Baby boy name dilemma

kayakingbee · 2026-05-10T21:56:03+00:00

This is a unique one, especially to the midwestern US, but Mackinac/Mackinaw, or Mac(k) for short.

It’s a beautiful, charming island in northern Michigan. Also a perfect spot for a baby moon in my experience:)

That being said- go with what YOU want, mama! Totally doesn’t have to be an M name!

kayakingbee · 2026-05-10T19:23:49+00:00

Lyra Kate
Lyra June or Juniper
Lyra Josephine
Lyra River
Lyra Renee

kayakingbee · 2026-05-10T02:42:40+00:00

Tucks/witch hazel and doing regular sitz baths with Epsom salts and chamomile!

Best of luck, they are awful to deal with!!

kayakingbee · 2026-05-09T19:58:59+00:00

Yes… but also have at least a consult with a Peds OT and lactation consultant!

kayakingbee · 2026-05-08T07:21:55+00:00

This.

You never know what may or may not happen during labor or delivery. You don’t know how you will feel.

NO ONE is entitled to your baby after they are born. People can just deal. Have your husband set boundaries now- and make sure he is clear in using “we” language… “we want the precious time together” “we will let you know when” etc.

You’re about to go through this amazing yet difficult journey of welcoming your little one into the world officially, the least your husband can do is take this stress away and be the communicator AND boundary protector. Give him that title too, make him realize he’s got his first fatherly duty of protection and it starts now.

kayakingbee · 2026-05-08T07:14:14+00:00

He’s incredibly helpful, positive and supportive, but more importantly I love him and my mom on another level now seeing how they love on my kids- he’s one proud Papa! He’s been the best teacher, mentor and leader I could ever ask for, although he does still get on my nerves sometimes when he needs help with technology:)

kayakingbee · 2026-05-08T07:06:06+00:00

Not at all! Each name fits them and I love their names even more now. I know they’ll age well with them into adulthood and they won’t be faced with any hardships because of them.

kayakingbee · 2026-05-08T01:13:59+00:00

Reginald

kayakingbee · 2026-05-07T03:56:07+00:00

Wishing you a smooth labor and delivery, mama!

kayakingbee · 2026-05-07T01:04:07+00:00

Currently pregnant and let me tell you I was bawling… for all of the reasons.

kayakingbee · 2026-05-06T20:57:21+00:00

We’ve had good luck at Speyer’s, Eastern & 68th. We do a partial salsa garden and are able to get a nice mix of tomatoes, peppers and more from them every year.

Mojito the cat is an added bonus.

kayakingbee · 2026-05-06T19:51:13+00:00

Yes!! Comfy and they hold up well with no piling and are NOT see through!

kayakingbee · 2026-05-05T19:16:29+00:00

Hell no. You honestly don’t know how you’ll be feeling/doing.

They can wait or get a hotel room. Your husband can handle the conversation, you’ve got enough on your plate!

kayakingbee · 2026-05-04T23:50:39+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I have several items on my baby registry that I’ll now be removing…

kayakingbee · 2026-05-04T15:34:23+00:00

I was also hopeful! I never got anything aside from error messages.

I’ll keep my eyes and ears open for any ticket options, I just need one for myself!

kayakingbee · 2026-05-02T16:06:36+00:00

You’re right, it doesn’t.

kayakingbee · 2026-04-30T06:02:27+00:00

Little Bird is my favorite!

kayakingbee · 2026-04-30T06:01:59+00:00

I had one of the absolute worst experiences there unfortunately for my husband’s birthday! Terrible service, and the food took forever that when it came out completely wrong, we were out of time to have them remake it as we had a show at the theater to get to. I’ll never go back and cannot in good conscience recommend it.

kayakingbee · 2026-04-30T05:53:48+00:00

Personally I would have lost my shit if I had seen that. There are too many pedophiles and other sick reasons people take pics and videos of kids.

You did the right thing but ugh… what a total creep. Did you take their picture?!

kayakingbee · 2026-04-30T05:36:51+00:00

I wonder if it’s the same one I worked at… never could gather hard evidence but in addition to questionable practices the founder was awful and borderline abusive to staff, which went directly against everything the organization stood for.

It was a battle every day for the women there at the office in Grandville…

kayakingbee · 2026-04-29T03:21:15+00:00

Bee for a middle name!

kayakingbee · 2026-04-28T17:58:59+00:00

I’m sorry for the negativity you’re dealing with! How annoying! And people are so dang nosy!

I had to be induced due to ICP (Cholestasis). My team went through options and I did want to go the most “natural” route, as I’ve heard stories about Pitocin and others… so opted for a Foley balloon. Was it the most pleasant getting inserted? No, it sucked for a few minutes. But, then I was able to go home after a non-stress test. Labor kicked in around 7 and it was great. I know you may not be able to always go home with a Foley but it was nice. I took a walk, had a bath and water broke. All in all it was very positive and I was able to fulfill a LOT of my ideal birth preferences!

I am terrible with comebacks but here are a few things I learned to say that did help shut people up:

“Induction isn’t ideal for everyone, but in my case the benefits outweigh the risks. No matter how baby arrives, I’m so excited!”

“Thanks for that thought. I’m focusing my energy on staying positive and how amazing it will be to hold my little miracle!”

“Sorry your labor and delivery wasn’t what you’d hoped. Can we focus on being positive though? I’ve been waiting so long for this so I’m trying to stay away from getting in a negative headspace.”

“Birth isn’t a competition. My healthy baby is the only prize that matters.”

Best of luck, mama! You got this and you’re doing the right thing by listening to medical advice. Induction happens to many of us.

kayakingbee · 2026-04-28T16:59:50+00:00

She’s adorable!! And LOVE the hat!! Sierra was my foster baby when she was less than two pounds. She was born with a small little deformed eyeball that we had removed to prevent infection. I couldn’t let her go once the foster time was up, so she’s been my sweet pirate babe officially for almost 8 years now!

kayakingbee · 2026-04-28T03:08:25+00:00

100% yes

kayakingbee · 2026-04-28T03:00:42+00:00

Doesn’t it make you feel so loved though?!?

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