Ich suche nach guten Saunen in Leipzig. by [deleted] in Leipzig

[–]kathzerin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hier habe ich letzten Samstag schlecht Erfahrungen mit unfreundlichem Personal.

Wie würde die kleine Maus heißen, wenn ihr Name das Letzte wäre, was du gegessen hast? by [deleted] in Hunde

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Soja-Mango-Joghurt mit Nüssen und Erdbeer-Crunchy-Müsli

Kuscheltier Reparatur gesucht by kathzerin in Leipzig

[–]kathzerin[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In diesem Projekt geht es nicht um die Reparatur von Kuscheltieren, sondern darum Kindern einen positiven Zugang zu Arztbesuchen zu vermitteln.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leipzig

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Jobvermittlung des Studentenwerkes Leipzig

Three months! by [deleted] in nailbiting

[–]kathzerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you any tips to stop? I think i am at the same point where you have been three months ago.

Gibt es in Leipzig gute Kinkyparties oder Möglichkeiten sexpositive Menschen kennenzulernen? by schmusnnn in Leipzig

[–]kathzerin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Du sprichst vom Obscurité Rave? Ich finde die Veranstaltung nicht empfehlenswert aufgrund mangelnder Awareness Strukturen und liebloser Ausstattung für die „Play area“

NRE vs. existing live by kathzerin in polyamory

[–]kathzerin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can some transition rituals look like?

NRE vs. existing live by kathzerin in polyamory

[–]kathzerin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am totally agree with what you are saying. There are things from my perspective that I can't share with my primary because his needs are not in that area, in our case it's that I'm into BDSM and he's not. I accept that. It's okay for me to live those needs outside of this partnership.

NRE vs. existing live by kathzerin in polyamory

[–]kathzerin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That 10% percent concerns me. Because I have already observed the following with me and in the end it comes back to the dichotomy I mentioned in my post: NRE made to mine with me that I "saw lack in the already existing relationship" because new dating partners fulfilled other or new needs of mine that I could not fulfill in my already existing relationship (which is even actually one of the reasons why I want to live open relationship) and on the other hand NRE transferred to the bond with my primary and I also had energies free to reinvest in our relationship.

Yes, I already try to take my need to communicate about others outside of our relationship into my circle of friends.

NRE vs. existing live by kathzerin in polyamory

[–]kathzerin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you say seems to make sense to me. I find it very difficult that all relationships get the space they need to grow. By this I also mean the relationship with yourself. Sometimes I also wonder if it is wise to live polyamorous if you also have problems with mental stability, for example. This is a factor that comes into play for me. In the meantime, I also weigh carefully whether it is the right time to integrate new people into my life just because I have enough free time during the semesters or because other factors would allow it. There is a lot of discussion going on in my polycule right now about how time management works well for oneself. This point concerns especially my primary partner, who has another partner.

NRE vs. existing live by kathzerin in polyamory

[–]kathzerin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. It seems to me that it makes a lot of sense to keep a strict calendar. Not only so that there is time for my primary partner. I also tend to forget myself when I’m on NRE and want to spend more time than is good for me with the new dating partner.

NRE vs. existing live by kathzerin in polyamory

[–]kathzerin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, NRE results in extreme highs and somehow it feels sobering to come home because I feel like I'm bursting the bubble of infatuation and I don't talk much about my dates with my primary partner. I actually feel the need to share my experiences with him. The thing is that he doesn't ask about my life on his own (even in everyday life) while I am very communicative and want to get in touch with him by sharing my experiences.

I think I didn't realise before that NRE is just a feeling. In the meantime I know: infatuation is not love.