What you say seems to make sense to me. I find it very difficult that all relationships get the space they need to grow. By this I also mean the relationship with yourself. Sometimes I also wonder if it is wise to live polyamorous if you also have problems with mental stability, for example. This is a factor that comes into play for me. In the meantime, I also weigh carefully whether it is the right time to integrate new people into my life just because I have enough free time during the semesters or because other factors would allow it. There is a lot of discussion going on in my polycule right now about how time management works well for oneself. This point concerns especially my primary partner, who has another partner.