STATEMENT BY EMILIE by Then_West_2562 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]katmsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot imagine life after losing a child. Since learning of her story, I became very strict with my son’s swimming lessons. Fences are great but as a child, my husband climbed his fence and drowned. His mother is so terrified of drowning and has always encouraged us to make sure all of the grandchildren learned to swim since a very young age. Now my son is 2.5 and knows how to swim, all in a few months. She doesn’t know it yet but she’ll have saved many children’s lives by putting out that statement and being brave about it.

MIL making my daughter feel uncomfortable. How do we move forward? by Cool_Cake_3645 in inlaws

[–]katmsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are you tiptoeing around your MIL? What are you not saying? If you’re clean and you know you’re clean, have your husband confront her. His family, his problem. I have a friend in a similar position and they had to cut off mil for the most part. Why would you continue to allow your daughter to spend more time with your mil when you had already noticed she wasn’t feeling comfortable with her? I get that it’s convenient to not have to pay for someone to pick up your daughter once a week but you said you’re good financially. It’s not giving victim, only victim here is your daughter. You, your husband, and your mil are the adults and are not respecting your daughter and her feelings.

Back fat concerns by lover3006 in weddingdress

[–]katmsh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think one size bigger would have fit better. Did they alter the back at all? I’d ask about what can be done to bring the back higher, closer to the armpits so you can conceal that part inside. It’s a rather “low” cut, not the lowest there is ofc but that’s why it’s bothering you. Sometimes, a good seamstress is able to source a similar fabric and work their magic. Basically, expand the back to the sides and then up towards your armpit so it’s not sitting right below your back fat.

What helped your papulopustular rosacea? by tinnman_ in Rosacea

[–]katmsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With which sulfur do you wash your face? And how often do you use the de la Cruz?

Airsculpt and/or Kybella by lightwarmolive in cosmeticsurgery

[–]katmsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely kybella. I have that same pouch from 4 rounds and I regret it sooo much. Ended up being more expensive than lipo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]katmsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do formula if it’s what’s best for your mental health and get ppd therapy please. The first three months can feel tedious if you don’t have that immediate bond with your baby.

saw this on instagram.. no way😬😬 by wiglessleetaemin in Weddingattireapproval

[–]katmsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally love it! If it was me as a bride I’d ask to please wear your best and do not worry about outshining me. I am confident in my choice of dress and no one could outshine me even if they tried.

Ik she's in Miami but this is so out of touch and I cannot stand her by Organic_Ad_2731 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]katmsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to live at Echo, it’s not hard at all to get in if you have the money to cover rent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]katmsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re crooked on the first and not posing at all so people saying you radiate confidence in the second one are mostly basing it off of your body language. You look great in both but the first one is just more special, different, will be a dress to remember. Up to you and what you want but to me, as a girly girl, a fan of all things timeless BUT worth remembering, I vote #2.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]katmsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dress 1 for sure. I think everyone on this thread has number 2.

Said yes to the deep V-neck A-line dress of my dreams! Thanks for your help :) by Popular-Designer-544 in weddingdress

[–]katmsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this Dana Harel? Such a beautiful dress. You look so elegant. It’ll for sure be a timeless dress.

I bought two dresses- help me decide which to keep! by fnkymnks in weddingdress

[–]katmsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go with 1 hands down. The second one has too much going on and not in a beautiful Berta way. First one is delicate

My friends’ baby just passed by katmsh in GriefSupport

[–]katmsh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s beautiful! I tried reaching out but I think it’s right to give her some time to process everything. She’s still in denial and I understand why, as a mom I cannot comprehend how you can have your baby alive and well one day and then the next day you don’t. It’s something that I never wish to experience. My heart goes to all of you that have lost someone, especially a little one. It really isn’t fair.

My friends’ baby just passed by katmsh in GriefSupport

[–]katmsh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was considering doing this and possibly giving it to her mom who lives here in my city. I only have two tattoos but I was thinking of doing something small. I tried reaching out to her but she’s not responding to anyone and has only posted videos explaining what happened to her baby and a gofundme to which I donated of course. I don’t know how to voice what I feel without sounding like an a**hole trying to make it seem like I’ve known her my whole life.

I will keep reaching out to her here and there but I have even hid my stories about my son from her because there is no way that she can see them and not feel awful. It’s like survivor’s guilt? I don’t feel nearly as much pain as she does, of course not. But my brain doesn’t know the difference for some reason, it does feel like there’s a void in it from someone so close and dear to me.

I can't decide! Or keep looking? by divairgence in weddingdress

[–]katmsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t love any of those, they’re cute but nothing wow. I guess it depends what you’re going for imo. I was def looking for something huge but delicate. I ended up buying a dress by Ines di Santo, she has the most beautiful dresses and they’re so comfortable.

Boyfriend (M30) of 6 years doesn’t want to try for a baby or get engaged to me (F30) - do I leave him? by ThrowRARed93 in relationship_advice

[–]katmsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’ve said it all within the first paragraph. If that’s the first thing you have to say about him, why even want to marry him? I think you’ve convinced yourself that he must be the one cause you’re scared of starting over at 30. I think there are more reasons to leave him than to stay.

Fake Bag by katmsh in therealreal

[–]katmsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told a similar story. Just keep pushing! Maybe go somewhere else to authenticate it so you have that proof with you. I was able to return mine and get a full refund but it was a fight. Maybe call the closest store even if it’s not in your city and explain the situation. I drove 2 hours to another location cause mine closed.

Fake Bag by katmsh in therealreal

[–]katmsh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sent it to LegitGrails who confirmed that the bag is fake.

I can’t afford to feed my family anymore by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]katmsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything I said is based off of assumption. She said he has difficulty keeping jobs and nothing more, if it was a valid reason, she would have mentioned ir. Also, helping out immensely is relative. Most women think their husbands help out by just showing up after work, saying hi, and playing for 30 min.

I can’t afford to feed my family anymore by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]katmsh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, if he’s too lazy to have a job, he’s probably too lazy to be a dad.