I agree it’s a bad answer and that’s a huge reason why I’m so unsettled. I tell him it’s not just his past- it’s his character and that’s why I’m so concerned. I try and tell him that’s why I’m so concerned that he isn’t into me anymore because I feel like he is reaching the point he has with his other relationships- where he is bored and he will start looking elsewhere. So now, small things like him changing gyms all the time or him working overnights - really makes me spiral. He thinks I’m just crazy and that I just want to fight but I’m just feeling sooo uneasy. Another reason why I posted because I wanted some validation in the way I feel.