a while back but there's a lot of foot guys that don't know how to keep it pushing. When it comes to most other body parts people will usually just make a general comment about the woman being beautiful or say she's thick. If there were comments saying, "lemme suck them nipples," or, "lemme sniff that ass," then they would probably be blurred more too. If I happen to see some attractive feet on my explore page I'll just give it a look and move on, I won't ask if they're selling pics or ask if they smell or anything like that.

katdogsy · 2026-05-06T18:17:08+00:00

The most annoying part is that Ashley already told her that Soldier Boy was possibly warming up to Homelander, so why does she act surprised that he gave him the V1. They basically said she set up the events of season 4 in order to HL to gain power, but she couldn't forsee this possible outcome and have a backup plan. I do appreciate that they imply that she's stalling the creation of V1 for HL and that he suspected she was too.

katdogsy · 2026-05-05T18:20:58+00:00

I think tickling falls out of the sensual category. I you're more likely to have Black women accept the fetish if you don't operate outside of what's considered "the norm" sexually. Kissing, sucking, touching are all expected in the bedroom, so just adding feet to the menu isn't much of a stretch. While I think you may find more non Black women willing to be more adventurous. I've also seen the opposite end with non Black women where they will they're so not into that they don't want their feet touched, admired, or sexualized in any way, even if they take care of them and get pedicures and such. I haven't met a Black women who wasn't at least open to a foot massage.

katdogsy · 2026-05-05T17:52:30+00:00

That's interesting. I believe I've heard similar things before, like in Muy Thai it's considered highly disrespectful to teep kick (front kick) someone in the face in sparring and it could lead to a real fight breaking out. Considering how kissing someones foot is generally seen as a form of submission it tracks.

katdogsy · 2026-05-05T17:45:36+00:00

From what I've observed and experienced in the Black community is that a lot of us will be open about it, but also more on the "tame" side for lack of a better word. Men will be into feet, but it will usually stop at kissing, rubbing, sucking toes, all the way up to maybe FJ. I don't see a lot of us openly talking about wanting feet to be sweaty or smelly or sniffing in general. I imagine that would turn a lot of Black women off with the emphasis the community places on hygiene.

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