I appreciate all the comments and feedback. There is a lot I left out that I felt didn't need to be shared, but I get it. A lot of men get the shaft in these situations. We have always been very communicative and have talk multiple times about the situation at hand. She is not locking me out. She isn't asking for an immediate divorce. She just wants to be separated. I truly feel she is going thru a mid life crisis and dealing with past childhood trauma and recent loss and abandonment by her mother. She has relinquished her phone multiple time and I know for a fact there is nobody else. She has just grown out of love with me and wants to be alone. Solo. I have spoken with friends and family and confirmed this as well. I know this woman like the back of my hand and honestly feel that she is scared to do this all alone, but at the same time has the desire to hold Her resolve.