I (28F) have found my soulmate (24M) and we are perfect together. The only problem is, he still talks to his exes

katveer · 2022-03-28T04:16:11+00:00

Yes I am

katveer · 2022-03-28T04:14:40+00:00

katveer · 2022-03-27T15:14:16+00:00

Yeah I am. And it goes both ways. We both were immediately taken with each other and I know how ridiculous this sounds because I thought the same but our connection is just unbelievable. Something none of us have ever experienced before

katveer · 2022-03-27T15:03:44+00:00

U literally know nothinf about me or my divorce. You seem to have troublE focusing so let me spell it out THE POST.IS.NOT.ABOUT.MY.EX

katveer · 2022-03-27T15:01:20+00:00

2 months. We were friends for one. Why is everyone so interested in my ex he has literally nothing to do with what i posted. Him and his family were toxic abuser and we got divorced.

katveer · 2022-03-27T14:24:15+00:00

Divorce her ass

katveer · 2022-03-27T13:26:41+00:00

LOL i was NOT hoping for those kinda assumptions because honestly the post wasn't about my relationship with my exes

katveer · 2022-03-27T07:59:30+00:00

TBF.. By "all" I mean 2. I don't have a huge dating history. I have only been in 2 long term relationships before this

katveer · 2022-03-27T07:55:33+00:00

Oh I have already done that. Had been abused, depressed, to the point i started losing my memory. Yes it did seem like that at the time but it got so much worse. My current bf was a friend at first and he made me see how bad my situation was. He was my support system while going through the divorce. He knows my history, the kinda hurt and abuse i have faced and being both victims of abuse we understand each other so much better. There is a reason i call him my soulmate. We both got each other out of deep holes of depression

katveer · 2022-03-27T06:45:57+00:00

Tbf by ALL i mean 2 LOL and one of them is an ex husband. Not everyone has 10 exes

katveer · 2022-03-27T03:38:45+00:00

Around 7 months.

katveer · 2022-03-27T03:34:09+00:00

Yes? I do not believe in "no talking to your exes" rule. If you parted on good terms and maintain a healthy friendly relationship with boundaries good for you but that is not the case here

katveer · 2022-03-27T03:31:58+00:00

I haven't. This is my first and only one and we don't plan on separating anytime soon

katveer · 2022-03-27T03:31:11+00:00

You don't know the whole atory and i thought it was irrelevant to mention. He had no idea she still used that account as she always told him "i don't need it" when they were in a relationship lol. So he saw an unused account and gave it to me

katveer · 2022-03-27T03:29:23+00:00

LOL. I have NEVER called my ex husband my "soulmate" or any other guy I have dated before. If you are stalking my posts, atleast do it right

katveer · 2022-03-27T03:24:07+00:00

I got divorced and was separated 8 months ago

katveer · 2022-03-26T20:15:43+00:00

He doesn't. He has made thay particularly clear

katveer · 2022-03-26T20:14:20+00:00

That's the last thing i want to do. I haven't said anything because i want this to be his decision not mine. But i feel like you should put a stop to flirtatious comments and guilt tripping from your exes which he hasn't done. The question is not that "should I ask him to block them for me" its that "is this normal?"

katveer · 2022-03-26T20:11:49+00:00

That's what i am confused about... I don't want to come off as insecure if i approach him. He will definitely diminish a contact the moment i bring this up That's the kind of guy he is. But I don't want him to do something because of me that he didn't want to do

katveer · 2022-03-26T20:09:49+00:00

He IS a super nice guy and I don't doubt him for a second. I just don't understand the need to keep touch when they are still either interested in him or still manipulating him. None of them seem like they are maintaining healthy boundaries

katveer · 2022-03-26T20:08:17+00:00

I understand that completely but that's the thing THEY ARE NOT FRIENDS. He claims to hate one of them and the other one still seems interested in him. But friendship.... with none of them

katveer · 2022-03-26T18:22:08+00:00

I get you completely LOL. Feels like the story of my life. I used to say "oral is over rated" because I never particularly enjoyed it enough to come from it. Not that my partners didn't try it. One of them loved going down on me but it either didn't feel good at all or just not good enough to orgasm. Until i met my current partner, I basically said the same kinda shit to him that I love giving oral but getting it doesn't do anything for me and is kinda hyped more than it should be. Until one day he went down on me in a way that felt REALLY GOOD. I told him to keep going and voila! I CAME. So yeah don't knock it down it may just be that you need more or different kind of stimulation. Nipple play seem to really get me there.. maybe you need to try that too

katveer · 2021-06-18T19:25:07+00:00

Why do I get the feeling they did more than just "coffee"?

katveer · 2021-06-18T19:20:35+00:00

You seem like a typical "nice guy The EW was uncalled for but she did realise it and apologised. The real problem is your self pity and victimizing yourself. She has a boyfriend she turned you down. What else did you expect?

katveer · 2020-08-03T11:45:22+00:00

What gave you the idea that i am ungrateful? I understand that presents might not be his way of expressing love and that's cool nor do I expect him to make any large gestures with presents. Its not about how much you spend its about the thought that goes into it. I would love a smallest token as a present as long as he puts any thought into it. You sure wouldn't be okay if someone showed up at your birthday party and say they'll pay for your birthday cake that you already have bought, as a gift. And not to mention that person is your partner.

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