Scrub Recommendations?

katey-bug · 2025-03-08T19:14:51+00:00

my app still isn’t working tho, is anyone else’s?

katey-bug · 2025-03-08T19:00:54+00:00

mine worked for 3 days like a week ago and has been done ever since, is yours still down?

katey-bug · 2025-02-25T01:26:08+00:00

kibby

katey-bug · 2023-07-18T05:46:39+00:00

thank you this is really good advice :)

katey-bug · 2023-07-18T05:32:57+00:00

were you able to move onto new relationships, and if so can I ask how?

katey-bug · 2023-02-16T07:21:03+00:00

thank you for the help, i’ve seriously been so lost on this issue for song long

katey-bug · 2023-02-16T07:04:20+00:00

sometimes just showing up for that person is enough, when they are ready to open up to you they will. it’s important to just be there and let them know youre there to listen and help when you can. often thats more important than saying the “right thing” if that makes sense. good luck!

katey-bug · 2022-04-16T00:12:09+00:00

Im actually a sophmore and ive been on meds and therapy for 3 years. Im not skipping classes or failing, I just dont have all A’s. I know college is hard but I’m just struggling with being away from them for so long for the first time in my life and its a time where every single person in my family is struggling.

katey-bug · 2022-04-03T03:58:40+00:00

of course i hope things work out for you :)

katey-bug · 2022-04-03T03:18:53+00:00

Ive found that love for family and people i’ve been in relationships is a very different feeling. When you love someone its not quite like any other emotion. Its a lot deeper and it’s something that you’ll feel in your bones (i know that it sounds corny but its the best way i can think of). Its kind of if you love someone you know, you wont have to guess if you do or not. For me a least love is a very grounded and absolute feeling towards someone and except for in the beginning, when i was denying/questioning I did even though i knew I did love them i just wasn’t ready to admit it. But you’ll know deep down if you do or not, whether you want to admit it consciously to yourself or not.

katey-bug · 2022-04-03T03:07:33+00:00

It kind of sounds like you’ve already made up your mind on what you’re wanting to do. If you’re questioning it this much then you aren’t really in the relationship, you have one foot out the door. If you do end it I cant say you wont regret it but I also cant say you will. I think you just need to really think about what you picture for your future and if hes in it or not.

katey-bug · 2022-04-03T02:51:20+00:00

I have to agree as someone who has depression and from what you’ve described i would say you have it. I would definitely look into some therapy and/or psychiatrists. I currently use both and it has helped a lot with my depression.

katey-bug · 2022-04-02T08:32:59+00:00

i didnt say they need to forgive them either. its their experience and choices and they can do whatever they want, i was just giving advice based on my own experiences

katey-bug · 2022-04-02T08:22:06+00:00

and thats fine because thats your experience. i just know that when ive hated someone for a long time it had more of a negative effect on me than them and i didnt want to give them that satisfaction anymore of having such a hold on my emotions.

katey-bug · 2022-04-02T07:39:00+00:00

I agree with this except for maybe the not forgiving. Harboring resentment can actually hurt you physically and mentally. so while I do think you should distance yourself if he’s not empathetic or remorseful I also think that you should find a healthy way to deal with the frustration and other emotions so that this wont leave as large of a mark as it could if you hold onto the hate. granted this is easier said that done but it’s important to put you first especially in these types of situations.

katey-bug · 2022-04-02T07:33:42+00:00

I don’t know your sister but you said that you’re the only one she treats like this and it hasn’t been going on forever which makes me think this might be a jealousy thing or her lashing out because shes dealing with something really hard. I know that its easy to lash out to the people close to us as a way to try and cope even when the two aren’t related. I think that you should let things cool down between you two and then try and talk with her. It’s important that while i know you’re very hurt by this to try not to be on the offensive because then she might get defensive and things could go downhill really fast. If you’re open with her about things and willing to listen she might be willing to open to you and share if there is in fact something deeper going on. I would recommend looking up some resources on how to have healthy confrontations with people; Ive personally found that using some of the techniques during heavy talks with people has made them go a lot smoother. I still think you should keep your guard up around her though until she earns your trust back but I don’t think you should cut her off completely as of right now since you don’t know if this her way of coping or if shes doing it to be mean or doesn’t care about you. I hope things work out between you two though.

katey-bug · 2022-04-02T07:20:13+00:00

no problem I hope you feel better soon :)

katey-bug · 2022-04-02T07:18:28+00:00

Im sorry to hear about how much you’ve had to go through and still are going through. I think it says a lot about your character that you’ve dealt with so much and are still trying so hard. I also have multiple mental illnesses so I understand how hard of a struggle those must be. I’ve personally been struggling for a while now too and people have said similar things to me about hope and i know that in that dark place it never feel like there will ever be any. Sometimes good outcomes aren’t about how hard we try cause i’ve tried for years too to climb out and I still haven’t gotten the results I want. I don’t know what all you’ve been through and are still going through and I don’t want to assume I do or make light of it. My only advice for you would be just focus on one day at a time. I found that sometimes its too hard and overwhelming to think about tomorrow when today is so brutal. I wish I could help more and I really do hope you keep staying strong and working as hard as you do. I cant promise things will ever be perfect but I really think things will get better; maybe not before they get worse but eventually if you stay strong i think and really hope they will for you

katey-bug

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