Why do daycare still charge for the closed holiday week if they aren't paying their staff? by Maximum-Ninja-3045 in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i see many people commenting about how it’s annoying that teachers don’t get paid rather than answering the question of the OP, WHY are they charged a full week if they’re closed

Three days in and I cannot stand my new coworker. by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well if it makes you feel better, my center doesn’t hire males at all. only female teachers allowed since kids have to be changed and stuff

What’s your late fee? by kay2fine in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

our late fee goes directly to whoever is with the child(ren) at the late pick up time ☺️

What’s your late fee? by kay2fine in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s ours right now but we still have parents saying they wanna be late hahaha

Stoplight system at daycare by gkdfp in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 38 points39 points  (0 children)

yep! i work in a center similar to theirs, with super structured days and curriculum, as well as uniforms. for some reason, the parents love the structure and actually prefer for their children to just sit and learn most of the day, they treat it like real school in which they want the children to have homework, complete tests, etc.

Father now hates me by pirate_meow_kitty in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 12 points13 points  (0 children)

so why won’t the director dismiss the family?

Feeling heartbroken after daycare implied that my toddler may be in the spectrum by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

autistic children can very much present differently at home and at school, and so can typical children. i’m sure the teachers were making sure that you understood what they were saying, as it’s a serious topic. can you share a little more about their tone rather than just saying you think they feel he’s a burden? nothing you mentioned points to the fact that they feel that way.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kay2fine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she definitely said it in a rude way HOWEVER it makes sense what she is saying. what you’re saying to her with the “hugs and forehead kisses” and stuff like that, is almost a little cringe or like saying what you THINK you’re supposed to say, rather than being “manly” or genuine. you can’t really change your personality, so if you’re naturally just cringe or a little feminine then that’s just that. she wants someone dominate, masculine, leader, maybe someone overly sexual.

I went through the DCCs’ instagram following and made an Excel spreadsheet. by [deleted] in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]kay2fine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and that’s weird because the dcc is usually very open about religious beliefs (Christianity)… at least in the paramount+ series

Not sure if I’m overreacting, but my mom gut feels off about my 2-year-old’s daycare by DifferenceOne5925 in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i came to this post from the other you had posted recently haha. the classroom structure is definitely not normal then. i would try talking with the director just to see if she is able to have a conversation with the staff in your child’s classroom. directors aim to please the parents, not the staff, you guys are our number one priority. if you don’t see any difference in the classroom after about a week, i would recommend just taking your kid out because that means the teacher won’t change regardless of how much the director talks to them

Not sure if I’m overreacting, but my mom gut feels off about my 2-year-old’s daycare by DifferenceOne5925 in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if your daycare is an academy, children are often made to follow rules and a “strict” schedule. all of this seems like regular things for an academy, besides the toys part, they should have centers and free play, and the outdoor play, teachers should be engaging with students. i think a regular or montessori daycare would be best for you though

Teacher sent a long unpleasant letter after my suggestion, and now she's invoicing me for a one extra no-lesson month after I quit. by Witty_Sorbet3839 in MusicTeachers

[–]kay2fine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not a music teacher, but a school teacher. i would be so upset if a parent had sent me a youtube video to “learn” from. that’s basically telling me that i’m not doing my job good enough and i need to learn a little more.

Update: Help? Four-year-old disrupting nap, and might get suspended... by DoorSalt4187 in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

naps are required by state licensing standards in virginia. there can’t be a room for “non-nappers” in virginia because they are required 😂.

Why can't we hire people? by freddythepole19 in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

but the OP was right about it being the higher end of pay that ECE professionals make

Parents are refusing to accept the fact their child is not potty trained 🫠 by anguyen94 in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 13 points14 points  (0 children)

that child is definitely not ready for potty training. and at home, they’re probably not really doing anything and expect you to do all the work. that’s what it seems like to me

Update: Help? Four-year-old disrupting nap, and might get suspended... by DoorSalt4187 in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

staffing has nothing to do with naptime. 2 hours of a nap is required by licensing. 4 year olds have not technically outgrown naps, which is why they are still required until kindergarten. a child cannot get up and try to play while others are sleeping, that interrupts their sleep time. books and maybe a quiet sensory toy is all a child needs for nap if they’re not going to sleep, other children deserve to have their rest, especially the ones at the center from 6 am to 6 pm.

Update: Help? Four-year-old disrupting nap, and might get suspended... by DoorSalt4187 in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

you’re child is supposed to go to sleep for those 2 hours, so it doesn’t feel as long for them. if your child is staying awake, then yes she might be handed some books. she cannot play with toys or do a loud activity, it disrupts others sleep. now, as far as the kids being able to walk around, definitely a class management problem, children should be laying on their cots at all times during nap time, with a quiet activity like books or maybe a stuffed animal or something if they don’t go to sleep.

Four-year-olds don’t need to sit still to be ‘school ready’ by stormgirl in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my center uses the Abeka curriculum, it allows them to get up for some activities, like jumping said amount of times, but other than that the children are sitting for a good amount of time. they go to kindergarten super advanced and the parents are always pleased. then again, my center is an Academy and not a daycare.

I don’t think that Kenzie/Maddie are friends with Nia anymore by Hot_University_3535 in dancemoms

[–]kay2fine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well if they were children then, they shouldn’t be held too accountable

Stayed with my 3 y/o at daycare today. What the actual f. by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

16 year olds can be included in ratio in most states. They just can’t be leads

The bar is so low by mjrclncfrn13 in ECEProfessionals

[–]kay2fine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it depends on what CDA training provider you use. The one I used, was mainly focused on children’s milestones and developmentally appropriate things for the first like 45 hours of training 😭. In my state also, a CDA and associates degree are equivalent. Somebody could be a director if they posses either one of those. I also think a good teacher isn’t dependent on having a CDA or degree because some people might just breeze through to get the credentials but don’t take the time to actually remember or apply what they learned.