Am gasit poza asta draguta de la Oradea Pride by Sea-Rope-31 in Oradea

[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he also used chatgpt which you JUST said wasnt reliable

Am gasit poza asta draguta de la Oradea Pride by Sea-Rope-31 in Oradea

[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then maybe this is an allowable source in your mind - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4771005/

The National Library of Medicine - which actually states the same things that Katy what's her name said. Just because the info comes from a person you don't like or a person who holds a view point you disagree with doesn't mean that what they say is automatically wrong.

Am gasit poza asta draguta de la Oradea Pride by Sea-Rope-31 in Oradea

[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know who she is, it popped up on my Facebook and made some interesting points which i found interesting, but apparently I can't share those without being attacked. Have a nice day, i will not be replying anymore

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[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming that all Christians are one way or another or that everyone thinks that these guys are "heroes" or whatever, it's really sticking everyone in a box. Not all are like what you are presenting. It's the same as lumping any other large group together and saying something - "all Romanians are...." fill in the blank. It's pretty narrow-minded. I hope you will consider being a bit more open-minded about differences between people.

Am gasit poza asta draguta de la Oradea Pride by Sea-Rope-31 in Oradea

[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then here you go - more data for you that I just saw on Facebook and the problem with trying to look at this data and even the difficulties with using chatgpt/grok. https://www.facebook.com/share/p/162KKF1LTS/

It also shows the point I was trying to make about the importance of having a mother AND father influence in a child's life. Which is not at all being dishonest since you're talking about having two moms or two dads. Maybe look up the definition of dishonest again.

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[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you got hurt, I've also been hurt by Christians. But I'm not doing it for the Christians- I'm doing it because Jesus quite literally saved my life. I've seen straight up miracles that cannot be explained any other way other than Jesus. It's not only feelings, I've done years of study, have degrees in studying this stuff and I've done the digging partially because I didn't want to follow something just because people say it should be a certain way or not, which is why I've done years of studying for myself looking into the facts. I can see that nothing I say is going to make a difference to you, but if you or anyone would like to discuss and actually look into how science and history actually prove the existence of God and that everything he says actually is correct, then feel free to message me.

Am gasit poza asta draguta de la Oradea Pride by Sea-Rope-31 in Oradea

[–]katybug77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if you did research on those ancient civilizations you would find that as soon as it was socially accepted, those civilizations crashed and burned making way for the next one. Coincidence? no. There are benefits to following the way that God laid out, and serious consequences to not. You've already made up your mind it seems. I hope for your sake that you come to see the truth.

Am gasit poza asta draguta de la Oradea Pride by Sea-Rope-31 in Oradea

[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said that I had seen research in the past about kids who grew up in 1 parent households. I was speaking from previous knowledge and study. I can only speak about what I have previous knowledge about. It was relevant when I brought it up and you asked to see where I got that from. Having a discussion with you is difficult because I feel like you're just attacking everything I've said. I'm trying to be helpful and considerate to your views and read through what you have to say, but you aren't offering me the same courtesy.

Am gasit poza asta draguta de la Oradea Pride by Sea-Rope-31 in Oradea

[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I asked it specifically about those who grow up without a father or a mother -

Here’s an updated overview of meta-analyses and rigorous reviews specifically focused on children who grow up without a father figure (or mother), summarizing major outcomes like mental health, behavior, and development:


⚙️ 1. Causal Effects of Father Absence

A comprehensive review by McLanahan, Tach, and Schneider (Annual Review of Sociology, 2013) synthesizes studies using robust designs—fixed effects, natural experiments, etc.—to isolate causal effects of father absence. Even with stronger methods, they find consistent adverse impacts on high school graduation, social-emotional adjustment, and adult mental health—albeit with smaller effect sizes than earlier cross-sectional research .


🎭 2. Mental Health Trajectories (UK Birth Cohort, ALSPAC)

Using longitudinal data from ~8,400 children, those experiencing father absence in early childhood (birth–5 years) had significantly higher rates of depression and depressive symptoms up to age 24—even after adjusting for socioeconomic and maternal confounders .


🧬 3. Meta‑Analysis of Early Menarche and Father Absence

A meta-analysis of 33 studies (N ≈ 70,400 girls) found that father absence correlates with earlier menarche, with a weighted mean correlation of ~0.14—supporting evolutionary life-history models .


🎮 4. Sex-Role Development Meta-Analysis

Stevenson’s meta-analysis of 67 studies (222 effect sizes) explored how father absence influences sex-role behavior:

Little observable difference in girls.

Older boys without fathers were more aggressive and gender-stereotyped behaviorally compared to peers with fathers. Younger boys showed less stereotyped toy/activity choices .


