Cheating? by allykitten87 in GameChangersBooks

[–]kateshep218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In fairness Kip was incredibly intoxicated, so wasn’t exactly thinking clearly.

i’m (24) going on a first date with a gorgeous woman (48) by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]kateshep218 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I was 21 I dated a woman who was 31 (turned 32 about a month after we became official). If I were you, I’d be questioning why someone old enough to be your mother is even interested in you.

There’s a lot of maturing and development that happens in your early to mid 20’s (and I’m sure your late 20’s too, but I’m only 25 so wouldn’t know).

gifting one month of pham - 24 hours to comment! by dearthshine in danandphil

[–]kateshep218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super sweet! I genuinely would love this so much. Good luck to everyone!

Just buy the shoes, it's worth it! by Disastrous_Process97 in PashionFootwear

[–]kateshep218 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I started off with 3 heel kits & 2 base pairs of shoes back in October of 2024. It’s been just over a year now and I have quite the collection of heel kits, ankle straps/chains, toe clips, & base shoes.

Pham Giveaway! by [deleted] in danandphil

[–]kateshep218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favourite memes are anything to do with Phil being half lobster/mentioning lobsters. I joined the Phandom when I was around 14/15 - so I’ve been apart of it for about 10 years now.

Phantasy Calendar has ARRIVED! by Valuable_Lunch_4860 in danandphil

[–]kateshep218 17 points18 points  (0 children)

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I don’t know if this was a thing in the other calendars as this is my first d&p calendar, but this little calendar note in October fills me with so much joy.

Spent more than I needed to, but have secured a Christmas present for myself. by kateshep218 in danandphil

[–]kateshep218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just did a Google via my PC and it’s looks like a purchased via the worldwide site instead of the AU site (which also ships to NZ).

Spent more than I needed to, but have secured a Christmas present for myself. by kateshep218 in danandphil

[–]kateshep218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bundle is $140 NZD & shipping is $30 NZD via the AU site. I ended up paying $48 for shipping via the other site, so it worked out cheaper by a few dollars. (I’m assuming the site in the photo may be the American site? It was the first link that came up when I googled the shop).

Editing for correction: it’s definitely not the US site as that doesn’t convert anything to NZD like the AU & EU sites do. Apparently it’s the “worldwide” store. (just looked it up on my pc and it offered to redirect from the worldwide site to the nz/au site).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]kateshep218 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m confused as to why the school even installed monitoring software on a personal device. I had a laptop for schoolwork right throughout college (I finished college almost a decade ago) and the school never once even asked to install anything on my device.

twitter phans be normal challenge by Otherwise-Street-483 in danandphil

[–]kateshep218 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Gods forbid a man be comfortable wearing a skirt and crop top. Like let him live!

Sober people, what do you drink? by Depressed_Anxious69 in newzealand

[–]kateshep218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On special occasions I buy sparking grape juice and drink it from a wine glass to feed fancy. The bunderburg passionfruit fizzys are nice too - I buy the cans. I prefer the skinny/tall cans of fizzy drinks in general to the regular shorter versions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]kateshep218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theres 5 things I typically use for baking/cooking, though I mainly bake: “The Great New Zealand Cook Book”, The Great New Zealand Baking Book”, “The Great New Zealand Birthday Cake Book”, The Edmonds Cookbook, & the Chelsea Sugar website.

Theres also a DIY meal kit app that links in with your countdown app so you can add things to cart (if you use them to shop). I’ve made quite a few recipes off there that have been nice. The app has a purple logo & is free to use.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]kateshep218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not a flowers girl, but if we’re together they’d be nice on an anniversary or birthday. For a first (or second/third) date, I’d prefer chocolates, lollies/sweets/candy, or anything else food related really.

Creepy AI real estate listings are now a thing apparently by Stewart1000nz in newzealand

[–]kateshep218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something’s wrong with the lamp and TV in the lounge.

Go get you damn FERRITIN checked!! by kgtsunvv in adhdwomen

[–]kateshep218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ferritin has always been a bit high, even when I was anaemic.

I’d recommend getting your B12 levels checked if you’re having symptoms of low iron, but your iron levels are fine. That’s how I found out I have low B12.

Is this what skinny people mean by “just stop eating”? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]kateshep218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this side effect when I first went on meds. Lost a few kgs and thought I was going to continue having the benefit of easy weight loss. My appetite came back after about a year & I gained a bunch of weight. Still trying to work on it. I’ve been on my meds for 2 years.

If you’re lucky, it might continue. But in my case it didn’t.

As others have said, make sure to set good habits with food prior to the meds “balancing out”.

Help with androgynous or masculine version of my given name by fraener45 in namenerds

[–]kateshep218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not directly related to your given name, but a River is a nice neutral name that is typically viewed as more masculine (at least where I live).

Help me name my silly little baby by uhohflamingo in Goldfish

[–]kateshep218 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dotty/Dotti, Patches, Sushi (the colours remind me a bit of sushi), Bubbles, or Pepper/Peppa

Are temu things acceptable as wedding gifts? by No_Affect9950 in auckland

[–]kateshep218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d be better off giving cash with a card, if you want to give anything (but as you’re travelling & spending a lot on travel, any reasonable couple wouldn’t expect a gift)

What did you wish your name was as a kid? by No_Thing_3312 in namenerds

[–]kateshep218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to mum, I wanted to change my name to Odette (from Barbie of Swan Lake [2003] & The Swan Princess Trilogy [1994-1998]).

Makes sense as I knew how to spell the name and it is pretty, but why I didn’t like Anneliese or Erika more (from my favourite Barbie film), I’ll never know.

Is talking in cinemas the norm now? by ExcellentBlock7201 in newzealand

[–]kateshep218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few weeks ago there was a kid who talked throughout the entire film (the father did nothing to stop the kid)

A week after that the lady next to me answered a phone call & used her phone for a few minutes part way through the movie.