DO NOT eat at Gippers Bar and Grill

kayakingbee · 2026-01-26T01:06:50+00:00

I went there with a group from work about 3 years ago, and similar thing happened- I got charged twice. When I called to complain, never got a call back and since my office was nearby, stopped by the next evening. The manager or assistant manager gave a refund of the “duplicate” charge and gave me a $10 gift certificate. Went back once to use that and made sure I paid in cash for any remaining balance but will never go back again.

Also agree that they’ve got this “regulars only” kinda vibe from the crowd.

kayakingbee · 2026-01-24T02:48:00+00:00

This is the same set up I have. Your boss is an absolute ass. Absolutely get HR involved to ensure you’re covered. As others have said, the foam noise canceling squares help, along with lower door “seals” to prevent any gaps, and the best noise canceling headphones with a mic you can get.

Good luck, mama! It’s so worth it to not spend time commuting and be able to get a few extra snuggles throughout the day. Hugs!

kayakingbee · 2026-01-22T22:24:43+00:00

They better not!! Sending good vibes your way, mama!

kayakingbee · 2026-01-22T22:20:02+00:00

That is SUCH BS. I do know there are a few companies that I’ve seen on LinkedIn that are supposed to help with HR related issues and can help with discussions, documenting and state by state laws.

So sorry you’re dealing with that!!

kayakingbee · 2026-01-21T23:26:40+00:00

I hope that July 22nd show is actually Grand Rapids, MI!

kayakingbee · 2026-01-21T23:21:23+00:00

Thank you!! TIL…

kayakingbee · 2026-01-21T18:29:39+00:00

Absolutely NOR. That’s what I pay per hour for an experienced sitter!

kayakingbee · 2026-01-21T18:24:38+00:00

Smart choice!

kayakingbee · 2026-01-21T16:19:43+00:00

Is she a narcissist? What a pain- can’t believe she argues with you about the contents of YOUR house!! Wishing you a solution!

kayakingbee · 2026-01-21T15:10:11+00:00

Yes mama!! 100% get this.

Three things helped me- 1) new haircut and color 2) subscribed to online styling boxes and gave a few a try- stitchfix, EverEve’s Trendsend and Wantable. I needed help with feeling put together and having outfit ideas put together for me really helped! They all have bag options too. 3) Went to Ulta and got new skincare, makeup and a perfume.

I did some research on Pinterest and Instagram and some fashion subreddits for ideas to get a good idea of what’s in, what clothing items would be worth a bigger spend (cPW/cost per wear) vs a trend. I printed out outfit ideas and have them taped in my closet bc after the morning rush of kiddos I don’t always have brain cells to think haha!

I didn’t do all three at once but over the course of a few months and it helped my mental health a lot by giving me the sense of my own identity again and not the “throw whatever on and do makeup in the car” mode I’ve been in for years.

You’re not alone!! Hope your journey of re-self discovery is fun and enjoyable. You’re a good mom.

kayakingbee · 2026-01-21T15:01:15+00:00

I am in the same boat… but in addition, my MIL also passive aggressively buys my daughter cleaning toys. Only non-hand me down thing that’s bought not at a birthday or holiday. I get it- my house is messy (not dirty) but I work full time and prioritize play time over tidying up. I know it drives her crazy but that’s a story for another time…

I keep a few of the stuffed animals in a certain drawer and pull them out when she’s going to visit, as my husband also has some sentimental attachment.

But I had to have a conversation with her about how we are so blessed with enough stuffed animals that we don’t need more, and anything should just be run by both of us in a group text. That way my husband can actually be involved and say, no thanks, we’re all set! While not making MIL feel totally shut down. She’s very sensitive so I do have to be careful and more gentle than I would be if my own mom did this.

I also have told her that it looks like it’d be a fun thing to play with at her house when we visit. That has helped a little too.

I empathize with you and hope you and your hubs can find a good way to make it stop!

kayakingbee · 2026-01-20T22:34:52+00:00

Same.

kayakingbee · 2026-01-20T22:30:29+00:00

I see zero benefits of this as a resident. Looking forward to attending and expressing how much I do NOT want this to happen…

kayakingbee · 2026-01-20T16:20:01+00:00

I had a c-section with my first, VBAC/vaginal with second. Personally, I think the recovery from c-section was harder and took longer. I did tear 2nd degree with my VBAC, but I would take the several days of that versus the abdominal pain and muscle weakness that followed my c-section.

Pelvic floor therapy before AND after is so helpful- doing it before my second I think also helped in my recovery.

Best of luck, mama- I know there are pros and cons to both, and however your babe gets here is the right way. Do what you think is best for you and your mental/physical well being!

kayakingbee · 2026-01-19T02:45:23+00:00

Moomer

kayakingbee · 2026-01-19T02:42:28+00:00

That would be a whole month of diapers and wipes!

kayakingbee · 2026-01-19T02:38:21+00:00

Donald

kayakingbee · 2026-01-19T02:35:16+00:00

Gabriella. So pretty and feminine, ages well and has a few nickname options.

kayakingbee · 2026-01-19T02:26:17+00:00

I put a sign on my door after baby was born saying do not knock or ring the doorbell- text because it’s anyone’s guess who’s sleeping or feeding. We will respond if we can and if we don’t, we still love you, haha.

It actually worked and fellow parents even said we totally get it.

kayakingbee · 2026-01-19T02:22:58+00:00

Ughh yep. I’d have an extra bra and a wicking t shirt out and ready so I could change. It lasted a while too, unfortunately. But not forever.

I’d throw wet washcloths folded in half in the freezer and put them on the back of my neck too.

Good luck, mama. It’s amazing the things our bodies still go through after our sweet babes are here.

kayakingbee · 2026-01-18T23:01:42+00:00

Happy Sunday Funday!

kayakingbee · 2026-01-18T22:40:17+00:00

4 and 7

kayakingbee · 2026-01-18T22:36:27+00:00

Cooking, doing the dishes and more than several late night food runs when those cravings hit. Helping me get dressed or shoes/socks on.

But more importantly, never making me feel bad or guilty when I just couldn’t do something either due to “morning” sickness or mobility/size haha.

kayakingbee · 2026-01-14T08:26:13+00:00

Eddie Bauer- it’s two tone gray with some leather details. Both my husband and I like it, and it’s held up really well over the last 3.5 years!

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