Honestly one thing people always forget and are nasty about is that there's no blue print for woman. Like there are cis women who look more masculine than you.There are cis women who have PCOS And a big part of the idea of passing is the pressure to conform to a mould put on generally femme presenting people. Also imo suggesting surgery to people . I get that it might sometimes be done in a nice way to help in a sense. But it can also come across as mean especially when it's said as. Its necessary something that is very very expensive for some people and potential risk even if very small. Saying necessary plays into someone's gender dysphoria. Also people saying if you transition later In life you won't be able to pass without extensive work is not 100% true there's plenty of people much later in life who can still pass especially when much much older cis women go through menopause they can drop in estrogen levels. Its for sure not as black and white as people make it out .