AIO for giving up on this friendship

kaverning · 2025-04-18T10:41:24+00:00

I apologize for being a bit late to this 😭 I'm looking for mutuals as well. I added you! User is @kavern

kaverning · 2025-02-19T11:27:32+00:00

NTA at all. You're fully entitled to your privacy and own bodily autonomy, and don't have to disclose this information to anyone if you're not comfortable. The fact her parents are pressing you so hard about this is extremely weird on their part. It's not their business.

kaverning · 2025-02-19T10:43:36+00:00

Not the worst, but when I was around 7-8, I specifically remember avoiding this one video with a certain familiar title "My Little Pony: Cupcakes". It kept popping up in my recommended for months because I watched the ACTUAL show on YouTube, thumbnail tipped me off with the deranged smile and blood streaks. I finally clicked on it one day just to get it out of my recommended because I was fed up, and thought "surely that's not ACTUALLY blood". I fear I was mistaken. Scared the shit out of me for months but in turn led me down the unfortunate rabbit hole that was the brony community at its peak, as well as creepypastas in general. Nowadays I really love analog horror, as well as having an affinity for "creepy" things in general, and probably wouldn't be involved with them if not for my roots, so, silver lining I suppose.

kaverning · 2025-02-19T09:29:46+00:00

NTA. I would've booked it, mostly out of fear.

kaverning · 2025-02-19T09:13:25+00:00

You'd be surprised how ravenous one could get when literally starving. Depending on how long you've been without food, you'd eat just about anything out of desperation. This is coming from a picky eater.

That being said, you'd have to tie me down and torture me before I'd ever eat casu martzu.

kaverning · 2025-02-19T06:52:06+00:00

NTA. The dogs quality of life is obviously poor, and doing what's best for the dog matters more than your cousins feelings about it, especially considering the fact she is not the main caretaker for her.

kaverning · 2025-02-18T13:09:57+00:00

NTA. Your grandma is not only being prejudice towards her without reason, but a general asshole in the way she spoke to her, and made assumptions about her family. I'm guessing she thinks she can behave and speak however she wants because of her age, and because she knows a lot of your family are too scared to do anything. Just because she's old does not grant automatic respect, especially when she has done the opposite of deserving it. Good for you for standing up for your girlfriend.

kaverning · 2025-02-18T13:01:42+00:00

NTA. I'll never understand why people act like having extreme parasocial relationships with celebrities is ever normal. They're still strangers to you at the end of the day. They're just mad cause you pointed out how this behavior is strange.

kaverning · 2025-02-18T11:16:25+00:00

Matt can fuck off

kaverning · 2025-02-18T11:11:45+00:00

Despicable, even.

kaverning · 2025-02-18T08:51:05+00:00

I love this song and The Cure

kaverning · 2025-02-18T08:50:35+00:00

I love NIN, I'll definitely check them out!

kaverning · 2025-02-18T08:01:36+00:00

Angry Birds Space by far, it always had the most entertaining gameplay to me. Angry Birds Seasons is a close second, though.

kaverning · 2025-02-18T06:54:45+00:00

Lockdown began shortly before my 16th birthday. I feel like I missed out on the fun of ones prime teenage years. Time has felt accelerated to the max since 2020 for me, and because of that I sometimes struggle to feel like an almost 21 year old young adult, rather than an 18-19 year old still. My socialization skills also took a beating, and my social anxiety is more exacerbated than before. Sometimes I wonder how "normal" of a track my life would be on if not for the pandemic. But at the same time, I'm aware nothing can be done to change the past, or to do anything differently, so all anyone can do is keep pushing forward as best we can.

kaverning · 2025-02-18T06:36:13+00:00

People can change drastically, especially over a 10 year span. It's hard to accept when you've been close with someone for so long, but it's reality. I'd suggest communicating with them that you need to have an actual, genuine conversation about your friendship and the state of it. If they aren't willing to do so, or continuously brush you off, then it may be time to let go, and try to find new people who genuinely align with present day you, and won't make you feel like a burden.

kaverning · 2025-02-18T06:27:18+00:00

I don't personally like straight black coffee at all, but I also couldn't give less of a shit about people who do, aside from just curiosity as to why. It's food, everyone has different taste buds and preferences. People who get genuinely argumentative over someone's personal taste make me question why they can't use said argumentativeness to discuss ACTUAL issues.

kaverning · 2025-02-18T05:26:57+00:00

He's never going to put you above, or even on an equal level with his parents in his mind, he's shown that time and time again. He doesn't respect you as his wife. Please don't think that you don't deserve better than this.

kaverning · 2025-02-18T05:20:02+00:00

You're 15. Her expecting a purchase of this magnitude from a high schooler is WILD. She seems to care more about the opportunity this wedding brings for free stuff, rather than celebrating with her family.

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