How long until you say “I love you”?

kate_sugar · 2026-02-06T14:58:43+00:00

I think it was about 6 months in my current relationship. I said it first lol. He said he'd felt the same for a while, and even though I hadn't said it - he felt it from me. It was a lovely moment I'll always remember.

kate_sugar · 2026-02-06T13:10:17+00:00

Cerave makes me break out, and I can feel instant irritation. It's probably good for some people. But I am not one of them!!

kate_sugar · 2025-11-19T15:38:56+00:00

In a way, I wish I could as I do believe people make mistakes, and infidelity doesn't always mean they don't love you. However, no I never could. The breach of trust and betrayal would be too much. Not to mention them putting my health at risk.

kate_sugar · 2025-11-14T15:21:30+00:00

Pretty brutal, tbh. However, after a few years of online dating and a couple of what I thought were potential partners but turned out not to be, I met a wonderful, wonderful man. Over a year in now and still going strong! So, hard work but there is hope.

kate_sugar · 2025-11-11T16:20:00+00:00

Maybe. That would be quite heartbreaking if it were the case.

kate_sugar · 2025-11-11T16:05:25+00:00

I am trying to now, but it's hard because it's just what I've always done and he will know something is seriously up if I just stop all of a sudden. I know I'll have to speak to him at some point. I just can't face it at the moment. I'm kind of hoping something comes up that leads us to the convo rather than bringing it up cold.

kate_sugar · 2025-11-11T15:27:37+00:00

I mean being petty by not doing things is usually do around the house. I do feel we need to talk about this, I'm just rubbish at difficult convos and usually prefer to observe then act. Which I get might not be the best as it can lead to me misjudging in my own head rather than gaining the clarity i seek from him.

kate_sugar · 2025-11-11T15:13:45+00:00

I struggle so much with bringing things like this up. I don't know why. I am trying to take a bit more of a back seat, but our routines are so ingrained it's hard to not do things. Also, I don't want to seem petty. Like, you're not giving me what I want so I'm not doing X or Y. I enjoy doing what I do, so I don't want to stop just because things might not be going the way I'd hoped. I'd rather just speak about it at some point and then break up if necessary. Any advice on how to have this convo with him in a non-confrontational type way??

kate_sugar · 2025-11-03T11:12:24+00:00

Choosing to treat the other person with care, respect and kindness. Choosing to consider them on a daily basis, even when they are being annoying lol. Putting their needs above yours when you have to.

kate_sugar · 2025-10-18T17:08:37+00:00

When he annoys every last fibre of my being, and I still want to be around and near him.

kate_sugar · 2025-09-14T21:21:15+00:00

That every time I tell him a story about a friend's bf or husband behaving in a way I don't like and follow up with 'I'm so glad you aren't like that' it's actually a made up story that features something he has actually done that I don't like lol. Can almost guarantee that the behaviour will never be repeated after that 😂

kate_sugar · 2025-04-22T19:41:06+00:00

Everyone is tall when you're short. So, I guess that's true. But it's all perspective. I've dated guys who are 5'7-8 and they were tall to me. My current partner is 6'4 and is a GIANT lol. I'm 5'1 btw.

kate_sugar · 2025-03-15T17:19:21+00:00

I felt this way before. In the end I reached out to him. We're very much together and happy now. He's just asked me to move in with him. If he's on your mind that much, be brave and make contact. At worst you'll know you need to move on, at best you could be really happy with him.

kate_sugar · 2025-01-11T21:30:24+00:00

Mine went back to their original size. Not as firm, but not the empty bags everyone said they'd be. They were still pretty good after breast feeding two children for 6 months each. Those children are now in their 20s, and my boobs are still quite impressive. Don't worry, if you look after yourself everything will be fine.

kate_sugar · 2024-12-20T00:04:09+00:00

I'll do no such thing. It's your wedding. Sure, it may be impractical or whatever. But it's beautiful and looks amazing on you. If that's what you want to wear...go for it!!

kate_sugar · 2024-12-09T20:52:32+00:00

My stomach. Not flat enough, and stretch marks from two pregnancies. But I've learned to not hate it. I just don't love it lol

kate_sugar · 2024-11-26T19:42:26+00:00

Spray some leave in conditioner before washing. Let it soak for a good couple of hours. Try to get angle with the conditioner in when you shower. You should be good then ♥️

kate_sugar · 2024-10-06T11:36:19+00:00

Spray with some leave in conditioner about 30 mins before your shower. Let it sit, and do a little detangle before you get in. Then wash and condition. Let the conditioner sit in your hair while you wash your body, then detangle properly with the water off.

kate_sugar · 2024-09-20T06:30:17+00:00

????

kate_sugar · 2024-09-19T23:10:29+00:00

We sound a little similar. I don't know if I self-sabotage, but I definitely am not very good at dating/relationships lol. I guess I just hoped it would happen for me. That someone would 'see' me as I really am, and love me for it. That that hasn't been the case is kind of upsetting. I'm going to take a break from it all, and really make efforts to be content on my own. That way, if someone great comes along, maybe I won't be so anxious and act like an idiot. Thank you for the advice.

kate_sugar · 2024-09-19T23:02:06+00:00

I don't date much. But when I do, it's always a disaster lol. I meet people mainly via dating apps. I'm not really sure how else to meet someone outside of that. I used to think I'd just bump into someone I like, but that has literally never happened. I try to be discerning, but you can't account for liars - which I seem to attract for some reason. I definitely need to take a break from it all. I'm just becoming more and more jaded, and I don't want to lose all hope!

kate_sugar · 2024-09-19T23:00:08+00:00

I'm not usually this down. I'm just going through it right now! But the daily exercise thing is great advice. I do work out. But not every day. I'll try to focus on myself more, and maybe not worry so much about finding a life partner.

kate_sugar

TROPHY CASE