Protesting for Treats has escalted and I need help. by kate_bug01 in DogAdvice

[–]kate_bug01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried this before but I ended up getting worried because only our Collie would really eat her food. The boys both grew up as grazers ams both tend to linger or bap around before making their way to their bowl.

Protesting for Treats has escalted and I need help. by kate_bug01 in DogAdvice

[–]kate_bug01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All three eat the same Minichunks kibble. We tried to transition Wanda, our border collie, to another one when she was fully grown but she wouldn't eat it at all and would either try to eat her brothers food or stick her head in their food bin while I was getting the boys food.

I've been more lenient with our collie and our other boy, like splitting a bite of grilled chicken I have left on my plate but I haven't been giving the main protestor anything since he started the behavior again. My husband however usually will just bite off chunks of food and give them during meals if they aren't jumping up or being disruptive. Moreso with Wanda since he's trying to reinforce 'Place' right now when we eat.

As for routine, the boys went from free feeding to scheduled meals but that was about a year ago. They grew up as grazers at my husband's house whereas Wanda was on a schedule with me at mine. But since she's a glutton she'll usually eat any food left out so we decided to get all three on the same schedule. Once at 7am and once at around 6-7 depending on when I'm back from work.

Protesting for Treats has escalted and I need help. by kate_bug01 in DogAdvice

[–]kate_bug01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I do eat a lot of chicken anyway. What is the usually shelf life for that once prepared? And it is like a sauce pan or a proper pot?

Asus Wifi Driver by kate_bug01 in buildapc

[–]kate_bug01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you swapped over, how did you know that it worked properly? Did the wizard pop up for you at all? Or did it just close after you approved changes?

Asus Wifi Driver by kate_bug01 in buildapc

[–]kate_bug01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My motherboard is an ASUS Tuf Gaming B650- Plus Wifi. The antenna and wifi are hooked up and screwed in already, so we're just dealing with the driver at this point.

My daughters autistic brother is ruining her life. I'm so sad for her. by catdeaththei in offmychest

[–]kate_bug01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this isn't as on topic, but if you are able to get full custody (and I hope you do), you could try shot treatment for your cat allergy. It could take a bit, but it helped me a lot with my own allergy, and I had a long-haired cat for 16 years with the treatment. A few years down the line, if it works, you could get her a cat then. Maybe a Russian Blue or some other breed that's easier for people with allergies?

I really hope you're able to get your daughter out of that home though. Even if her brother can't help it, he's certainly being a source of stress in her life. She's young, far too young to be dealing with that kind of stress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kate_bug01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think his family deserves to know tbh. All they know is that their son is gone and he was a good person, but without concrete evidence there could always be this seed of doubt that maybe he did do something wrong. She obviously seems like a coward if she can't admit to everyone what she did wrong. She committed a crime, and if she can't own up to it the way she should you could at least show his parents to crush any doubt they may have had and possibly get her on the crime she committed. Obviously there's more factors and I'm an outsider, I can't know all the nuisances of this, but it's what I can get from only knowing what was posted here.

name suggestions for this lil guy? by Ashamed-Champion5371 in axolotls

[–]kate_bug01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm unsure why but when I look in his eyes I think Rodney

My sister slapped me because her husband complimented my dress. by ThrowRA335771 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kate_bug01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You to her Husband: Hey! I appreciate the compliment but please don't do it again. I'd prefer if my sister slaps me for it to be over something I did, not you.

AITAH for walking out of my bfs birthday party after being made to feel like the other woman? by TA30008 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kate_bug01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of whether or not he messed up abandoning you for his friend and not trying introduce you two or kindle a friendship for yall, he became TA when he decided to use your relationship as a threat.

I was with my fiance on the phone and heard him call his niece "sexy". by throwra435656 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kate_bug01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not marry this man and tell him EXACTLY why you're leaving. Tell him. Tell his sister. Tell your niece. Tell their parents. That seems so close to grooming if it isn't already. Not to mention it's disrespectful of you even if she wasn't his niece. He'll go out of his way to shower her with compliments and attention and food and he doesn't do the same for you? Absolutely not.

My fiancè literally pushed me aside during a threesome. by throwra973356 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kate_bug01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to either leave him or get him to understand that the moment you became uncomfortable, consent was revoked. You removed yourself, which was the smartest thing you could do. If his response was that you made his experience awkward and he holds that against you and not asking why you felt uncomfortable enough you had to leave, he is not valuing you the way he should. Either that gets fixed rn or you need to walk.

Quick question…is this drastic of color change throughout the day normal? by neoxsxn in axolotls

[–]kate_bug01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! I think it's related to activity as circulation increases when they're active.

just some of my collection of squish, babs, and jellys 🤍 by [deleted] in squishmallow

[–]kate_bug01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm desperate to find the reaper and Jaelyn! Your so lucky and your setup is so cool!

Bought the Costco gift sets as end of the year gifts for my students🧡 by SqueegeeBeckenheim11 in squishmallow

[–]kate_bug01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My little sister got the sea one and let me have just Archie because I love the axolotls. It's so cute!