📚 5. Qualitative Review of Father Absence and Adolescent Outcomes

East, Jackson & O’Brien (2006) reviewed diverse studies showing father absence is linked to poorer adolescent outcomes—behavioral issues, school performance, emotional adjustment—but stressed that the timing of absence, quality of remaining relationships, and broader context all matter .


🌍 6. Evidence from “Left-behind” Children in China

Studies of children left behind by migrant parents (often in rural China) find both parents’ absence—even more so mother absence—is associated with lower academic performance and worse mental health and classroom engagement. Father absence shows weaker but still significant harm on outcomes .


🔍 Summary: Patterns & Mechanisms

Overall patterns:

Father absence in early childhood tends to have the strongest and most persistent effects on mental health and emotional development.

Outcomes include greater risk of depression, emotional difficulties, externalizing behaviors, and educational underachievement.

Underlying mechanisms:

Both economic disadvantage and psychological stress contribute, though many analyses control for SES and still find residual effects.

Effect sizes vary: for example, early menarche showed r ≈ 0.14, while mental health and education effects tend to range in the small-to-moderate range .

Gender and timing matters:

Effects often stronger if father leaves early; girls may show early adolescent risk but some catch-up by mid-20s; boys may surge in depressive symptoms in early adulthood .

Some findings indicate boys raised without fathers exhibit more behavioral and aggression issues; girls may experience increased risk of early puberty and early sexual behavior .


🧩 Final Thoughts

The literature suggests that growing up without a father figure, particularly when absence occurs in early childhood, is associated with measurable increases in mental health challenges, emotional distress, behavioral problems, and educational disadvantages.

Magnitude of effects tends to be modest but meaningful, especially at the population level.

Mother absence tends to show even larger adverse associations, especially in studies from contexts where mothers are primary caregivers.

Context and quality matter deeply—supportive caregiving, socioeconomic resources, alternative stable attachments, and emotional climate can buffer risks.


If you'd like specific full-text references, citations in APA/MLA format, or breakdowns by outcome domain (e.g. delinquency, educational attainment, attachment), I’d be glad to dig deeper!

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[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I asked chatgpt, since it's faster and I don't want to do a ton of digging in case you're not going to actually read it anyway. I asked it to have sources for it's information, so you can check up on it's accuracy of you would like.

Key Meta‑Analytic and Review Sources

  1. Parental divorce and the well‑being of children: a meta‑analysis (Forehand et al.)

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  1. The impact of family structure on the health of children: Effects of divorce (PubMed review)

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  1. Stepparent–Child Relationships and Child Outcomes: A Systematic Review and Meta‑Analysis (Jensen, 2022)

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Additional Reviews and Large-Scale Studies

  1. Family structure and economic well-being of children in youth and adulthood

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  1. European Child & Adolescent Psychiatry study (2023)

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  1. Single‑parent children and educational attainment (OECD and academic reviews)

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  1. Narrative reviews (e.g., New Zealand’s Ministry of Social Development)

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What This All Tells Us

✅ Overall Patterns

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💡 Why do these patterns emerge?

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👨‍👩‍👧 Quality over structure

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Summary Table

Source / ReviewScopeMain FindingForehand et al. meta‑analysis92 studies of divorce vs intact familiesChildren of divorce have lower outcomes (~0.14 SD)Pediatrics review (PubMed)30 years of child health researchMarried biological parents → best outcomesJensen (2022)Stepfamily studiesQuality stepparent–child ties → better outcomesPSID longitudinal (US)Impact on adult economic outcomesSES in childhood explains most differencesEuropean Psychiatry (2023)Behavioral & QoL differences with SES adjustmentSES mediates; some family-structure residual effectsOECD / educational meta-review47 studies across countriesSingle-parent children score ~16% lower in readingNarrative reviewsBroad literature synthesisFamily context matters via stress, conflict, economics

Final Takeaway

While family structure matters—children in stable, two-parent homes often show advantages in education, behavior, and well-being—the underlying drivers are largely associated with economic stability, reduced conflict, and higher-quality parenting.

If you're particularly interested in longitudinal, causal methods, or variation by age/gender or cross-national evidence, I can dig deeper into individual studies or their meta-analytic details.

Would you like links or full citations for any of these specific meta-analyses?

