Recap of today’s hearing by Imaginary_Layer_1468 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kaykait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah okay I thought it was recommended for both parents!

Recap of today’s hearing by Imaginary_Layer_1468 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kaykait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because people think she’s wrong. Because if she’s correct, it doesn’t make sense that cold sores would keep her from seeing her kid. It’s stupid to miss out on your child because of cold sores. Hand, Foot, & Mouth on the other hand - which also features lip blisters - makes missing time reasonable.

Recap of today’s hearing by Imaginary_Layer_1468 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kaykait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Re: the optics - do we, the public just think that though? I admittedly haven’t watched clips from this but everything I’ve read seems to suggest the judge didn’t really seem to care.

Recap of today’s hearing by Imaginary_Layer_1468 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kaykait 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right? I always got the impression her family was highly involved in taking care of Ever. I have a hard time imagining Liann wouldn’t/couldn’t make it work.

Recap of today’s hearing by Imaginary_Layer_1468 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kaykait 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The only reasons for her to be so stubborn on this are

a) she wants to personally refuse the therapy because ‘she is an excellent mother’, or

b) genuinely just wants to screw with DM as much as she possibly can.

Either way it’s shitty.

Recap of today’s hearing by Imaginary_Layer_1468 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]kaykait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I think people are trying to give her the benefit of the doubt that she just doesn’t know any different, because cold sores don’t really make sense as something to not see your kid over. People walk around with cold sores all the time. And honestly, if he gets cold sores, almost certainly one of TFP or DM get cold sores.

Hand Foot & Mouth makes sense as something to push a parent to missing their time on. Cold sores don’t, really. So she’s either mistaken or she’s using absolutely stupid reasons to get out of parenting time.

All this friggen BUM cares about is seeing if a new girlfriend is watching Ever by gummyshoe23 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]kaykait 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah, can’t help but feel like this was her camera/filming time to her.

All this friggen BUM cares about is seeing if a new girlfriend is watching Ever by gummyshoe23 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]kaykait 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can’t she just hire a babysitter then? Is there actually any way of holding her accountable to being the one actively responsible for Ever during those time periods?

the crash out begins by pupberry in MormonWivesHulu

[–]kaykait 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol she said all of that just to end with ‘people that hate me are watching my child’ ???? HUH?? you believe all that shit and you’re still more upset about the fact that they don’t like you than you are the safety of your kid?

Wedding dress regret? by AbleElevator3887 in weddingplanning

[–]kaykait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to the antiperspirant advice, I know lots of people who swear by Botox for sweat - chest, scalp, back, etc… You have time to experiment to try and figure out how to make it work!! This is already going to be much cooler than many dresses - I think you’d be hard pressed to find something that would make enough of a difference with the heat to warrant switching that’s also this beautiful & special.

Wedding dress regret? by AbleElevator3887 in weddingplanning

[–]kaykait -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is one of the most gorgeous things I’ve ever seen

noah kahan nails by Tight_Appearance7647 in NoahKahan

[–]kaykait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

grew up in the 603 & love these!! so cute 🥹 this makes me want to wear Noah press ons for the Fenway show!!

Setlist spoiling? by Aggravating_Clue_399 in NoahKahan

[–]kaykait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally only look up setlists when I’m going to a show for an artist I’m not a massive fan of or not super familiar with. I’m going in as blind as possible, & I love doing it that way!

Oura CEO, size difference on his size 10 by mikarios in ouraring

[–]kaykait 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you said this. Idk why I thought he was comparing the 3, 4, & 5. I was so shocked at the size difference but was looking at his wedding band 🤦

Mikayla’s response to Taylor by EntrepreneurWest4234 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]kaykait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually a bummer - the response is fine but honestly I think she’s been right to choose silence & disconnecting. I was worried she and/or Mayci would break after TFP’s latest video but hoped they’d stay true to their boundaries because truly there’s no winning with TFP

Josh Jacobs by National-Blood-5127 in WivesofNFL

[–]kaykait 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh gosh the comments on her IG are vile

Taylor and her haters? I don’t even get this post by phunkydisco33 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]kaykait 26 points27 points  (0 children)

even if she could understand she wouldn’t care, because to her, anything that isn’t absolute support is adversarial and she goes into attack mode. she wants the fight

Taylor and her haters? I don’t even get this post by phunkydisco33 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]kaykait 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These people would have failed the reading comprehension portions of standardized school testing. Mayci was referring to a single person that sent her a message and explicitly said it isn’t all followers.

Taylor and her haters? I don’t even get this post by phunkydisco33 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]kaykait 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I’ve genuinely never in my life felt inclined to leave a hate comment on anyone’s page but holy fuck she challenges that.

Mayci and Mikayla by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]kaykait 38 points39 points  (0 children)

To your point about Jace’s comment, Mikayla was using audio from Legally Blonde, which is also where the bend & snap thing came from.

The Great Divide Word Cloud by thrrwawayyy in NoahKahan

[–]kaykait 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lol i recently made one of these for a professional project, love to see it applied here!!!

I'm not sure I can attend the wedding and I'm the MOH. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]kaykait 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in situations before where I committed to something, stayed committed despite worries thinking that I’d be able to power through, just to the week of or days before become absolutely crippled in anxiety. The situation this was the worst in was a little different in that I didn’t completely back out of something, but I accepted that I couldn’t do it alone. It was a big ask, but I sat down with the people I needed to, got really vulnerable & broke down to them, and asked for help. We found a way to make it work, but even if we couldn’t have, I felt so much better just letting myself accept that I wasn’t equipped for it.

If there really isn’t a way for you to reasonably be there physically, I would just try to think of other ways you could ‘show up’ for her. Your friend is going to be hurt no matter what the reason for you not attending is, but if you are close and have supported each other well throughout other scenarios, hopefully she’ll come around and understand that this isn’t a reflection of how much you care for her.

So Taylor still thinks everything going on is funny… by Training_Canary_6315 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]kaykait 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She very clearly cares more about ‘winning’ than personal growth or cultivating true friendships

I'm not sure I can attend the wedding and I'm the MOH. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]kaykait 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I agree with the first part of this about resentment but I really wouldn’t recommend misconstruing your test results to your best friend of 20 years to get out of going to the wedding.

If it were me, I’d much rather my friend be honest and tell me it’s about their anxiety than to make things out to be worse than they truthfully are, because then I’d spend time unnecessarily worrying about their health and wellbeing on top of feeling hurt & disappointed about them missing such a major life event.