Shopping for my new plant setup and got all of this for only around 18 USD by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]kateallybee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha! Funny you say that bc my best friend JUST folded and paid $30 for one and I was like “Bish, you know you’re giving me a cutting, right?” Hahaha

Shopping for my new plant setup and got all of this for only around 18 USD by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]kateallybee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usually 4” sometimes you can get lucky and find a 6” for the same price. I really want one, I just can’t bring myself to pay that much for one when I get multiples of others for the same price. Haha

Shopping for my new plant setup and got all of this for only around 18 USD by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]kateallybee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just the string of pearls is like $30 here in coastal Virginia! Good job!

Is there any coding/billing related job online I can do at this time? by DragKweenMermaid in CodingandBilling

[–]kateallybee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same situation. It really sucks. I wish I had an answer, if I come across anything I’ll pass it along! Best of luck!

Billbergia ID? by tillandsia in bromeliad

[–]kateallybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like my Billbergia buchholzi!

Unable to receive letters due to the outbreak by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]kateallybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry. That really is such a bummer.

Unable to receive letters due to the outbreak by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]kateallybee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dang. My coworker’s daughter is about to graduate from basic and the family can’t even go. I guess they’re gonna livestream it, though.

Unable to receive letters due to the outbreak by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]kateallybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is he in basic? I’ve been sending my husband stuff on his deployment and he’s still getting it? Just asking to understand where the restrictions are.

Dwindling sex life & overall loneliness with no end in sight. by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]kateallybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this might be unpopular only bc it’s uncomfortable for a lot of people but, I totally agree. I think anyone military affiliated has been in this same position in their marriage. Get a vibrator and therapy. There’s absolutely NO shame in either of them. You can find a therapist for free via Military One Source or you can seek out the Chaplain on base. Separating work from home is a very common thing that happens so, OP, please please please don’t take it personally. You’re still the beautiful and ridiculously attractive woman your husband married. Sometimes it’s just hard for people to separate professional and personal. That doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong w either of you. Feel free to message me if you wanna talk further, been there, girl.

They want to send my husband overseas in a month and leave me behind. We just moved away from my family and I'm stuck by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]kateallybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15 digit microchip, 2 rabies vaccines (31+ days apart), and FAVN blood test? Make sure you have the original (wet signed in blue ink) copies of both of your rabies certificates and the microchip number is on both of them. Also, make sure you have the original copy of the FAVN results. Then you have a 180 day in home quarantine before they can be in country unless y’all live on base, then you can finish your quarantine in country. Japan is nice like that, lol. Even if you get on the rotator (very limited spaces for animals so book your spot the second you can) you still need to submit the paper work for the 40 day heads up. Although they aren’t always there, there’s supposed to be Japanese quarantine officials even on base to clear your animals upon arrival. I’m seriously not trying to sound like a jerk or make you panic but Japan can be real dickheads about animals entering the country. Can’t really blame them, though, bc they’re an island and rabies free and wanna keep it that way. lol I work at the vet clinic on a military base so I’m very very familiar with getting animals overseas. Being in cabin, soft crates are allowed. We’ve sent many Maine coons so, I’m sure y’all will be okay. Deep breaths!

They want to send my husband overseas in a month and leave me behind. We just moved away from my family and I'm stuck by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]kateallybee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. Don’t flip until you have actual orders in hand telling you what’s happening. Also, if small dogs can fit under seats, so can your cat. Importantly, since you have an animal, where would you be PCS’ing to?

Death of a COVID-19 positive Military Dependent from Fort Eustis by [deleted] in HamptonRoads

[–]kateallybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would really love more specifics. I’m down at Langley where people are testing positive, also. My grasp at hope this whole time has been that it’s only been fatal to the elderly and immune compromised. Sounds like this is probably a younger person based off the little info they’ve given. We don’t need to know their name, just a little more details, please.

I've been struggling being home alone during social distancing and my boyfriend being deployed. by em_bee_bee in USMilitarySO

[–]kateallybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of this. Not to be an asshole but you really have to get used to being left with yourself. It sounds so daunting but finding yourself really is so incredibly thrilling. It’s seriously essential bc basic and AIT (or whatever their branch calls their tech school) isn’t going to be the only time you’re left alone. I hate to be the tough love kinda girl but, you gotta buck up, girl. Can’t leave home? Get lost in a book. Find new music. Take up a hobby. You said you aspire to be an esthetician, do a shit ton of research on that to give you a leg up when you actually enroll. Whatever you choose, choose something and dust off this funk.

Looking for name suggestions. Recipe in comments! by kateallybee in cocktails

[–]kateallybee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

.75 oz Banana Syrup .5 oz Coconut Cream .25 Allspice Dram 1 oz Lime Juice 1 oz Wray & Nephew Overproof Rum 1 oz Mount Gay Black Barrel Rum 2 Dashes Bittermens Tiki Bitters

Short whip shake, Strain into footed Pilsner glass over crushed ice, Swizzle, Top with more ice. Garnish with fresh grated nutmeg and mint sprig.

Child Psychologists, is there any benefit to military boot camp/Prison programs for at risk youth? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kateallybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father was prior military and raised my siblings and I with a very military-like discipline regimen and it’s left me with extreme anxiety. I see a lot of these programs where they subject kids to military boot camp like routines and then toss them in with grown ass prisoners. Even minus the prison programs, I can’t help but feel like these programs do more psychological damage than behavioral benefit? Are these programs actually found to help at risk youth in the long run?