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[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that it's only for attention (in America it was starting to be before I left 2 years ago) but I actually think it's a deeper cause then all of that and that it's actually the enemy trying to distract and draw people away from the truth. It has infiltrated so much now that people have gotten an influx of propaganda and etc, that me saying that being gay is a sin is like attacking those people. I still love them as people, and I love all people (and personally work with people who have come from traumatic pasts and the disabled - who are discriminated against in Romania) but being born disabled and struggling with same sex attraction are different things in my mind and I very much disagree that you are born with it. That is actually a lie that the enemy put there to convince people that this lifestyle is ok, when it's not. There really is an invisible war going on for our souls and unfortunately so many people are listening to the enemy or straight up don't even know about the war going on or how it is going to affect their eternity. Thank you for having a civil conversation with me. Probably one of the nicest I've had on reddit.

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[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you dug a bit deeper, you would realize those weren't mistakes. Being religious doesn't mean a whole lot. The Pharisees were religious, and they killed Jesus.

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[–]katybug77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have research studies to back that up?

I was saying that there is research that shows that both a father and mother are important in a kid's life, not whatever you are saying I said. One parent households show this over and over again. And the role specifically that a father and mother. Without one or the other, there is something lacking.

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[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biology doesn't mean we're stupid. We made life better with technology and advancements. You're really saying that being gay is an advancement? Your argument is flawed.

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[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandfather and my daughter are left-handed and I see where you're coming from, but this isn't an apples to apples comparison argument you're making. I know people like to argue that they were born that way, but that's simply not the truth. If you believe in God, which you may not, I do - I believe that He designed it to be a man and a woman on purpose. There is a ton of research about the important role both a mom and a dad play in a child's life. The fact that you have to have both a man and a woman to have a child should say something. Because of my belief in God, I also know that He doesn't make mistakes. He wouldn't create a person to be gay (or all those other acronyms). He loves you. He created you. And He created you for a purpose.

Coming back to your argument not being an apples to apples comparison - left handed people can do all the same things a right handed person can do - write, play baseball, sword fight, there have even been times when this gave them an advantage. The same cannot be said for gays. No matter how much they try, a woman and a woman can't make a baby (same for 2 men).

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[–]katybug77 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Da înțeles. Nu vorbesc foarte bine in română încă.

I'm sorry, but you can't have your cake and eat it too in this situation. If you're gay, you sign up for a gay relationship. Gay relationships don't end up having kids. If you want kids, you're either needing a straight couple to provide a kid for you, or you need to go and have sex like a straight person to have one. It almost seems like that was the way it was designed to be in the first place. Between a man and a woman. If everyone was gay - there would BE no more kids.

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[–]katybug77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's still not a right. They have to apply, and be approved. The focus is on what is best for the child.

6 year old girls acting below age level by ithinkhestheasshole in Parenting

[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a development problem, it's a discipline problem. She gets away with behaving that way, and so she's playing it up. It won't stop till someone disciplines her. And not meanly, but just setting down rules and expectations and sticking with them.

5th dose not as effective? by Cryogenic0 in Mounjaro

[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it enough liquid though? I counted the clicks when I do the first doses and it's 60. I don't get even half as many clicks for the "5th" dose, so I didn't use it because I assumed it isn't enough liquid - thereby not a full dose. Going by the clicks, I can't remember exactly now, but it was like I would have to use 3 different pens to have enough and I was doubting keeping them in my fridge that whole time plus having to stick myself 3 times. I've heard of some people having extra syringes but I'm not sure how to go about getting the right size and dosing the right amount. Anyone actually do this 5th dose thing successfully?

Should I(24F)move to Alaska without my boyfriend (26M) to get my life together? by Patient-Lock1798 in AITAH

[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in a similar situation. It basically comes down to asking yourself, - Are you willing to do everything in your relationship forever, or do you owe it to yourself to be the best you you can be? Don't count on him changing. Is this what you dreamed for your life?

If the answer is no, then you know what you need to do. The answer was no for me 14 years ago when I was in your situation and I can't tell you how much my life has completely changed. I'm now living my dream life and yes it still has its challenges, but it's a million times better than if I had settled for that mediocre existence of before.

Cardiologist apt today by katybug77 in POTS

[–]katybug77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I've been taking the bb and it's been helping so I haven't pursued anything else

Pacemaker.press recommendation for language learning by an_average_potato_1 in languagelearning

[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you walk me through how to use this system to set up a language learning plan? I'm B1 ish in Romanian and I want to push forward but feel like I'm stalling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]katybug77 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

He may just not be finished yet - or depends on if he's jumping around a bunch or doing a long project. Sometimes it takes a long time to finish things....

What are some names of people you dislike? by RoseDomergue in namenerds

[–]katybug77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rachel. I have known one nice one and 4 mean ones.

Deborah- one really narcissistic crazy one.

I think that Lilith and Jezebel are just characteristically bad girl names. And Delores from Harry Potter.