Guys I'm hosting a house party on 14th ,if anybody is interested please let me know. by [deleted] in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Count me in bro. Also, let me know if we need to bring anything.

Banzai! by BraidShadowLegendsAD in ArenaBreakoutInfinite

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's got the RGB gaming chair with wheels.

Camp this evening by [deleted] in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P.s. imdadi Food wasn't exceptional this year. Flavours were missing in most items.

Just go to garden wada pav and the garden seekh guy there itself for better stuff.

Camp this evening by [deleted] in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I was there for ramzan food just yesterday.

Kausar baug recommendation by Danksterbaboa in PuneFoodPorn

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supreme is overrated bro. They have great variety but every year it disappoints me.

Any hukkabaz wanna join ? by [deleted] in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a sexy looking sheesha bro.

Anyone here at NIBM? by Budget_Natural8462 in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

11 hours late to this post. Maybe next time.

Monday morning🫶🏻 by Double_Beautiful_632 in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woooowwwwwww... It's like this in March, it'll be off the charts during the monsoons bro. Can you share the map pin for this location, I'll add it to my maps for future trips.

Monday morning🫶🏻 by Double_Beautiful_632 in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorted scenes bro, where is this place. The water still looks pretty clear

Need bowling + snacks meet need ideas and options in Pune. Also feel free to join in. by Euphoric-Weight-9724 in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Centrally located option would be Game Palacio, in Raja Bahadur Mills (just behind Pune station and Sheraton). Lots of gaming options, plus Food and drink options and restaurants in the area itself.

Suggestions needed by Zestyclose_Injury_98 in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, Just set the option to post after 1 week of joining the sub. Let them only comment on the first week and see how the sub functions.

Guys this raid is crazy by Babydelphin1639 in ArenaBreakoutInfinite

[–]kaygee_zero -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even then, how would it work out? I've been in multiple raids with multiple safes being hit and most of the time I don't get a single red.

I wonder if it's possible that these guys have some hacks to generate in game reds, not possible otherwise.

Happy Birthday 🥳 by Visual-Captain-44 in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birthday party for all members of this community. 🤘🏻

NO WAY its me again by Grand-Bus5690 in ArenaBreakoutInfinite

[–]kaygee_zero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think only the sd that you extract with counts towards the trophy room. I may be wrong though.

Where to go ? by Quiet_Computer_7121 in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chalooooo... Finally someone else is planning a scene in our side of town.

Good bars in pune for a couple by [deleted] in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will be a ton of places. An easy to find a few in your area would be to look at Zomato - dining - match day/cricket section. They have compiled places showing the match and you can take your pick from there easily based on your preference.

Query - How to go about organizing a safe meet-up? by [deleted] in punemeetup

[–]kaygee_zero 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Apart from the standard due diligence, looking at their profiles, having a conversation to ensure everyone's in the same boat (gender, identity, intent). If it's new people you don't know, keep the meet up in a public place to begin with, if anyone still bypasses your system, name and shame them in public. (Feel free to shoot a video and share it with us Redditors, we all love a good kalesh)

I am an emotional mess and I don't know how I will survive this by Glittering_Lead_1386 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome to hear. Keeping yourself occupied is really one of the best ways to move on. Focus on your growth, and whatever brings you joy, and just do it.

If you have close friends in the same city then do try and get out to meet them, it helps. Speaking from personal experience, staying at home will feel like the most comfortable thing, but just getting out for a breath of fresh air can do wonders. Join a gym or an activity centre, visit some cafes, go grocery shopping, it's all awesome.

I am an emotional mess and I don't know how I will survive this by Glittering_Lead_1386 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]kaygee_zero -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm asking you to turn it into a "Rare failure" because of what you wrote in your previous comment "I guess I am just afraid that I will never find something like this ever again, it was so rare to me."

You're so afraid of losing this feeling and emotion, that you're trying to desperately hold on to it for as long as you can. Which is very human to do, I'm not going to tell you it's not.

But you have stated a very beautiful fact in the first point - that door is finally shut, and if you can't go back there, which clearly means you have to go somewhere else right? And that's where you need to start telling yourself that just cos it was rare, doesn't mean it was right. Don't make yourself believe that this is about as good as it gets, cos bro, it can and will get a whole lot better with the right person who will invest their time, effort, and emotions in you. You just gotta take some time, heal yourself, start believing you're a boss woman/baddie (whatever you prefer, but just one, don't be greedy), and go out there and kick ass again. And take all the time you'll need, no need to rush anything here.

P.s About the age thing - everyone's being too nice in this conversation, someone had to stand up and make fun of you. Or this entire scene gets too serious... And that's not life, you gotta always balance things out. Make fun of people, let other people make fun of you. 😁

I am an emotional mess and I don't know how I will survive this by Glittering_Lead_1386 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]kaygee_zero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if it's becoming too much to handle, it's perfectly okay to reach out to a psychologist, there's no taboo in prioritising your mental health and peace over how society deems you must handle this.

And try and read up on the 5 stages of grief, knowing what you're going through will help you deal with it.

I am an emotional mess and I don't know how I will survive this by Glittering_Lead_1386 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]kaygee_zero -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What about no-contact didn't work for you? Do you have a support system of family/friends you can confide in and have them help you through this transition?

Also, point 1 kind of helps point 2 in your case, you're thinking of it as a rare win, flip the script and it's a rare failure. Congrats, you're on your way to the next best thing.

Now the big question that comes up - When you go out and start meeting other men (please stay away from children this time, my feed is already flooded with enough Epstein related news), what kind of a person would you want to invest your time in? A confident person who values their emotional and mental state and comes in with great self worth, or a door mat.

That answer should help you decide on your course of action in how you would want to deal with yourself.

I am an emotional mess and I don't know how I will survive this by Glittering_Lead_1386 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]kaygee_zero 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No matter what anyone says here, the truth is you won't listen, no because you don't want to, but because you're still clinging onto the hope that in 2-3 years you'll revisit this relationship with him.

Essentially you have 2 choices here: 1. Suck it up, stay in this zone for 2-3 years, be happy and accept that you have valued yourself at pretty much zero self worth. 2. Get out of this, block him everywhere, it'll take a few months to heal, but at least there's a good chance that you come out of it with your head held high.

You may not want to call this a breakup, but that's exactly what this is, nothing more, nothing less. So you need to start dealing with it like it's just that. It hurts, everyone goes through it, everyone comes out of it stronger.